FabSwingers.com forum: Good profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do people really want out of a profile, I know people say make it stand out and show what your like but without writing a complete load of BS I really can’t think of what to put, can someone help me out with some examples?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"What do people really want out of a profile, I know people say make it stand out and show what your like but without writing a complete load of BS I really can’t think of what to put, can someone help me out with some examples?"
There are lots of threads on the forum op offering advice, just do a search for advice, profile advice, or look at other male profiles especially those with verifications

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

I have been told mine is funny tbh

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There is no magic catch all formula OP - what one person may think is good, another will not - so you just have to present the best possible version that you the individual can come up with and think works for you.

Having said that I do think it's important to get across a little about you and what you are hoping to find here, as well as what you think you can offer and getting across a little of your personality. A unique angle that helps you stand out is always good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been told mine is funny tbh"

Tbf it was actually quite funny

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

When I get a message I always read their profiles especially see if they’ve have put down if they’re straight or bi and if they’re looking for TV/TS.

If they haven’t, I make the assumption that they’re just after a shag and as long as that person has a feminine appearance it’ll do. Basically I’m a piece of meat to shag, there could be different reasons for not being honest about their attraction to TGirls but I always assume the worst.

With a Bi guy, I’m interested in what he is looking for in a Tgirl meeting, very little content very little chance in meeting.

So you get an idea why I don’t meet, so I always suggest a killer line at the top of your profile something funny that makes you want to read more about them. Your expectations in a meet and ideally what you’re looking for and interested in.

Best message I received recently was a very simple ‘you really suit being a brunette’ made me think he looked at me rather than just browsing my pictures.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I have been told mine is funny tbh"

One of the better ones

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Concise but precise is the way to go, as there are so many profiles for women and couples to read through, you don’t want them ditching yours because they got bored.

Your opening paragraph would read better like this;

I’m a hardworking guy who likes to share laughter and fun times with likeminded people whenever I can.

Also, saying; “Don’t be shy, message me” type sentences sound a bit desperate, those interested in you will contact you

All the best fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking others what to put in to make it interesting surely will make it one of those b/s profiles you are on about won't it?

It has to reflect you be about you so only you can do it.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"can someone help me out with some examples?"

There are thousands of examples all around you, just go and look at other mens profiles. There are also hundreds of similar threads that you could read for generic advice.

Specifically, your age will probably go against you with many people. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself.

Your profile reads fine, and your pics are ok. A face pic helps, perhaps you could upload a few more pics though?

Join in on the forums and in the chatrooms, they are a great way of getting known by other site members, particular in your geographic area. Also take advantage of any organised socials in your area, if you get there you will meet plenty of people that will give you the time of day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been told mine is funny tbh"

I like a gsoh

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