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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Lots of people meet over 40s.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Bingo!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Damned if I can find them!

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"
I asked this a few weeks back. Got slightly slattered ...

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I am 45 and not short of meets at all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iridescent, with a figure like yours I'm not surprised

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By *nicecoupleXCouple
over a year ago

Hitch


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

40 , old??

Over 40 is the hot spot

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

I'm Never short of meets. If people have a thing about age it's their problem. Not mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joy's of life we all going to not be what someone is looking for

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Plenty of people meet over 40s OP.when you search profiles,theres a box you can tick so you meet their age requirement

Miss

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Every one has their preferences

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No specific groups, no.

You can do a search for the age group you're interested in.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Over 70 but very happy to meet......!! Does not happen too often, sadly...!

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

40? A mere pup.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Jeez. We may as well give up now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m just coming up to 40 so I’m doomed

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We are older and we have had single ladies as young as twenty-five join in.

Sometimes we think it is attitude not age that makes the difference.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I do find it laughable that people think by moaning about a lack of interest in the forum's it will magically produce results without any effort. Blaming age, or ethnicity, or body shape are the usual reasons put forward.

A little more perseverance, a little more effort and what seemed like failure may turn into glorious success!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

41 and doing ok... latest “meet” is 56 well out of my bracket but his personality and mind were too beautiful to ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you presuming it's your age thats stopping getting you meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 45 and not short of meets at all! "

Likewise

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

Age is a number we don't go by it as we're clubs so judge the couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 45 and not short of meets at all!

Likewise "

You’re a woman - you’d have to be dead not to get loads of interest.

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I am 45 and not short of meets at all! "

Helps to have a vagina.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Why are you presuming it's your age thats stopping getting you meets."

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I am 45 and not short of meets at all!

Likewise

You’re a woman - you’d have to be dead not to get loads of interest. "

And even then...

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We didn't start swinging until we were in our 50s and we've found many of our age to have fun with. Sex doesn't end at 40!

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Ditto

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

I think the guys may struggle, which is not surprising due to how many there are on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are definitely in the more mature age range but are often approached by couples/females in their early twenties. A lot of Fabbsters are looking for the experience and confidence that comes with age. X

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

Am 60 and not past it just yet ...life in me still

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"I think the guys may struggle, which is not surprising due to how many there are on here "

No they struggle because a lot put no effort in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you look dam SEXY too ....

thank the Lord for mature sexy ladies on here!!.

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By *r loveslickinMan
over a year ago

Deeside

OP I noticed ot of profile looking g for age ranges upto 45

so once I hit 46 its gets bit harder ( sometimes women are Looking for the younger man ) . But it's not just for the young ones - plenty of life left in me yet lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

Big up the over 40s! We're more body confident now than ever, and still as horny as ever . Massive percentage on here over 40

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I wish I was forty ish again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot do meet people over 40 so stick to the ones that do as you will have more success with them.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

all true

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I am sat here thinking I wish I had known fab at 40; I am almost 60 now and that really is TOO old for people on here !

Just enjoy being 40, enjoy fab and use it the way you want to, I have given up on trying to arrange meets but hell 40 is NOT old !

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

Yes the couples have a husband for the odd shag probably over 40 so this is why they want to inject some UMMFF! A lot want a some taboo too In to there relationships.

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Its swings and roundabouts. .lol..

Some like older some like younger..

My fb she is 14 yrs younger ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t you heard, 40’s are the new 30’s. I’m finding out younger women prefer old more experienced men.... hang in there fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50+ and no problems getting meets

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

...

That’s because you sooo damn hot

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

It ain't the age deep down, its a fact they are attracted to looks money more are shallow and pretentious and like to prove them selves they still have got it grabbing all the attention,picking and choosung...

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

A group as in a forum or chat room?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

Oh don't panic it gets much worse in your 50s ... just enjoy the people that do meet the 40s because most won't meet the 50s

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

We’ve had fantastic fun with a couple in their 50s. Age is only a number, just takes a bit longer kneeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to say there seem to be plenty of profiles on Fab where the person wants 40+, so don't lose hope or faith!! They are out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait till you're 60!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till you're 60!"
You took the words right out of my mouth (as the song goes!).

Yes past 60 is a right bugger on here, I'm 62 this year, all I mainly do on here now is perv lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till you're 60!You took the words right out of my mouth (as the song goes!).

Yes past 60 is a right bugger on here, I'm 62 this year, all I mainly do on here now is perv lol"

I don't even do that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till you're 60!You took the words right out of my mouth (as the song goes!).

Yes past 60 is a right bugger on here, I'm 62 this year, all I mainly do on here now is perv lol

I don't even do that! "
well you certainly look good pash! X

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By *ickinglover69Man
over a year ago

Langley

I am over looking for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, fortunately that's rubbish mate.

Granted, I'm coupled up on here and meet as such feom our couples profile really now, but up until a matter of a few months ago aged 41 met quite a few ladies and couples regularly from this singles profile?

Age shouldn't be a problem for you OP.

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

I'm past 60 and still meet and have regular friends.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"I'm past 60 and still meet and have regular friends."

You go girl

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By *asy markMan
over a year ago

rawtenstall

I am 40 but I feel 21 ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm past 60 and still meet and have regular friends."

You'll have to tell me your secret!

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I'm past 60 and still meet and have regular friends.

You'll have to tell me your secret! "

You're all welcome to look at my profile, and then form an orderly queue to find out the secret first hand.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

I fall outside many profile age brackets too, but, even though I am 50 (a genuine 50 I might add, not a ‘Fab 50’), I am still finding plenty of people interested in getting to know me, and long may it continue.......

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

If your of the BBC it's helpful too for guys

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By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York


"Wait till you're 60!You took the words right out of my mouth (as the song goes!).

Yes past 60 is a right bugger on here, I'm 62 this year, all I mainly do on here now is perv lol"

In spite of being in my early 70's, I have made friends via Fab and had some great meets, even if relatively few and far between. Keep myself fit and am healthy and still relish the joy of sex, please don't write is old'uns off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are definitely in the more mature age range but are often approached by couples/females in their early twenties. A lot of Fabbsters are looking for the experience and confidence that comes with age. X"

Agree with this!

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Wait till you're 60!You took the words right out of my mouth (as the song goes!).

Yes past 60 is a right bugger on here, I'm 62 this year, all I mainly do on here now is perv lol

In spite of being in my early 70's, I have made friends via Fab and had some great meets, even if relatively few and far between. Keep myself fit and am healthy and still relish the joy of sex, please don't write is old'uns off!"

Can't PM you _armupartist 'cos like me you're not looking for single guys. Now single women might get through, and got to agree with your post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am 60 and not past it just yet ...life in me still"

I'm 61 but feel and look the same as when I was 40

What I hate is not being able to send messages due to age limits.

60 year olds are a lot fitter and young looking now than 30years ago but we are stuck with a false out of date image.

Makes you feel you want to start a new profile with your a new age!

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

Most frigging tell fibs about the age especially women

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Am 60 and not past it just yet ...life in me still

I'm 61 but feel and look the same as when I was 40

What I hate is not being able to send messages due to age limits.

60 year olds are a lot fitter and young looking now than 30years ago but we are stuck with a false out of date image.

Makes you feel you want to start a new profile with your a new age!

"

We won't meet 30 year olds and they can't message us. We have no common points of reference. The same goes for people who won't meet 60 year olds.

I'm 62 and accept that despite me looking ok although I'd never claim to look 40, a lot of people don't want to meet someone my age. Why should they?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Most frigging tell fibs about the age especially women "

In our experience it's not gender related.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Wait till you're 60!You took the words right out of my mouth (as the song goes!).

Yes past 60 is a right bugger on here, I'm 62 this year, all I mainly do on here now is perv lol

In spite of being in my early 70's, I have made friends via Fab and had some great meets, even if relatively few and far between. Keep myself fit and am healthy and still relish the joy of sex, please don't write is old'uns off!"

Hear hear to that......!!!!

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

You are never too old. And it’s never too late.... x

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"Damned if I can find them! "

Look over the boarder into Poole. Although we prefer bi guys, if your in the woods doggin or at a club, we make expections.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"I'm Never short of meets. If people have a thing about age it's their problem. Not mine "

I'll go along with that

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"Damned if I can find them!

Look over the boarder into Poole. Although we prefer bi guys, if your in the woods doggin or at a club, we make expections. "

Our account is in reading. But we live in Poole. Account moved back after 26th April.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Am 60 and not past it just yet ...life in me still

I'm 61 but feel and look the same as when I was 40

What I hate is not being able to send messages due to age limits.

60 year olds are a lot fitter and young looking now than 30years ago but we are stuck with a false out of date image.

Makes you feel you want to start a new profile with your a new age!

We won't meet 30 year olds and they can't message us. We have no common points of reference. The same goes for people who won't meet 60 year olds.

I'm 62 and accept that despite me looking ok although I'd never claim to look 40, a lot of people don't want to meet someone my age. Why should they?"

Indeed. Objectively, most people find older people less physically attractive than younger people and there's nothing you can do about it.

Women can always get meets, whatever their age, because of their rarity value. Men will find that once they get over 45 it will become more acd more difficult.

I'm 52.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"40? A mere pup."

Love your pics

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Am 60 and not past it just yet ...life in me still

I'm 61 but feel and look the same as when I was 40

What I hate is not being able to send messages due to age limits.

60 year olds are a lot fitter and young looking now than 30years ago but we are stuck with a false out of date image.

Makes you feel you want to start a new profile with your a new age!

We won't meet 30 year olds and they can't message us. We have no common points of reference. The same goes for people who won't meet 60 year olds.

I'm 62 and accept that despite me looking ok although I'd never claim to look 40, a lot of people don't want to meet someone my age. Why should they?

Indeed. Objectively, most people find older people less physically attractive than younger people and there's nothing you can do about it.

Women can always get meets, whatever their age, because of their rarity value. Men will find that once they get over 45 it will become more acd more difficult.

I'm 52. "

Yes and I think we women need to be realistic. I'm very well aware that if the site was top heavy with women in the 25 to 45 age range very few men would be interested in the over 45s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am 60 and not past it just yet ...life in me still

I'm 61 but feel and look the same as when I was 40

What I hate is not being able to send messages due to age limits.

60 year olds are a lot fitter and young looking now than 30years ago but we are stuck with a false out of date image.

Makes you feel you want to start a new profile with your a new age!

We won't meet 30 year olds and they can't message us. We have no common points of reference. The same goes for people who won't meet 60 year olds.

I'm 62 and accept that despite me looking ok although I'd never claim to look 40, a lot of people don't want to meet someone my age. Why should they?

Indeed. Objectively, most people find older people less physically attractive than younger people and there's nothing you can do about it.

Women can always get meets, whatever their age, because of their rarity value. Men will find that once they get over 45 it will become more acd more difficult.

I'm 52.

Yes and I think we women need to be realistic. I'm very well aware that if the site was top heavy with women in the 25 to 45 age range very few men would be interested in the over 45s. "

I don't care about your age, you look amazing. It's just a number... wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are never too old. And it’s never too late.... x "
First class ticket to Oz please! x

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By *am62Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

The older the moon the brighter it shines.. So what if we are older, its how you are that counts, and if you feel sexy be sexy.Ive been far more sexier in my older years than younger ones, don't give a dam no more lol.

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By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York


"The older the moon the brighter it shines.. So what if we are older, its how you are that counts, and if you feel sexy be sexy.Ive been far more sexier in my older years than younger ones, don't give a dam no more lol. "

I like you attitude... I must remember, "the older the moon the brighter it shines"... what a pity we live so far apart... still, "if you ever travel the north country far" (Bob Dylan) get in touch and we can contrive to be older but sexier together?!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

You have been here 8 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

What about all those lovely people seeking playmates 18-99?

Surely you aren't as old as 100?

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By *illiamlook13Man
over a year ago

comber

Been here ten years and still trying find someone that likes a truck driver xx

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

Celebrating my birthday today! .....life is beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Celebrating my birthday today! .....life is beautiful."

Happy birthday

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

Just do a search for people in your age (and other!) preferences that are looking for people where you match their preferences. Bingo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha. You're so young.

I can assure you that there's plenty of fun here for all age brackets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 45 and not short of meets at all!

Likewise

You’re a woman - you’d have to be dead not to get loads of interest. "

Best content ever

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Am 60 and not past it just yet ...life in me still

I'm 61 but feel and look the same as when I was 40

What I hate is not being able to send messages due to age limits.

60 year olds are a lot fitter and young looking now than 30years ago but we are stuck with a false out of date image.

Makes you feel you want to start a new profile with your a new age!

We won't meet 30 year olds and they can't message us. We have no common points of reference. The same goes for people who won't meet 60 year olds.

I'm 62 and accept that despite me looking ok although I'd never claim to look 40, a lot of people don't want to meet someone my age. Why should they?

Indeed. Objectively, most people find older people less physically attractive than younger people and there's nothing you can do about it.

Women can always get meets, whatever their age, because of their rarity value. Men will find that once they get over 45 it will become more acd more difficult.

I'm 52.

Yes and I think we women need to be realistic. I'm very well aware that if the site was top heavy with women in the 25 to 45 age range very few men would be interested in the over 45s.

I don't care about your age, you look amazing. It's just a number... wow "

Thanks. I don't care about my age either, its way better than the alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By *ickinglover69Man
over a year ago

Langley


"Am 60 and not past it just yet ...life in me still

I'm 61 but feel and look the same as when I was 40

What I hate is not being able to send messages due to age limits.

60 year olds are a lot fitter and young looking now than 30years ago but we are stuck with a false out of date image.

Makes you feel you want to start a new profile with your a new age!

"

I agree, but I will persevere and can show we are not old fuddy duddies but have experience not afraid of getting naked and happy in out bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

39 seems to be an odd age!! Lots of profiles lately want oldest of 38 and other 40+. A whole year of being the wrong age either way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

according to your profile

I'm too old to meet you!!

(but Yes even this ole girl gets meets)

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By *evadomCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Over 40

We have just hit 60+ we get loads of offers the problem is when we search we are out of some people’s age range

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

This age (old) thing on fabswingers is tosh..

From my obsevations its the 20 yr olds that struggle not the 40 yr olds..

Re-invent yrself drop the self pity and off you go!

I am nearer 70 than 40 and still plenty life in the old dog

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By *rbean69Man
over a year ago

Stroud


"This age (old) thing on fabswingers is tosh..

From my obsevations its the 20 yr olds that struggle not the 40 yr olds..

Re-invent yrself drop the self pity and off you go!

I am nearer 70 than 40 and still plenty life in the old dog"

It is older male heterosexuals who tend to have less success as they get older. I note that all your veris are from men. Having said that, I accept it as a fact of life, rather than whine about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m just coming up to 40 so I’m doomed "

Me too, I've only got this year to enjoy being in my 30s

Thankfully I don't meet private and people don't tend to ask my age in clubs unless they find out about the fact that I've got a 21 year old. Then they can't believe I've got a grown up child and ask my age. Always makes me chuckle as I don't look my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm well in my sixties and doing fine...seems to me that sex is wasted on the young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key is to take good care of yourself OP. You need to work harder on getting a good body and maintain your looks and style.

I have seen plenty of men your age on here with lots of verifications from attractive men and women of all ages.

Many people look past you being middle aged if you take care of yourself. People let themselves go in middle age and then complain they cannot pull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This age (old) thing on fabswingers is tosh..

From my obsevations its the 20 yr olds that struggle not the 40 yr olds..

Re-invent yrself drop the self pity and off you go!

I am nearer 70 than 40 and still plenty life in the old dog

It is older male heterosexuals who tend to have less success as they get older. I note that all your veris are from men. Having said that, I accept it as a fact of life, rather than whine about it."

You are wrong, it is definitely worse for gay men, they are very ageist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This age (old) thing on fabswingers is tosh..

From my obsevations its the 20 yr olds that struggle not the 40 yr olds..

Re-invent yrself drop the self pity and off you go!

I am nearer 70 than 40 and still plenty life in the old dog

It is older male heterosexuals who tend to have less success as they get older. I note that all your veris are from men. Having said that, I accept it as a fact of life, rather than whine about it.

You are wrong, it is definitely worse for gay men, they are very ageist"

It always makes me laugh when people say “ageism” or have an issue with age preferences, when they have age preferences on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number, if you look good and can have a laugh/hold a conversation about anything other than hip replacements and nursing home brochures you'll be fine

It's made no difference to us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number "

Well that’s not true is it?

As you have an age preference on your profile of 25 - 45.

Surely if age was just a number you’d have it set at 18 - 99?

Age is important to some people, it isn’t important to all.

I’m 25 and like to meet men 35+, I’m entitled to have that choice, so is everyone else.

I think people who don’t like age preferences would do better not worrying about who won’t meet them, and instead focus on those who will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number

Well that’s not true is it?

As you have an age preference on your profile of 25 - 45.

Surely if age was just a number you’d have it set at 18 - 99?

Age is important to some people, it isn’t important to all.

I’m 25 and like to meet men 35+, I’m entitled to have that choice, so is everyone else.

I think people who don’t like age preferences would do better not worrying about who won’t meet them, and instead focus on those who will.

"

Kiiind of meant age is just a number to the individual, as in, I'm 40 but I dont think of myself as 40.

It was more of a supportive comment to the OP, but the constructive criticism has been acknowledged, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This age (old) thing on fabswingers is tosh..

From my obsevations its the 20 yr olds that struggle not the 40 yr olds..

Re-invent yrself drop the self pity and off you go!

I am nearer 70 than 40 and still plenty life in the old dog

It is older male heterosexuals who tend to have less success as they get older. I note that all your veris are from men. Having said that, I accept it as a fact of life, rather than whine about it.

You are wrong, it is definitely worse for gay men, they are very ageist

It always makes me laugh when people say “ageism” or have an issue with age preferences, when they have age preferences on their profile. "

I never said I had a problem with ageism, I was simply stating it is bad with gay men. Hope that clears it up for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number

Well that’s not true is it?

As you have an age preference on your profile of 25 - 45.

Surely if age was just a number you’d have it set at 18 - 99?

Age is important to some people, it isn’t important to all.

I’m 25 and like to meet men 35+, I’m entitled to have that choice, so is everyone else.

I think people who don’t like age preferences would do better not worrying about who won’t meet them, and instead focus on those who will.

Kiiind of meant age is just a number to the individual, as in, I'm 40 but I dont think of myself as 40.

It was more of a supportive comment to the OP, but the constructive criticism has been acknowledged, thank you "

My post wasn’t criticism, sorry!

The latter part of my post was meant for the OP, I just couldn’t be arsed to write a whole new post, so added it in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This age (old) thing on fabswingers is tosh..

From my obsevations its the 20 yr olds that struggle not the 40 yr olds..

Re-invent yrself drop the self pity and off you go!

I am nearer 70 than 40 and still plenty life in the old dog

It is older male heterosexuals who tend to have less success as they get older. I note that all your veris are from men. Having said that, I accept it as a fact of life, rather than whine about it.

You are wrong, it is definitely worse for gay men, they are very ageist

It always makes me laugh when people say “ageism” or have an issue with age preferences, when they have age preferences on their profile.

I never said I had a problem with ageism, I was simply stating it is bad with gay men. Hope that clears it up for you "

Calling it “ageist” kind of gives that vibe though, to me anyway.

It’s just another word to bash people with when someone doesn’t like their choice, that’s the way I see it.

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house


"Most frigging tell fibs about the age especially women "
56 and a proud nanny....

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

I'm 61yr still having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This age (old) thing on fabswingers is tosh..

From my obsevations its the 20 yr olds that struggle not the 40 yr olds..

Re-invent yrself drop the self pity and off you go!

I am nearer 70 than 40 and still plenty life in the old dog

It is older male heterosexuals who tend to have less success as they get older. I note that all your veris are from men. Having said that, I accept it as a fact of life, rather than whine about it.

You are wrong, it is definitely worse for gay men, they are very ageist

It always makes me laugh when people say “ageism” or have an issue with age preferences, when they have age preferences on their profile.

I never said I had a problem with ageism, I was simply stating it is bad with gay men. Hope that clears it up for you

Calling it “ageist” kind of gives that vibe though, to me anyway.

It’s just another word to bash people with when someone doesn’t like their choice, that’s the way I see it. "

Well that is not my personal terminology, it is just a well used description in gay men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most frigging tell fibs about the age especially women 56 and a proud nanny.... "

Love your profile name

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By *robinsonMan
over a year ago

Alton

it's no easier being young I'm 24 and too young for most people haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's no easier being young I'm 24 and too young for most people haha."

It might help to grow some chest hair and smart beard? Lot of lads in here your age look shaven and makes you look your age or less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are always too old or too young for some people, why worry?

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford


"We didn't start swinging until we were in our 50s and we've found many of our age to have fun with. Sex doesn't end at 40!"

Us too. And although our preference is younger than us we’ve met plenty who prefer us oldies!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

Aye yer an ard bugga now hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate to be negative but try being nearly 60, married, work away from home, 7 inch willy and only 5.4ft tall, my meeting days on here are numbered , but if i go to a club i seem to get on ok with couples , soooo cant wait to try the new kestrals xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am now 59 but I still enjoy meets with younger couples, yes I understand it’s harder to get meets for older guys but to be honest I cannot complain and to be honest it’s there loss not trying a older experience guy but it’s there preference and I totally understand that too and I am meeting another couple this Thursday for a daytime meets so it’s not that bad

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By *otplumMan
over a year ago

Margate

Being nearly sixty does close a few doors but I do ok at clubs where people can see I aint an old duffer! Still mean and lean , I do fairly well on Fab too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my age doesnt seem that bad its when you add it all together it makes meeting within criteria hard

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Been here ten years and still trying find someone that likes a truck driver xx "

I just steal their Yorkies

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Plenty of people here in their 40s, 50s, 60s and above... And also plenty of younger people who are happy to meet people older than themselves.

And yes, there are folks who prefer under 45 or under 40... That's their preference.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

54 and still meeting regularly

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By *osexyCouple
over a year ago

ST AUSTELL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t relate as I’m only 25, however a man over 40s isn’t too old for me.

I only meet 35+ men on here anyway, so if he’s over 40 he’s great for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 40 too old? Not at all OP. When i was meeting, i still had a lot of attention and I'm 41. Not much younger than you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

Depends completely if you're male or female or should I now say Man or woman. If you think 40 is bad OP, wait full 45, if that's bad wait till 50, then careful you don't cut your nails because you'll be clinging on for dear life after that.

For a woman it makes very little difference from those I've talked to and met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?

Depends completely if you're male or female or should I now say Man or woman. If you think 40 is bad OP, wait full 45, if that's bad wait till 50, then careful you don't cut your nails because you'll be clinging on for dear life after that.

For a woman it makes very little difference from those I've talked to and met."

I would have thought it would also depend on the age of the woman the man wanted to meet

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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

We're both nearly 60 now. Can't say we've noticed any drop in interest although it's mainly from a more mature age group.

If younger folks do say hello we usually just stress the age difference and point out the presence of wrinkles etc. jut to make sure they've considered it and we've only had positive responses so far.

Don't wish your life away, make the most of it while you can. We intend to ..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love an older guy so ur age is definatly not a problem and im sure alot of other people will feel the same

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

too young for me!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I love an older guy so ur age is definatly not a problem and im sure alot of other people will feel the same "

Such a shame there are 'degrees of older'; but I suppose at your age some of us are not older, but 'ancient' !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearing 50 and plenty of offers even though I’m clearly not looking.

You’re still well under many people’s upper limit.

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm nearly 50. Having the time of our lives.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

you think youve got problems fast forwards 20 years

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness


"Nearing 50 and plenty of offers even though I’m clearly not looking.

You’re still well under many people’s upper limit. "
your a woman, and woman are always going to get meets easily. Men have very little chance of success as i have discovered constantly over the years. Obviously theres a few who do, but they are a tiny fraction of the amount of guys on here. Probably 99% of guys here will never get a meet(or maybe once in a lifetime if your lucky)

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Your never to old ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

We don't have groups, just preferences. Same difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?

Depends completely if you're male or female or should I now say Man or woman. If you think 40 is bad OP, wait full 45, if that's bad wait till 50, then careful you don't cut your nails because you'll be clinging on for dear life after that.

For a woman it makes very little difference from those I've talked to and met.

I would have thought it would also depend on the age of the woman the man wanted to meet "

You really think that?

Most wouldn't be too worried, it's not a luxury many have. Some may have definite age limits or they may say they do but reality for most men it's more about physical appearance (that's how their brain works). Most men would be glad of some good chat let alone a meet.

Most don't have the same issue as women do about meeting someone the same age as their daughter either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?

Depends completely if you're male or female or should I now say Man or woman. If you think 40 is bad OP, wait full 45, if that's bad wait till 50, then careful you don't cut your nails because you'll be clinging on for dear life after that.

For a woman it makes very little difference from those I've talked to and met.

I would have thought it would also depend on the age of the woman the man wanted to meet

You really think that?

Most wouldn't be too worried, it's not a luxury many have. Some may have definite age limits or they may say they do but reality for most men it's more about physical appearance (that's how their brain works). Most men would be glad of some good chat let alone a meet.

Most don't have the same issue as women do about meeting someone the same age as their daughter either."

I do. I think a lot of women who are older would have the OP's age as their preference. In fact I've seen it on most of the older womens profiles i have looked at, over the 6 years i have been on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50, but I have found that fact completely irrelevant to my Fab life. There are so many variables with what people are looking for, the chances of matching are pretty slim unless one is purely looking for sex without any connection. 30 or 60, if a person makes me laugh and shares similar passions and beliefs, I'm interested. That said, I am old. OP, my advice would be to look at here as you would anywhere else, lots of people with varying interests, some of whom won't even notice your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met so many people on here who are over 40 and they really don't look like it. In fact most of the people over 40 look so great that I'm jealous.

Mr xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems too be a 45yrs cut off in my area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So annoying when you one year out off there age bracket and you cant chat with them

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m more confident about myself and life the older I get. It’s a mind thing.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Someone who I work with who I bumped into last night had me down as being 10 years younger. I was well pleased lol. #easypaperround

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?

Depends completely if you're male or female or should I now say Man or woman. If you think 40 is bad OP, wait full 45, if that's bad wait till 50, then careful you don't cut your nails because you'll be clinging on for dear life after that.

For a woman it makes very little difference from those I've talked to and met.

I would have thought it would also depend on the age of the woman the man wanted to meet

You really think that?

Most wouldn't be too worried, it's not a luxury many have. Some may have definite age limits or they may say they do but reality for most men it's more about physical appearance (that's how their brain works). Most men would be glad of some good chat let alone a meet.

Most don't have the same issue as women do about meeting someone the same age as their daughter either.

I do. I think a lot of women who are older would have the OP's age as their preference. In fact I've seen it on most of the older womens profiles i have looked at, over the 6 years i have been on here "

Things change in 6 years.

Decided to do a check. The last 70 different ladies local updates which goes back to Tuesday.

14 Hidden profiles.

3 up to 54

38 up to 45

The remainder below 40.

I did a search of local ladies between 18 and 70 who have 56 in their filters. 42 on between now and Monday. That includes, smokers, those who cannot accommodate. I've been on here over 5 yrs I know the changes lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who I work with who I bumped into last night had me down as being 10 years younger. I was well pleased lol. #easypaperround"

I've been told by those who have met me that I could knock off 10 years, some suggested I should and just say when starting to chat. If you do that then it's game over. Least I've a few regulars from years back whom I still meet up with.

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By *ornytoad1362Couple
over a year ago

St. Austell

hey dont think there is m8 but have a look at people's profiles and contact people who are looking for over 40's maybe change yr profile and your pics too,hope this helps m8

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By *wosup4funMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Best bit of sex the wife had years ago was when she was 40 and dogging was with a 65yo guy

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

No hope for me then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50, and fall outside even more brackets.

It hasn't held me back though.

Chin up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dwayne the rock is 47! If you really want to carry on being attractive to all ages it's lots of self sacrifice that really isn't entirely worth it for a bit of sex. The nature of sites which can only show a picture and small description to sum up a whole person results in fickle judgements. Maybe pursue more deep and meaningful relationships if this has crossed into being frustrating. The rock has the motivation of multi million dollar movie deals, on here the rewards are more fleeting.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"
. I am 51 and at times I get a little frustrated as I am outside ladies and couples age range I send polite messages with no response back or a polite thanks but no thanks.I know the single guys heavily outnumber the single women and couples.As a single guy that can’t accommodate it’s very tricky as some think there is something to hide no matter how genuine your reasons are.I feel the best way for me and single guys in my postion as well as the OP is too attend socials and clubs.Nonething ventures nonething gained.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 50, and fall outside even more brackets.

It hasn't held me back though.

Chin up x"

You have a vagina.. There will never be a shortage of available suitors. Women hold the power in this game and that's the way it should be for a change!

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

?

je ne comprends pas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male 55 ,chance in a million of meetings, but still hopeful

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By *awty_twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"I am 45 and not short of meets at all! "

That’s because you’re so flaming hot....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 45 and not short of meets at all! "

You are rather hot tho so no wonder x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's when you get to nearly 62 that the real problems start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 50, and fall outside even more brackets.

It hasn't held me back though.

Chin up x"

Have a sex change and come back and see if you say that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hooked up with someone in their 60s last year. He was great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when you could by a house and go on three holidays a year for less than a farthing...and I still get a little on here ?

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By *jEuphoriaCouple
over a year ago

north kent


"Sadly I now fall outside the age bracket for quite a few couples, singles on here, such is life.

I'm wondering if there's a group for the over 40s on Fab?"

Are you having a laugh? Men are rarely too old. It’s more difficult for women.

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