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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all. Just a quick question.

It is often difficult for us single guys anyway, but writing a long personalised message constantly and being deleted or just read can be very frustrating to say the least, but we persevere.

How many women or couples respond positively to winks?

I tend to wink, rather than send random message these days, but get more response this way to see mutual winking and then message from there.

But in general, what do u all prefer? A random wink or message?

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

we prefer a message, although we'll follow the odd winker up with a message or a wink sometimes and see where it goes

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the profile, I'd wink back. If they don't take it any further but if it encourages them to send a message all to the good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i get a wink i will look at the profile and see if anything matches like interests and the likes.

if not i wont respond but being honest i do at times forget about the winks

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Dont pay any attention to winks.at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I like the profile, I'd wink back. If they don't take it any further but if it encourages them to send a message all to the good. "

I accidentally deleted a chunk of text! If they don't take it any further then I certainly won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I like the profile, I'd wink back. If they don't take it any further but if it encourages them to send a message all to the good.

I accidentally deleted a chunk of text! If they don't take it any further then I certainly won't. "

yet a wink can be better than the message LOL

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

All of the above - occasionally forget about the winks, when I do have a look, if the profile catches my interest (rare, but has happened), I will wink back on the chance that the person/couple will re-read my profile and send an interesting message.... on even more rare occasions (Preston Guild springs to mind*) may message the person/couple if their profile has really kicked the shit out of my funny bone. Any profiles that consist of 2 words and the Sydney Uni shite - winks, schminks......

*Preston Guild - once every 20 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mass delete winks without looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do wink,so if people are interested they will wink back,then i message them,similarly if i am winked ,iread profile and i wink back ,so i find winks usefulxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the profile ill wink back, if I really like the profile ill send a message to that effect. Failing that, hope for a nice message back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we get a wink, we look at the profile and if we like it then either wink or message back. If the profile doesn't interest us then we delete the wink. Ms

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont look at winks just delete them as it says in my profile not to wink me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a wink is the equivalent to gays cruising, if the wink is reciprocated, then it's time to learn more about them.

But generally we ignore guys who don't have a good profile.

One question: Are 2 winks the same as a wank?

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