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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv been on here for a while but am not very good at talking to people any tips

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Doesnt matter how good or bad at talking you are, 99% of women on here will ignore or delete your messages. Chances of getting a meet are almost impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesnt matter how good or bad at talking you are, 99% of women on here will ignore or delete your messages. Chances of getting a meet are almost impossible. "
have to disagree with you there..good manners..and a sense of humour go a long way and also the ability to read a profile.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"good manners..and a sense of humour go a long way and also the ability to read a profile."

Agreed

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Iv been on here for a while but am not very good at talking to people any tips"

Hello OP.

The only advice possible is to be yourself and to join in. For example this is your first forum post in 10 months on the site. There are plenty of silly threads (or more serious ones if you prefer) but until you use them no one will know your here. Likewise, the chatroom is a good way of getting your self involved, not to mention going to a club or social.

Look here---- https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/854947

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv been on here for a while but am not very good at talking to people any tips

Hello OP.

The only advice possible is to be yourself and to join in. For example this is your first forum post in 10 months on the site. There are plenty of silly threads (or more serious ones if you prefer) but until you use them no one will know your here. Likewise, the chatroom is a good way of getting your self involved, not to mention going to a club or social.

Look here---- https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/854947

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Very good advice and given kindly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesnt matter how good or bad at talking you are, 99% of women on here will ignore or delete your messages. Chances of getting a meet are almost impossible. have to disagree with you there..good manners..and a sense of humour go a long way and also the ability to read a profile."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Iv been on here for a while but am not very good at talking to people any tips"
in what what do you think you’re ‘not very good’. You have a huge advantage over everyone else - you’re unique. Use that fantastic advantage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"good manners..and a sense of humour go a long way and also the ability to read a profile."

This is 100% spot on!

We a few very selective. The people we have met have clearly read our profile, had good manners being patient and understanding when we initially decline to send a face Pic and continued to have a conversation with a good sense of humour, sometimes for weeks. I don't think we saw pic of their cock for any of the people we met and sometimes only asked for a face Pic just before arranging a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe make your profile sound more interesting you have put y.o. For years old dont be lazy and fill it in properly

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness


"Doesnt matter how good or bad at talking you are, 99% of women on here will ignore or delete your messages. Chances of getting a meet are almost impossible. have to disagree with you there..good manners..and a sense of humour go a long way and also the ability to read a profile."
I always use good manners, read profiles and have a sense of humour. It doesnt help, i guess women just dont like the look of me.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Maybe make your profile sound more interesting you have put y.o. For years old dont be lazy and fill it in properly"

TBH, why write your age when it's already clearly visible on your profile? If it was a long profile then the summary would be separated and it might be worth mentioning your age, but as you only 9 words in your profile it's only about an inch away and very clearly seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesnt matter how good or bad at talking you are, 99% of women on here will ignore or delete your messages. Chances of getting a meet are almost impossible. have to disagree with you there..good manners..and a sense of humour go a long way and also the ability to read a profile. I always use good manners, read profiles and have a sense of humour. It doesnt help, i guess women just dont like the look of me. "
..but your profile is very shall we say...minimal..tell people about yourself give them a insight into who you are ..etc ..

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