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The meaning of kinky?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's people's definition of kinky sex?

Can I get a few examples because it seems what I view as kinky is vanilla.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

There isn't one definition it covers a\ big area and you are right what is kinky to one person isn't to another.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Anything from sex with the lights on through to what 99.9% of Fab users would view as extreme.

In the eye of the beholder.

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By *evadomCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

What's people's definition of kinky sex?

Anything YOU think isn’t normal or unusual, there is no one definition of kinky unless you look it up in the dictionary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't one definition it covers a\ big area and you are right what is kinky to one person isn't to another. "

This

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

kinky sex is anything other than normal sex . like tying up spanking . they are probably mild compare to some people .

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

Jeez...just looked up kinky in the urban dictionary

" the act of pushing a plastic dinosaur into someone's pee hole"!!!

I'm sooooo not kinky

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By *irty doggXXXMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I don't think I can write what I think is kinky here. I guess I'm one of the ones at the far end. So when someone says they are kinky to me I have to get them to explain what their limits are otherwise I'd probably go way past it! Lol I guess the more we do and see the more of a tolerance we build up? Could just be me tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How longs a piece of string? Everyone’s definition is different. All I know is that as a couple we are definitely getting kinkier!

Miss V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't one definition it covers a\ big area and you are right what is kinky to one person isn't to another. "

i was gonna say this totally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself quite adventurous(although I do have limits!)

However I'm still a little unsure when people I'm in conversation with say 'taboo'? What does that count as?

Any clarification welcome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinky is, like most things, subjective!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"What's people's definition of kinky sex?

Can I get a few examples because it seems what I view as kinky is vanilla. "

Keeping socks on is kinky

Socks and sandals is really filthy kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something you wouldn't tell your work mates you had done....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think of w/sports as the start of the kinky scale

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for replying guys.

Helped a little

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What's people's definition of kinky sex?

Can I get a few examples because it seems what I view as kinky is vanilla. "

Sex with the lights on / curtains open.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not surprisingly it means different things to different people but if you think about it that's good as variety is good.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

It’s only ever kinky the first time.

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By *miler6969696969Man
over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield

What's one mans kink is anothers normal.

And what's another's kink is someone else's sick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some kink is whatever takes you out of your comfort zone and pushes your boundaries.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The only true definition of what kinky is is the individuals own - anything else is entirely subjective.

I can remember someone once who told me she was kinky and went on to describe how she'd used whipped cream in the bedroom - now my idea of kinky may involve things being whipped but it certainly wouldn't be the cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very first time I went to a club and watched someone fuck I thought that was about the kinkiest thing that I’d ever seen.

I suspect that would still blow the minds of some people.

Then I watched the man I loved fucking another man... while another man in beautiful silk lingerie put his cock in my mouth.... surely now we are getting close to kinky.

Then I started playing with a strap on. Then sounding... then then then.

I still don’t know what kinky really is. I put on a latex gas mask this morning and loved how It felt on my face ... perhaps that’s my new kinky.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The very first time I went to a club and watched someone fuck I thought that was about the kinkiest thing that I’d ever seen.

I suspect that would still blow the minds of some people.

Then I watched the man I loved fucking another man... while another man in beautiful silk lingerie put his cock in my mouth.... surely now we are getting close to kinky.

Then I started playing with a strap on. Then sounding... then then then.

I still don’t know what kinky really is. I put on a latex gas mask this morning and loved how It felt on my face ... perhaps that’s my new kinky.

V x

"

Ok. This is the official definition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's people's definition of kinky sex?

Can I get a few examples because it seems what I view as kinky is vanilla. "

Anything involving twiglets and tomato sauce.

Kinky as fuck that is.

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By *ew sensationMan
over a year ago

widnes

Whats dirty and whats kinky ?

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

It depends on how purist you want to be. Some distinguish sexual kink from BDSM kink where in the BDSM kink the act does not necessarily involve sexual behaviour. Whereas for some sex is integral to their BDSM kink. Others require the sexual act to be coupled with a kink act.

I generally distinguish sexual kink and bdsm kink as follows. If you see it at a swinging club (on a non-fetish night) and most are not upset by it, it is sexual kink. If people get upset it is likely to be BDSM kink. If you get banned doing it or think I am not even going to try it in a swingers club as I would get banned it is likely to be BDSM kink.

At the end of the day whether it is kinky or not is unimportant, what is important is consensual enjoyment by all parties of whatever the acts.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I consider myself to have a fairly normal range of sexual interests, but after reading profiles where people describe them selves as kinky i must be way of the chart, (or kink for them is doggy)

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Kinky is where you use a feather.

Perverse/taboo is where you use the whole chicken...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinky is where you use a feather.

Perverse/taboo is where you use the whole chicken..."

I love that quote. Used to have that as my status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How longs a piece of string? Everyone’s definition is different. All I know is that as a couple we are definitely getting kinkier!

Miss V"

True. Us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its outside of your "normal" it's kinky. Goalposts move all the time. Explore, embrace, enjoy x

Capt.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Kinky: something you blush about when you admit to a friend that that you've done it.

Perverse: something you blush about when you admit to yourself that you've done it.

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not 100% sure but I am sure it involved boots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinky: something you blush about when you admit to a friend that that you've done it.

Perverse: something you blush about when you admit to yourself that you've done it."

So what's a fetish?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"So what's a fetish? "

Actual definition, something that must be present to achieve sexual arousal, satisfaction or climax.

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By *r Normally KinkyMan
over a year ago

Somerset

im as kinky as fuck and i love it so. as l9ng as its safe reasonably sane, consensual, and almost legal id give it a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What some consider kink others view as tame and normal

The mind is the biggest pleasure give and 1 idea can lead to the next. From BDSM kinky to down dark side pleasures however what many in UK regard as kink is mild pleasure abroad.??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinky to me is shit, piss or vomit, anything else is standard lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the didderence between kinky and perverted... Kinky is using a feather... Perverted is using the whole chicken..

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