FabSwingers.com forum: Profile help

By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"can someone help me out with some examples?"

There are thousands of examples all around you, just go and look at other mens profiles. There are also hundreds of similar threads that you could read for generic advice.

Specifically, your age will probably go against you with many people. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself.

Your profile reads fine, and your pics are ok. A face pic helps, perhaps you could upload a few more pics though?

Join in on the forums and in the chatrooms, they are a great way of getting known by other site members, particular in your geographic area. Also take advantage of any organised socials in your area, if you get there you will meet plenty of people that will give you the time of day.