FabSwingers.com forum: Lost

By *iffy1968 OP Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

Hi all weve been on here for about 18months , we originally was looking for single gus only and after a couple of rubbish meets decided to look for couples for full swap , great we meeg a couple for a social and all was going well until the night we meet to play , Lucy was having a great evening with other male , me ( Ian ) stated off well but as soon as me and the other female started to get intimate all weng down hill , shall we say its knocked my confidence massively i havent played since only Luch plays now , which i enjoy but would love to have another try , only problem is everytime we get near arranging anything mh confidence takes a dive and i have to apologise and say its not for me

, any tips to try sort it please

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

How do you mean it went downhill?

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By *iffy1968 OP Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

"How do you mean it went downhill? "
we was gettijg intimate and she started moaning saying i was to rough , yet i was barely touching her tbh , her other half was rougher with Lucy , at the social they said they didnt like soft touches either ,

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Sound like they were giving you mixed messages. I'm assuming you stopped immediately when she said you were too rough? Put it behind you and try to move on. Hope you get things sorted. X

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By *iffy1968 OP Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

"Sound like they were giving you mixed messages. I'm assuming you stopped immediately when she said you were too rough? Put it behind you and try to move on. Hope you get things sorted. X"

Yes i stopped and lost mh erection but Lucy anc her hubbh carried on play ( that didnt bother me tbh ) but his mrs was evil when they finished

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Just put it down to a bad experiance and move. Do not let it get you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just put it down to a bad experiance and move. Do not let it get you down."

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Just put it down to a bad experiance and move. Do not let it get you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that is why I tend to avoid couples. Two ego's, two sets of rules....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chemistry of 4 people is twice as hard to get right isn't it. Sorry to hear things didn't go well OP. Just keep plugging away and don't let the bad meets get you down. There are some great and gorgeous people out there and who knows what the secret of a great meet is. It's a shame to give up if your mrs is enjoying things.

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

"Sound like they were giving you mixed messages. I'm assuming you stopped immediately when she said you were too rough? Put it behind you and try to move on. Hope you get things sorted. X

Yes i stopped and lost mh erection but Lucy anc her hubbh carried on play ( that didnt bother me tbh ) but his mrs was evil when they finished "
tell us the whole story what happened after they finished

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