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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"

Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?

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By *atcake1973Man
over a year ago

stoke on Trent

If they aren't into you

Or what they see

They won't

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"

I've had several meets over 3 years, you get back what you put in but guys can go months before getting a meet. Maybe peruse the introductions thread in the forums? Handy hints etc.

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By *lue eyed and IrishMan
over a year ago

sevenoaks

Firstly, guys far outweigh the ladies on here.

It sounds like you would be better off trying a pick up in a bar.For most people on here, it's a lifestyle,not a pick up joint.

It's the women's perogative as to whether to reply or not.

I myself send messages and get no reply most of the time,but as I've said it's their choice.

I think you're on the wrong site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"

You'll want to be careful OP. Exchanging money for sex is forbidden on fab. You could find yourself on the naughty step.

This isn't a prostitution service

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

You'll want to be careful OP. Exchanging money for sex is forbidden on fab. You could find yourself on the naughty step.

This isn't a prostitution service"

I think he means because he's paid for gold site supporter.

Still, that doesn't guarantee him a meet.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

What were your expectations on joining fab? Just because you message women on here, doesn't mean they have to have sex with you. We aren't free prostitutes at your beck and call 24/7 and we are actually allowed to choose who we fuck. Wow, shock, horror at that one!

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Do you think you’re putting in the best effort you can? I can’t give profile advice as you haven’t asked. Have a peek at the profiles of successful blokes and see if there’s any inspiration which you could take from their approach. Have you thought of getting yourself to a club? Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet? "

Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Limited photos and write up don't sell you well. Plus the competition is very good. The site is more lifestyle in my opinion.

Use the regular dating apps if you are looking for sex, they are a lot easier to get what you are looking for. Just write 'Fun' all over your profile and hey presto! - maybe not that easy tho ha ha!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?

Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour. "

Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not we'll said

Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet? "

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By *k_intriguedCouple
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I'm assuming everyone has green-arrowed to see this gentleman's previous contribution to the forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?

Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.

Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional. "

No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.

He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? "

Yes, there are real people because :

a. I get messages and replies.

b. I have met some of them.


"Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"

I'm a free member, but I wouldn't consider £5 to be a waste of money to be a site supporter.

Let your site supporter lapse, stop trying too hard and you might be able to tempt people to meet up.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy?

Yes, there are real people because :

a. I get messages and replies.

b. I have met some of them.

Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

I'm a free member, but I wouldn't consider £5 to be a waste of money to be a site supporter.

Let your site supporter lapse, stop trying too hard and you might be able to tempt people to meet up."

Or not!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm assuming everyone has green-arrowed to see this gentleman's previous contribution to the forum? "

Good lord... Older hole??? Really speaks volumes. Wow, just wow.

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

Well we've had a message from the OP and can confirm that he didn't get a reply because it was a 'chance your arm message' without paying any attention to what we're looking for and minimal effort.

So maybe start there.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?

Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.

Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional.

No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.

He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along. "

Green arrow him and read his profile, he's after sex, not replies.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I'm assuming everyone has green-arrowed to see this gentleman's previous contribution to the forum? "

First thing I do, once read the OP.

It's often very enlightening

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

People do meet those that appeal to them

I can't give profile advice as you haven't asked,but it needs some looking at.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?

Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.

Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional.

No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.

He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along.

Green arrow him and read his profile, he's after sex, not replies."

Who’d have thought, on a sex site he was looking for sex?

Neither are great, however nowhere is he saying women should just drop their knickers. I just don’t think he’s acted in an entitled way.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?

Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.

Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional.

No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.

He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along.

Green arrow him and read his profile, he's after sex, not replies.

Who’d have thought, on a sex site he was looking for sex?

Neither are great, however nowhere is he saying women should just drop their knickers. I just don’t think he’s acted in an entitled way."

Did you green arrow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?

Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.

Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional.

No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.

He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along.

Green arrow him and read his profile, he's after sex, not replies.

Who’d have thought, on a sex site he was looking for sex?

Neither are great, however nowhere is he saying women should just drop their knickers. I just don’t think he’s acted in an entitled way.

Did you green arrow? "

Yes.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?

Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.

Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional.

No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.

He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along.

Green arrow him and read his profile, he's after sex, not replies.

Who’d have thought, on a sex site he was looking for sex?

Neither are great, however nowhere is he saying women should just drop their knickers. I just don’t think he’s acted in an entitled way."

This isn't a sex site.

I think he came here expecting a quick shag and because it hasn't happened he's saying everyone is fake or that he's wasting money, that's how I read it, if you read it differently that's fine.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Green arrow did not disappoint

Laughing that hard I think my older hole just let a bit of wee out

Can we have a facepalm emoji?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?

Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour. "

No the maths aren't stacked in his favour. But equally those people that are getting regular meets make sure that they maximise those odds. There's a reason many men get nowhere on here and its nothing to do with the volume of men and nothing to do with luck either for that matter

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Oh golly. Green arrow. It’s not TimeTeam; but best of British in your quest for an “older hole”. Chortle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may very well be here for a good time...it isn't anyone's obligation here to provide it for you. They too are looking for a good time...you're not convincing them they'll have one with you...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm here for a good time, too. I don't waste mine with those I don't think will help me have one.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Good God! Older Hole!!?? That’s gonna have them queuing up mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some better pictures for a start. Broken drawer in one and socks on the radiator in the other. And 2 sentences for your profile is very unoriginal.

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"

No the maths aren't stacked in his favour. But equally those people that are getting regular meets make sure that they maximise those odds. There's a reason many men get nowhere on here and its nothing to do with the volume of men and nothing to do with luck either for that matter"

Luck has a little to do with it.

Being the right person in right place at right time when someome wants to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

No the maths aren't stacked in his favour. But equally those people that are getting regular meets make sure that they maximise those odds. There's a reason many men get nowhere on here and its nothing to do with the volume of men and nothing to do with luck either for that matter

Luck has a little to do with it.

Being the right person in right place at right time when someome wants to meet."

For those getting meets luck plays part in who they meet. But for the vast majority of men who moan that they get nowhere on here its nothing to do with luck

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Ladies...if your "hole" is old this is your guy !

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"

There are real people who have a lot of real fun. I suspect you will, alas, be wasting your time and money and will be largely unsuccessful in joining that fun.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

You'll want to be careful OP. Exchanging money for sex is forbidden on fab. You could find yourself on the naughty step.

This isn't a prostitution service"

Wasting money because he paid site subscription..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"

You have not asked for profile advice..but it is piss poor....

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Is this not a spoof account?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not

Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?

Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.

Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional.

No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.

He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along.

Green arrow him and read his profile, he's after sex, not replies.

Who’d have thought, on a sex site he was looking for sex?

Neither are great, however nowhere is he saying women should just drop their knickers. I just don’t think he’s acted in an entitled way."

some people just like banding the word 'entitled' around.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

What always gobsmacks me here is people moaning that they have paid £5 and got nothing.

I mean, we're talking £5 not £500. No one ever got a shag looking like a cheapskate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasting time! Sorry to disillusion you but Joining this site doesn't guarantee you a fuck. You need an escort site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasting time! Sorry to disillusion you but Joining this site doesn't guarantee you a fuck. You need an escort site "

Won't get much for a fiver! Ha ha!

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"I'm assuming everyone has green-arrowed to see this gentleman's previous contribution to the forum? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"

Yes.

Nope;

Probably not.

Hope that helps.

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By *inkylonglegTVTV/TS
over a year ago

bristol

OP, you are unlikely to ever have luck on here with a profile like that,you may have better luck clubbing as you then will rely on personality rather than the art of advertising yourself on a site that has so many better profiles

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"

Fab is best for keeping in touch with people you meet at clubs.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"

Am I reading this right? Just because you don't get answers to your messages everyone else on the site is an employee using a fake profile to get £5 a month from you?

Have you not considered that maybe it's your approach?

Maybe it's your largely rural location?

Maybe it could be many things, not just a conspiracy to fleece you of money.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It seems that when some ask why they don't succeed, the simpler or more palatable explanation is a grand nonsensical conspiracy, rather than them failing in some way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems that when some ask why they don't succeed, the simpler or more palatable explanation is a grand nonsensical conspiracy, rather than them failing in some way. "

Bad workmen and tools springs to mind...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It seems that when some ask why they don't succeed, the simpler or more palatable explanation is a grand nonsensical conspiracy, rather than them failing in some way.

Bad workmen and tools springs to mind..."

Quite. But no, it must be everyone else, even though they're the common element.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems that when some ask why they don't succeed, the simpler or more palatable explanation is a grand nonsensical conspiracy, rather than them failing in some way.

Bad workmen and tools springs to mind...

Quite. But no, it must be everyone else, even though they're the common element. "

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