FabSwingers.com forum: Any advice?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi you beautiful lot. I'm looking for some constructive criticism on my profile if anyone would be so kind to help?

After a sea of dick pics and my share of people either wasting my time or polite no thank yous (which I'm not meaning to complain about as not everyone's for everyone)

I'm wondering is my profile sending the wrong message or not enough of the right one?

Thank you in advance xx

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Hi you beautiful lot. I'm looking for some constructive criticism on my profile if anyone would be so kind to help?

After a sea of dick pics and my share of people either wasting my time or polite no thank yous (which I'm not meaning to complain about as not everyone's for everyone)

I'm wondering is my profile sending the wrong message or not enough of the right one?

Thank you in advance xx"

My profile? My time? You are supposed to be a couple. That alone would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi you beautiful lot. I'm looking for some constructive criticism on my profile if anyone would be so kind to help?

After a sea of dick pics and my share of people either wasting my time or polite no thank yous (which I'm not meaning to complain about as not everyone's for everyone)

I'm wondering is my profile sending the wrong message or not enough of the right one?

Thank you in advance xx

My profile? My time? You are supposed to be a couple. That alone would put me off. "

exactly our thoughts.

Mrs

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Now you’ve changed it to ‘we’ it probably reads better.

I like it...very straightforward. Your photos are a mix of both of you which is good.

The only line I’d take issue with is the one about one-offs. It’s a bit like you’re implying that those who have one-off’s don’t have any personality about them - I don’t think you meant that at all, I think maybe you just put both of those ideas in one sentence to try and get everything across but it kinda links them.

I’m always wary about profiles where I don’t chat to both halves though, so that might be where it falls down a little. Maybe if you put that V will initially be in charge of messaging but L will be joining the chat if there’s a mutual attraction or something along those lines?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great advice all. Thank you. We are a couple but we have separate accounts. I thought including my partners profile name would be enough but I'll include something along the lines suggested x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi you beautiful lot. I'm looking for some constructive criticism on my profile if anyone would be so kind to help?

After a sea of dick pics and my share of people either wasting my time or polite no thank yous (which I'm not meaning to complain about as not everyone's for everyone)

I'm wondering is my profile sending the wrong message or not enough of the right one?

Thank you in advance xx

My profile? My time? You are supposed to be a couple. That alone would put me off. "

Sorry I'm a bit confused? I've scoured my profile and I haven't used those words your describing? X

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

"Hi you beautiful lot. I'm looking for some constructive criticism on my profile if anyone would be so kind to help?

After a sea of dick pics and my share of people either wasting my time or polite no thank yous (which I'm not meaning to complain about as not everyone's for everyone)

I'm wondering is my profile sending the wrong message or not enough of the right one?

Thank you in advance xx

My profile? My time? You are supposed to be a couple. That alone would put me off.

Sorry I'm a bit confused? I've scoured my profile and I haven't used those words your describing? X"

You used them in this topic, you're supposed to be a couples profile.

Loads of guys send out their dick rather than anything else, they think sexual women are only looking for a penis. So don't worry about that coz it happens to everyone.

People wasting your time, not sure how they're doing that? There are ways to stop that depnding on how they're wasting it exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi you beautiful lot. I'm looking for some constructive criticism on my profile if anyone would be so kind to help?

After a sea of dick pics and my share of people either wasting my time or polite no thank yous (which I'm not meaning to complain about as not everyone's for everyone)

I'm wondering is my profile sending the wrong message or not enough of the right one?

Thank you in advance xx

My profile? My time? You are supposed to be a couple. That alone would put me off.

Sorry I'm a bit confused? I've scoured my profile and I haven't used those words your describing? X

You used them in this topic, you're supposed to be a couples profile.

Loads of guys send out their dick rather than anything else, they think sexual women are only looking for a penis. So don't worry about that coz it happens to everyone.

People wasting your time, not sure how they're doing that? There are ways to stop that depnding on how they're wasting it exactly."

Oh ok. Thanks. Got confused for a second there. Yes it's a couple's profile but I'm very honest in stating that I'm the one operates it. If I were to put it as a single female then others would feel decieved once I start mentioning a partner too I felt. As for the time wasting I think I just need to take a crash course in how to spot a fake profile tbh

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

OK, i used to do that when i had a couples profile so get that.

There is reverse image search, doing that can give you a good idea of who is using fake profile pics. You can do it using google image or use the tineye app.

People who don't want to meet tend to chat about sex so they can have a wank instead of meeting. I pretty much refuse to chat about sex and never go offsite onto apps where they will be able to ask for pics (kik, whatsapp, skype etc).

Check out verifications as well. Someone who has met recently is more likely to reliable, as aremen who go to socials and clubs.

There'll be other stuff as well but i forgetit all.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Do a forum search for 'spotting fake profiles' and 'reverse image search'. You'll find helpful stuff.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

My only suggestion is to break up that long paragraph in the middle into 2 or 3 bits . A long profile is fine, but it is off putting having such a big chunk like that.

I think you will find "allot" is actually two words. But really good profile .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My only suggestion is to break up that long paragraph in the middle into 2 or 3 bits . A long profile is fine, but it is off putting having such a big chunk like that.

I think you will find "allot" is actually two words. But really good profile .

Thank you! I'm a complete grammerphobe so quite annoyed this one slipped by me lol.

Definitely agree with breaking it up a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do a forum search for 'spotting fake profiles' and 'reverse image search'. You'll find helpful stuff.

You're a star! Thank you

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