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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just some advice really. Apart from posting face pics ,to which I can’t because of my job, how do I attract other people. I have tried the nice way which gets no response ,the direct way which falls flat and all other ways. I always lead with a hello how are you. An introduction. Why I am messaging and what I could offer. Always say please and thank you and am not a pest. Any help would be really appreciated. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will look at your profile. The 5 visible pics would put me off straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t. Honest answer is 95% of men on here will get absolutely nothing. People are using this site to fulfil fantasies and if someone’s profile doesn’t provide it, goodbye. Thousands more to choose from.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It is somewhat ironic that you can't show your face pic because of your job, but you can show someone else's face on your profile pic.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Cock pics.

2 in a dirty public toilet

1 hanging bareback out of someone

The best you can do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m getting the popcorn ready haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you keep doing what your doing....(makes it easier for me .hahah)

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't have face pics either but insure don't have 5 close ups of my fanny.

Do you really truly think that's what women want to see when they look at your profile? If so, then I guess any advice would fall on deaf ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock pics.

2 in a dirty public toilet

1 hanging bareback out of someone

The best you can do? "

Yep this...instant no thank you from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's with all the cock pics? It's the exact same cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your cock pics and action shot put me off right away never even went further than them.. we all have jobs you dont need to put up face pics but somthing more imaginative than ur cock

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

‘Hello how are you?’ is, in my opinion, an extremely naff way to start a message.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

You don't have to have face pics OP,but cock pics and action shots are extremely off putting .

Your profile pic alone ,would make me delete a message from you.

Add some more pics,tasteful ones such as torso,towel pic,bum etc.Use your imagination.

Also I wouldn't continue chatting if you won't supply a face pic here .We all have jobs and expect discretion .

Miss

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"Your cock pics and action shot put me off right away never even went further than them.. we all have jobs you dont need to put up face pics but somthing more imaginative than ur cock"
while I totally agree with that, it's not easy for a guy to be imaginative when you haven't extra assets

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Your cock pics and action shot put me off right away never even went further than them.. we all have jobs you dont need to put up face pics but somthing more imaginative than ur cockwhile I totally agree with that, it's not easy for a guy to be imaginative when you haven't extra assets "
it depends how imaginative the man is.....

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Cock pics.

2 in a dirty public toilet

1 hanging bareback out of someone

The best you can do?

Yep this...instant no thank you from me "

And me instant turn off and your dick looks angry you took that pic lol x

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"‘Hello how are you?’ is, in my opinion, an extremely naff way to start a message. "

Here here I'm fed up if them is it the only sentence men seem to know on here x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"‘Hello how are you?’ is, in my opinion, an extremely naff way to start a message.

Here here I'm fed up if them is it the only sentence men seem to know on here x "

It lacks imagination so suggests they lack imagination when it comes to sex.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

[Removed by poster at 17/04/19 19:50:11]

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"‘Hello how are you?’ is, in my opinion, an extremely naff way to start a message.

Here here I'm fed up if them is it the only sentence men seem to know on here x

It lacks imagination so suggests they lack imagination when it comes to sex. "

I have just blocked a guy I have been chatting to and have met twice for the fact all I ever get off him is hi ... how are you ... hi you ok .. hi wat you doing ... jesus men just msg with what you want we know your not msg just to ask if we ok or what we doing... gets so bloody annoying ... sorry rant over xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is somewhat ironic that you can't show your face pic because of your job, but you can show someone else's face on your profile pic."

Lol yer this. Got that ladies permission for that bud?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your cock pics and action shot put me off right away never even went further than them.. we all have jobs you dont need to put up face pics but somthing more imaginative than ur cockwhile I totally agree with that, it's not easy for a guy to be imaginative when you haven't extra assets "

Bums stomachs chest thighs legs theres alot more than cocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 cock pics and you claim to be discreet but have a ladies face as your profile avatar. I'm sure she's thrilled.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Guys that have those kind of messages are not worth bothering with. They want us to 'entertain' them, wouldn't be long lasting relationship, we'd be bored!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you even bother to reply to these constant whinny posts?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Lots of people look at profiles before replying to a message.

Nuff said.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Your profile, at least to us, says:

"I haven't got a clue what women really want"

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

The huge irony of a guy mentioning discretion three times in his profile yet having a face pic of a random woman as his avater...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"People will look at your profile. The 5 visible pics would put me off straight away."

This...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It is somewhat ironic that you can't show your face pic because of your job, but you can show someone else's face on your profile pic."

...and this!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why do you even bother to reply to these constant whinny posts?"

It’s horse play

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Why do you even bother to reply to these constant whinny posts?"

In the vain hope, some may actually take notice, listen to women, change the way they view us, their attempts at impressing us.

In the hope, we won't see the same posters, wailing on here that we're all stuck up our own arses, have over inflated egos, when we don't reply, delete their messages and block them, even though they're a genuine nice polite guy

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Why do you even bother to reply to these constant whinny posts?

In the vain hope, some may actually take notice, listen to women, change the way they view us, their attempts at impressing us.

In the hope, we won't see the same posters, wailing on here that we're all stuck up our own arses, have over inflated egos, when we don't reply, delete their messages and block them, even though they're a genuine nice polite guy "

Dont forget they are discrete.... xx

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

I think most posters have summed OP,s profile to a tee....but I've got to say, PUBLIC TOILET? ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.........FFS couldn't you have done that at home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most posters have summed OP,s profile to a tee....but I've got to say, PUBLIC TOILET? ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.........FFS couldn't you have done that at home? "

why do some guys think that is going to attract a woman? Like they take one look at it and think ooooooh, I'm hot and horny looking at that, think I want me some toilet cock!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most posters have summed OP,s profile to a tee....but I've got to say, PUBLIC TOILET? ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.........FFS couldn't you have done that at home?

why do some guys think that is going to attract a woman? Like they take one look at it and think ooooooh, I'm hot and horny looking at that, think I want me some toilet cock!!"

Toilet cock!!!! dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a more colourful profile pic that stands out, cheeky bath snap, play around with timer. You say you accom...maybe some nice snaps of your 'lovenest' to entice!

Cut words to 2 paragraphs max

Happy swinging!

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land


"Just some advice really. Apart from posting face pics ,to which I can’t because of my job, how do I attract other people. I have tried the nice way which gets no response ,the direct way which falls flat and all other ways. I always lead with a hello how are you. An introduction. Why I am messaging and what I could offer. Always say please and thank you and am not a pest. Any help would be really appreciated. Thank you "

I take it that the lady whose face makes up most of your profile pic doesn’t have a job which precludes you displaying her face as your job prevents you showing yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe a more colourful profile pic that stands out, cheeky bath snap, play around with timer. You say you accom...maybe some nice snaps of your 'lovenest' to entice!

Cut words to 2 paragraphs max

Happy swinging!"

Maybe his 'lovenest' is a public loo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock pics.

2 in a dirty public toilet

1 hanging bareback out of someone

The best you can do? "

Draw a face on one at least, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock pics.

2 in a dirty public toilet

1 hanging bareback out of someone

The best you can do? "

This!!! Mine Aren’t great but public toilets!! Mate come on!

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By *opite_xWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I take it that the lady whose face makes up most of your profile pic doesn’t have a job which precludes you displaying her face as your job prevents you showing yours?"

Yeah this genuinely makes me feel a bit sick. I’m actually nervous of going to other peoples houses for meets in case of hidden cameras!

Also is anyone else not a fan of action shots?

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Been there a few times emotions can be difficult but give yourself time and try new interests. I have two now which take up lots of time and enjoyable. Will get back swinging when I feel the need too but with simmer and hot weather it's the great outdoors and beaches and chill out time too

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