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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Currently looking at a mmf meet and was wondering the best way to make it work for us all with female been a bratty sub as well? Any ideas welcome xT

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

I would suggest looking for perhaps a dom to assist with the bratty female

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I have a brat.

She chooses the type of man she wants and we then work on her lovely issues.

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By *ittlesub4uWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I thought this was going to be a thread looking for bratty subs. Oh well

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"I thought this was going to be a thread looking for bratty subs. Oh well "

I think it will lead to that eventually but the mr has his hands full with me atm lol

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"I thought this was going to be a thread looking for bratty subs. Oh well

I think it will lead to that eventually but the mr has his hands full with me atm lol "
which is why mr needs additional experienced hands x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It depends what you are looking for OP - another Dom to help tame the brattiness, a guy for an MMF who is just there as an equal, not to Dom, a submissive even - you probably need to be clear about what you are looking for and discuss it with any prospective meets

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Finding 2 men who can handle a bratty sub! In the same room together at once.

Being a very bratty sub myself I know it takes a very certain type of man to handle one.

Not that I would ever slip out a wrist from a restraint when hes not looking. Might have twisted my wrist during tieing up. So it's loose for me to slip out of. I would never dream of being teid to a cross in a club. Having had my paddle placed in my mouth. For him to get easy access too. Then me launcing it across the room by me throwing it out of my mouth. I've never pre folded newspaper and placed it in my knickers before a play.

My Dom knows exactly how to reel me in. Normally with just " that look". But it's so much fun pre planning my bratty ways- to get my funishments.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"It depends what you are looking for OP - another Dom to help tame the brattiness, a guy for an MMF who is just there as an equal, not to Dom, a submissive even - you probably need to be clear about what you are looking for and discuss it with any prospective meets "

Love this, as you can't have 2 Doms. An equal to - with clear direction and boudries spoken about before play.

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"It depends what you are looking for OP - another Dom to help tame the brattiness, a guy for an MMF who is just there as an equal, not to Dom, a submissive even - you probably need to be clear about what you are looking for and discuss it with any prospective meets "

Fair point....your comment has definitely give us food for thought and something we need to discuss more. Thanku xT

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"Finding 2 men who can handle a bratty sub! In the same room together at once.

Being a very bratty sub myself I know it takes a very certain type of man to handle one.

Not that I would ever slip out a wrist from a restraint when hes not looking. Might have twisted my wrist during tieing up. So it's loose for me to slip out of. I would never dream of being teid to a cross in a club. Having had my paddle placed in my mouth. For him to get easy access too. Then me launcing it across the room by me throwing it out of my mouth. I've never pre folded newspaper and placed it in my knickers before a play.

My Dom knows exactly how to reel me in. Normally with just " that look". But it's so much fun pre planning my bratty ways- to get my funishments. "

Think your comment has definitely summed me up and then some lol. I dont want to be tamed or completely submissive as it's the brattiness in me that makes me me. (Hope that makes sense). I love to challenge and be challenged. xT

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"I thought this was going to be a thread looking for bratty subs. Oh well

I think it will lead to that eventually but the mr has his hands full with me atm lol which is why mr needs additional experienced hands x"

Would you be able to elaborate as in what way would an experienced pair of hands be able to help without excluding the mr? (Any advice would be grateful for) xT

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

On the basis of twobyfour's response:

"An equal to - with clear direction and boudries spoken about before play."

you can have a double dom situation called double domming. The other dom brings complementary or even different skills or attributes that the lead dom understands would be appreciated by the sub. E.g. if the lead dom does not really do primal but the sub and him feel it would be fun including a primal situation in a scene.

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"I thought this was going to be a thread looking for bratty subs. Oh well

I think it will lead to that eventually but the mr has his hands full with me atm lol which is why mr needs additional experienced hands x

Would you be able to elaborate as in what way would an experienced pair of hands be able to help without excluding the mr? (Any advice would be grateful for) xT"
I would gladly elaborate and offer advice but unfortunately I am excluded or unable to private message. You x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never heard of this one.... I love fab! Ha ha!

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"I thought this was going to be a thread looking for bratty subs. Oh well

I think it will lead to that eventually but the mr has his hands full with me atm lol which is why mr needs additional experienced hands x

Would you be able to elaborate as in what way would an experienced pair of hands be able to help without excluding the mr? (Any advice would be grateful for) xT I would gladly elaborate and offer advice but unfortunately I am excluded or unable to private message. You x"

Hi I think I have sorted it if you would still be willing to elaborate. Many thanks in advance xT

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"Never heard of this one.... I love fab! Ha ha!"

Same here learn something new every day

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"Finding 2 men who can handle a bratty sub! In the same room together at once.

Being a very bratty sub myself I know it takes a very certain type of man to handle one.

Not that I would ever slip out a wrist from a restraint when hes not looking. Might have twisted my wrist during tieing up. So it's loose for me to slip out of. I would never dream of being teid to a cross in a club. Having had my paddle placed in my mouth. For him to get easy access too. Then me launcing it across the room by me throwing it out of my mouth. I've never pre folded newspaper and placed it in my knickers before a play.

My Dom knows exactly how to reel me in. Normally with just " that look". But it's so much fun pre planning my bratty ways- to get my funishments.

Think your comment has definitely summed me up and then some lol. I dont want to be tamed or completely submissive as it's the brattiness in me that makes me me. (Hope that makes sense). I love to challenge and be challenged. xT"

Oh no not tamed! No one can tame a bratty sub. Just like my Dom, he would not try to put my fire out and tame me. He just reels me in, puts me in my place. Until, I come up with other brattiness challange him. I'm a sub, but not submissive in a slave way. Some Doms won't have and can't understand bratty subs. They feel a sub should be fully compliant. Now wheres the fun in that.

Are you a little? I can't message you as out of your age bracket. Drop us a message - if you like. We can come up with bratty ideas. Unfortunaly, I won't lend you my Dom. One of our proticals is that I'm won't play with other Doms. So in reverse he's not aloud to Dom others. - fem.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"On the basis of twobyfour's response:

"An equal to - with clear direction and boudries spoken about before play."

you can have a double dom situation called double domming. The other dom brings complementary or even different skills or attributes that the lead dom understands would be appreciated by the sub. E.g. if the lead dom does not really do primal but the sub and him feel it would be fun including a primal situation in a scene. "

I always love your replies - you put into words so perectly what I mean, but can't explain. If you have 2 Dom's/ alphas/tops they will be fighting to be "top dog" in the hiagracy (sp) of the play. So a conversation about who's lead Dom must be defined before sceane. Was what I was trying to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never heard of this one.... I love fab! Ha ha!

Same here learn something new every day "

Somehow think there is very little you could learn

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"Finding 2 men who can handle a bratty sub! In the same room together at once.

Being a very bratty sub myself I know it takes a very certain type of man to handle one.

Not that I would ever slip out a wrist from a restraint when hes not looking. Might have twisted my wrist during tieing up. So it's loose for me to slip out of. I would never dream of being teid to a cross in a club. Having had my paddle placed in my mouth. For him to get easy access too. Then me launcing it across the room by me throwing it out of my mouth. I've never pre folded newspaper and placed it in my knickers before a play.

My Dom knows exactly how to reel me in. Normally with just " that look". But it's so much fun pre planning my bratty ways- to get my funishments.

Think your comment has definitely summed me up and then some lol. I dont want to be tamed or completely submissive as it's the brattiness in me that makes me me. (Hope that makes sense). I love to challenge and be challenged. xT

Oh no not tamed! No one can tame a bratty sub. Just like my Dom, he would not try to put my fire out and tame me. He just reels me in, puts me in my place. Until, I come up with other brattiness challange him. I'm a sub, but not submissive in a slave way. Some Doms won't have and can't understand bratty subs. They feel a sub should be fully compliant. Now wheres the fun in that.

Are you a little? I can't message you as out of your age bracket. Drop us a message - if you like. We can come up with bratty ideas. Unfortunaly, I won't lend you my Dom. One of our proticals is that I'm won't play with other Doms. So in reverse he's not aloud to Dom others. - fem. "

Hi I have sent message to your inbox just wanted to check it's gone through. xT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a brat.

She chooses the type of man she wants and we then work on her lovely issues."

I am a brat... Jesus needs a hand haha

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"On the basis of twobyfour's response:

"An equal to - with clear direction and boudries spoken about before play."

you can have a double dom situation called double domming. The other dom brings complementary or even different skills or attributes that the lead dom understands would be appreciated by the sub. E.g. if the lead dom does not really do primal but the sub and him feel it would be fun including a primal situation in a scene.

I always love your replies - you put into words so perectly what I mean, but can't explain. If you have 2 Dom's/ alphas/tops they will be fighting to be "top dog" in the hiagracy (sp) of the play. So a conversation about who's lead Dom must be defined before sceane. Was what I was trying to say. "

Both explanations made perfect sense. Thankyou ever so much. Itll be interesting chat when his home from work now

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"Never heard of this one.... I love fab! Ha ha!

Same here learn something new every day

Somehow think there is very little you could learn "

Who me?

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"I thought this was going to be a thread looking for bratty subs. Oh well

I think it will lead to that eventually but the mr has his hands full with me atm lol which is why mr needs additional experienced hands x

Would you be able to elaborate as in what way would an experienced pair of hands be able to help without excluding the mr? (Any advice would be grateful for) xT I would gladly elaborate and offer advice but unfortunately I am excluded or unable to private message. You x

Hi I think I have sorted it if you would still be willing to elaborate. Many thanks in advance xT"
still can't sadly x pm me if you want to then maybe I can reply up to you x

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I describe myself similarly. I’m sub in nature but I am nobody’s submissive. I have had a mmmf with 2 very dominant males and one submissive male. Leaving the Dom/sub labels behind because they don’t figure in my life, this was a good dynamic for me. The 2 alpha guys really pushed us both and I had someone to giggle with and be naughty with.

I loved that night. Pushed a lot of my boundaries.

V x

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"I thought this was going to be a thread looking for bratty subs. Oh well

I think it will lead to that eventually but the mr has his hands full with me atm lol which is why mr needs additional experienced hands x

Would you be able to elaborate as in what way would an experienced pair of hands be able to help without excluding the mr? (Any advice would be grateful for) xT I would gladly elaborate and offer advice but unfortunately I am excluded or unable to private message. You x

Hi I think I have sorted it if you would still be willing to elaborate. Many thanks in advance xTstill can't sadly x pm me if you want to then maybe I can reply up to you x"

Hi I have done, hopefully it’s worked. xT

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"Finding 2 men who can handle a bratty sub! In the same room together at once.

Being a very bratty sub myself I know it takes a very certain type of man to handle one.

Not that I would ever slip out a wrist from a restraint when hes not looking. Might have twisted my wrist during tieing up. So it's loose for me to slip out of. I would never dream of being teid to a cross in a club. Having had my paddle placed in my mouth. For him to get easy access too. Then me launcing it across the room by me throwing it out of my mouth. I've never pre folded newspaper and placed it in my knickers before a play.

My Dom knows exactly how to reel me in. Normally with just " that look". But it's so much fun pre planning my bratty ways- to get my funishments.

Think your comment has definitely summed me up and then some lol. I dont want to be tamed or completely submissive as it's the brattiness in me that makes me me. (Hope that makes sense). I love to challenge and be challenged. xT

Oh no not tamed! No one can tame a bratty sub. Just like my Dom, he would not try to put my fire out and tame me. He just reels me in, puts me in my place. Until, I come up with other brattiness challange him. I'm a sub, but not submissive in a slave way. Some Doms won't have and can't understand bratty subs. They feel a sub should be fully compliant. Now wheres the fun in that.

Are you a little? I can't message you as out of your age bracket. Drop us a message - if you like. We can come up with bratty ideas. Unfortunaly, I won't lend you my Dom. One of our proticals is that I'm won't play with other Doms. So in reverse he's not aloud to Dom others. - fem.

Hi I have sent message to your inbox just wanted to check it's gone through. xT "

Yes, it's come through. I've replied.

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Cheers for the input guys made for good reading D x

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"I thought this was going to be a thread looking for bratty subs. Oh well

I think it will lead to that eventually but the mr has his hands full with me atm lol which is why mr needs additional experienced hands x

Would you be able to elaborate as in what way would an experienced pair of hands be able to help without excluding the mr? (Any advice would be grateful for) xT I would gladly elaborate and offer advice but unfortunately I am excluded or unable to private message. You x

Hi I think I have sorted it if you would still be willing to elaborate. Many thanks in advance xTstill can't sadly x pm me if you want to then maybe I can reply up to you x

Hi I have done, hopefully it’s worked. xT"
it worked thanks I've sent u a reply x

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Read and replied thankyou D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you looking for a bratty sub or is your mrs the bratty sub? Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bratty sub when I was meeting couples with my partner on the swinging scene I didn't involve bdsm. I try to keep the two seperate to a degree. In normal non bdsm meets people just assume I'm very playful they don't see the brat in me.

But then I don't live a Ds lifestyle, it doesn't have to influence everything I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just reread the OP and can see you have said as a mfm meet. Is the guy your meeting of a dominant nature, if he is just be your natural self and let it all work. If he's a self assured dominant he won't need any instructions. Although be wary of the dim doms of which there are many

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By *asha86 OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"Are you looking for a bratty sub or is your mrs the bratty sub? Mrscxxx "

Hi my mrs is the bratty sub. Dx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the basis of twobyfour's response:

"An equal to - with clear direction and boudries spoken about before play."

you can have a double dom situation called double domming. The other dom brings complementary or even different skills or attributes that the lead dom understands would be appreciated by the sub. E.g. if the lead dom does not really do primal but the sub and him feel it would be fun including a primal situation in a scene. "

This. He is your Dom, the extra is complimently to this. Our recent mmf my Red, submitted to my will and lead. She knew I'd discussed boundaries and what we wanted well in advance.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

This forum needs more brat posts. That was good reading x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Finding 2 men who can handle a bratty sub! In the same room together at once.

Being a very bratty sub myself I know it takes a very certain type of man to handle one.

Not that I would ever slip out a wrist from a restraint when hes not looking. Might have twisted my wrist during tieing up. So it's loose for me to slip out of. I would never dream of being teid to a cross in a club. Having had my paddle placed in my mouth. For him to get easy access too. Then me launcing it across the room by me throwing it out of my mouth. I've never pre folded newspaper and placed it in my knickers before a play.

My Dom knows exactly how to reel me in. Normally with just " that look". But it's so much fun pre planning my bratty ways- to get my funishments. "
I'm awful to brats... As when I was a sub I was one... I find ignoring them or not giving them what they are aiming for with their bratty moments can add a extra oomph

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