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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys and gals, I’ve been on here a fair while and I have showed interest in meets,but the most I’ve had is a few people mess me about and that’s it. If you were to be messaged by me and then went on to look at my profile what’s your thoughts?

Appreciate the feed back and happy fabbing

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"Hi guys and gals, I’ve been on here a fair while and I have showed interest in meets,but the most I’ve had is a few people mess me about and that’s it. If you were to be messaged by me and then went on to look at my profile what’s your thoughts?

Appreciate the feed back and happy fabbing "

I would say you think people want to meet your dick. But 99% of people won’t care what it looks like. You need decent pictures to get a reply .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just looked at your pictures - even though I had a feeling what I might find there seeing what your avatar is - and I left. No need to even read your profile. Not interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I would say you think people want to meet your dick. But 99% of people won’t care what it looks like. You need decent pictures to get a reply . "

Thanks for the feed back, I also (due to my job) can’t have to much on show facially, but do have private pics I can send of me, maybe doesn’t help that people can’t see I have private pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to reply privately. You asked for a feedback on this thread.

We all have jobs. No need to show your face on here but what's wrong with a torso, chest, bum or legs picture? Instead of 5-6 cock shots from different angles.

I'm amazed I have to write this again and again...

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


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I would say you think people want to meet your dick. But 99% of people won’t care what it looks like. You need decent pictures to get a reply .

Thanks for the feed back, I also (due to my job) can’t have to much on show facially, but do have private pics I can send of me, maybe doesn’t help that people can’t see I have private pics? "

Everyone has a job we both have public jobs and have never had any issues in 5 years of being on here. What is it you do ? You might find that if you add a few face pics to a message you will get a reply but any one browsing won’t message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say in your profile you won't go for any old person, but looking to meet 18-99 year olds...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No need to reply privately. You asked for a feedback on this thread.

We all have jobs. No need to show your face on here but what's wrong with a torso, chest, bum or legs picture? Instead of 5-6 cock shots from different angles.

I'm amazed I have to write this again and again...

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As I have a torso pic on there already, but wouldn’t feel my bum or a leg pic would be that appetising lol. But thanks for the feedback, I might try and experiment with some new pics

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely too many cock shots and a cock as an avatar wouldn't get a reply from me.

It amused me that you say "I won't go for any old person" but your age range is 99.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to review your text as well as your pics.

Also, the pic of a woman giving oral with what I assume is a wedding ring censored out isn't very classy, imo.

Some may also be put off by the inability to accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that emoji's a new one on me :/

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Need more clothed body pics rather than just lots of your cock (as it’s been said)

You can easily blur your face if you’re paranoid.

Also your profile write up is probably off puttting:

“I am a 28 year old straigh guy, straight meaning no wink or messages from gay or straight guys!

........

I won’t go for any old person, looks are a must so please don’t be offended if I say no.”

You can filter out guys, and you’ve not detailed what you mean by “old” and “looks”.

It just comes across as a bit atypical young single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Create a new profile, get rid of cock pictures and write completely different text. That's my advice, OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Everyone has a job we both have public jobs and have never had any issues in 5 years of being on here. What is it you do ? You might find that if you add a few face pics to a message you will get a reply but any one browsing won’t message you. "

I understand that completely, I work in public services and have already seen a lot of people that I work with on here lol so know it wouldn’t take to long to be spotted. But yes I do add face pics to messages as that seems to be quite a general request on peoples profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You say in your profile you won't go for any old person, but looking to meet 18-99 year olds..."

By any old person isn’t meant as in age, more like I wouldn’t just meet anyone and everyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You say in your profile you won't go for any old person, but looking to meet 18-99 year olds...

By any old person isn’t meant as in age, more like I wouldn’t just meet anyone and everyone lol"

Showing your age or rather maturity in this comment..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks are a must..? Unless you're Brad Pitt or similar I don't think this will get you lot of interest if you're not displaying your face picture.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


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Everyone has a job we both have public jobs and have never had any issues in 5 years of being on here. What is it you do ? You might find that if you add a few face pics to a message you will get a reply but any one browsing won’t message you.

I understand that completely, I work in public services and have already seen a lot of people that I work with on here lol so know it wouldn’t take to long to be spotted. But yes I do add face pics to messages as that seems to be quite a general request on peoples profiles."

So are you embarrassed to be on here or worried you would lose your job ?

How many messages do you send out with your face pic on? You might be sending it to people you know or to women who have silent partners that might know you.

not being argumentative btw just showing how the world of fab works.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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So are you embarrassed to be on here or worried you would lose your job ?

How many messages do you send out with your face pic on? You might be sending it to people you know or to women who have silent partners that might know you.

not being argumentative btw just showing how the world of fab works. "

Not at all embarrassed just prefer to keep both work and pleasure separate to avoid any issues at work flaring up. So if the profile requested it I will add them if not to avoid just sending my pics round I’ll add in the message I have some and I’m happy to send if needed.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

I’m sure its been covered in a few threads, but these days I can’t see how an employer can legally have any legitimate case against an employee simply for being into swinging. I suppose being reasonably discreet might be a debateable requirement for very public jobs like teaching, but any employment tribunal case would be a fascinating can of worms.

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