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By *nvercouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Inverness

Would you verify?

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

If he turned up and was who he said he was,yes.Take it as a compliment perhaps?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Five minutes is about the average time it takes a guy to cum through intercourse so I don't see why not if that was all it was - and even if it wasn't things like stage fright, over excitement etc all play a part on occasion and happen to everyone - guess it might depend if it was then game over or if he was able to recover and go again, or even was just happy to carry on using his fingers and tongue until he did.

It's happened to me in the past and fortunately I've been lucky enough to have been with people who have shrugged their shoulders, taken it as a compliment and been happy to do other things until I was ready to go again.

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By *owGirlCWoman
over a year ago

Bracknell

Someone just had sex in the room above me in a hotel. Only for about two minutes but I could hear her moaning so she must have been happy

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

You made him cum in under 5mins!

Were you not clapping and cheering at your achievements??

Some people are never happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a guy cum soon as the tip of his cock touched the outside of my vulva!

Sorry but yes I felt disappointed.

He got dressed and left. Even left his condom behind for me to pick up!

I didn't verify him no. If he expressed manners and didn't make me feel used and disappointed (purely going by his attitude not performance), then I would of verified him.

Verified him based upon his personality, looks and how I felt around him.

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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago

leighton buzzard

What are you verifying him on?

The whole meet or purely the fact he came so quickly?

Only one's with context are yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a guy cum soon as the tip of his cock touched the outside of my vulva!

Sorry but yes I felt disappointed.

He got dressed and left. Even left his condom behind for me to pick up!

I didn't verify him no. If he expressed manners and didn't make me feel used and disappointed (purely going by his attitude not performance), then I would of verified him.

Verified him based upon his personality, looks and how I felt around him."

Look at Mr Marathon man lasting that long. brag about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sometimes found myself cumming a bit early but I always found that making a lady cum using my mouth and fingers is the best way of satisfying the lady

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Depends if the meet was still any good?

I had a guy lose his hard on when he put a condom on (he was used to sex in a relationship and hadn't used one before) but he was ok about it and nothing was awkward so i verified him for turning up, plus some people do enjoy bareback so he'd probably have been alright meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if the meet was still any good?

I had a guy lose his hard on when he put a condom on (he was used to sex in a relationship and hadn't used one before) but he was ok about it and nothing was awkward so i verified him for turning up, plus some people do enjoy bareback so he'd probably have been alright meeting them."

I always try to make sure the lady is very satisfied ??

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"Depends if the meet was still any good?

I had a guy lose his hard on when he put a condom on (he was used to sex in a relationship and hadn't used one before) but he was ok about it and nothing was awkward so i verified him for turning up, plus some people do enjoy bareback so he'd probably have been alright meeting them.

I always try to make sure the lady is very satisfied ??"

He did some kissing and foreplay,think he give me oral (i've fucked a lot of guys so not sure). But i did want sex as well, like i said he wasn't a dick about it so no problems and i get that guys can have some issues at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if the meet was still any good?

I had a guy lose his hard on when he put a condom on (he was used to sex in a relationship and hadn't used one before) but he was ok about it and nothing was awkward so i verified him for turning up, plus some people do enjoy bareback so he'd probably have been alright meeting them.

I always try to make sure the lady is very satisfied ??

He did some kissing and foreplay,think he give me oral (i've fucked a lot of guys so not sure). But i did want sex as well, like i said he wasn't a dick about it so no problems and i get that guys can have some issues at times."

Sounds like you know exactly what you're doing... and after all... there's always time to have another go

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"Depends if the meet was still any good?

I had a guy lose his hard on when he put a condom on (he was used to sex in a relationship and hadn't used one before) but he was ok about it and nothing was awkward so i verified him for turning up, plus some people do enjoy bareback so he'd probably have been alright meeting them.

I always try to make sure the lady is very satisfied ??

He did some kissing and foreplay,think he give me oral (i've fucked a lot of guys so not sure). But i did want sex as well, like i said he wasn't a dick about it so no problems and i get that guys can have some issues at times.

Sounds like you know exactly what you're doing... and after all... there's always time to have another go "

We went and had a brew and chatted and stuff but didn't bother having another go lol. Wouldn't mind meeting him again now i've thought about him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if the meet was still any good?

I had a guy lose his hard on when he put a condom on (he was used to sex in a relationship and hadn't used one before) but he was ok about it and nothing was awkward so i verified him for turning up, plus some people do enjoy bareback so he'd probably have been alright meeting them.

I always try to make sure the lady is very satisfied ??

He did some kissing and foreplay,think he give me oral (i've fucked a lot of guys so not sure). But i did want sex as well, like i said he wasn't a dick about it so no problems and i get that guys can have some issues at times.

Sounds like you know exactly what you're doing... and after all... there's always time to have another go

We went and had a brew and chatted and stuff but didn't bother having another go lol. Wouldn't mind meeting him again now i've thought about him."

Hahaha I like your style...??

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""

If only you'd be interested in a 45 year old

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

I don't think the purpose of a verification is to go into detail about what happened during sex (there are enough posts laughing at the amount of detail people put into their veri's to be pretty clear on that).

So yes, I'd verify someone whose company I enjoyed enough to recommend him to others.

As everyone has different tastes, sexually, does it really matter if I thought he was great in bed or not? Just because he was a 10 (or zero) in my opinion doesn't mean that anyone else would agree.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Would you verify?"

Did he match the profile he has in here? Did he turn up on time? Was he clean, looking his best, polite, and easy to chat with? In short; was he genuine?

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

S has had a couple of occasions like this but I tell her to take it as a compliment that a guy was that excited he couldn't hold back any longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you verify?"
did he turn up?

Was he who he said he was?

If so yes why not

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Depends.

If there was loads of foreplay, and after he had cum he was back to more foreplay until he was ready to go again, then yes.

If, however, he was in, on, done, out and gone... then no.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

It's not allways about the sex good manners chatting having a good time sex is a bonus so yes would give them one

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Surely the verification thing is about, being genuine, clean, decent etc, not about was the guy a super stud and rattled with viagra so he could screw all night!!!

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"S has had a couple of occasions like this but I tell her to take it as a compliment that a guy was that excited he couldn't hold back any longer "

Following the thread, you never know when this is going to happen to you, so trying to keep the excitement in check can be difficult at times. I'm very disappointed if I can't give the lady the satisfaction she deserves by some method or another and I'm always ready to try whichever fits in each case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about 6 hours +?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I don't think the purpose of a verification is to go into detail about what happened during sex (there are enough posts laughing at the amount of detail people put into their veri's to be pretty clear on that).

So yes, I'd verify someone whose company I enjoyed enough to recommend him to others.

As everyone has different tastes, sexually, does it really matter if I thought he was great in bed or not? Just because he was a 10 (or zero) in my opinion doesn't mean that anyone else would agree."

Excellent attitude to verification

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I verify if they are who they say they are and aren't terrible people, if they want me to. So, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would be your reasoning for not verifying?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Fuck me, if I have put a lady through her paces I can’t last more than one to two minutes.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

One of the funniest most endearing moments I had with a new person, he hadn't put his cock all the way in and he came, cursing that he hadn't lasted.

After a bit more play not focused on his cock, he recovered. And if he hadn't, he was still charming, a great host, a considerate lover, etc.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Would you verify?"

Yes. If he turned up and was who he said he was then there is no reason not to.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've verified one or two full on disasters (I'm not identifying them). It wasn't anyone's fault or anything. I found nice things to say and skirted the truth.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Would you verify?"
yes why wouldn't you x

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

if he was a gent and that was his only downfall yes why not so he got stage fright . some times it takes a few meets to get sexually confident

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I've verified one or two full on disasters (I'm not identifying them). It wasn't anyone's fault or anything. I found nice things to say and skirted the truth. "

You have a gorgeous bum perfect for..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet he wouldn’t dare verify the OP if he’s seen this, poor chap!

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I love quick cum and go..

How do you make it last that long??

On some visits, esp if its their first time at a gloryhole,it can be seconds not minutes!!

Usually last longer on round 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but he has got better.

Still not verified him

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple
over a year ago

fairy land

You're supposed to be verifying that his profile is real, that he looks like his pics etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the verification thing is about, being genuine, clean, decent etc, not about was the guy a super stud and rattled with viagra so he could screw all night!!! "

Agreed...

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I once had a meet with someone I was unsure about after the social. Went along with it (that says it all), as he talked the talk.

However, twenty minutes after we hit the hotel room, he was done and finished and I was outside having a barely-post-coital cigarette as he had fallen asleep. The whole thing had been all about him with barely a hint of what I might want. I didn’t verify him and didn’t stay over.

I’ve had other meets where the guy has cum quickly and I’ve been more than happy to stick around, chatting and laughing and going for round two, three and four past the early hours of the morning because they were willing to focus on me, let me focus on them in other ways and generally weren’t douchesausages.

It happens to most guys at some point or another but it’s how they handle it that counts towards whether I verify or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow!!! I tht I am a terrible guy for lasting.. and women will be put off by the disappointing performance... You gals here are amazing.. really enjoyed your very thoughtful comments and learnt from the insights you shared about what else you like apart from the obvious during sex.. I am a much more confident man now ...

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By *alifaxsiMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"Would you verify?"

Yes - after all he turned up and was genuine.

Not everyone can last ages, can be a curse sometimes not being able to cum quickly !!

I've been sore from sex before I came and it's not fun sometimes.

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By *ralpleaser36Man
over a year ago

Swindon

So glad I’ve read through this thread. Depending on the circumstances I can cum very quickly, as a bloke it can really knock your confidence so reading some of the comments from you lovely people has made me feel much better.

Personally, I get turned on so much more knowing that the woman you’re with is having a good time so I always try to make sure she cums through foreplay before I even attempt to have sex, and if I do cum quickly then carry on with what was working before and prepare for a much better round 2 or 3.

Why wouldn’t you veri him though? If he is who he said he is and you had a nice time in his company then surely that’s what matters right?

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By *isst123Couple
over a year ago

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If a guy turned up as promised, was nice, friendly, as described in his profile, and then come in two minutes... then we would 100% give a positive verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not? He was probably very excited. It'll take him a bit longer to cum the second time, there plenty of things he could be doing that don't involve his cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifying isn't meant to be a gauge of performance, but that the person is real and genuine, I thought. Granted you don't have to verify people if you don't want, but it would be somewhat off imo to not verify someone purely because they came early. Like, do I not verify someone because they didn't like/want to do xyz?

I always make sure a female playmate cums before I do the PIV, tbh. Seems the proper, ladylike thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you should verify him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did u not go again as guys tend to last longer second time around or did u just show him the door,was there fore play ,we need more info to give a more balanced answer op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky on the rare occasion I cum early I maintain an erection and can carry on for longer but usually I need hand relief to cum as I'm so focused on the lady and not myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes i can last a while, sometimes two minutes depends how horny i am, how much ive edged etc , if i blow my load quick gimme 10 mins while i lick you out then boom back in action haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes i can last a while, sometimes two minutes depends how horny i am, how much ive edged etc , if i blow my load quick gimme 10 mins while i lick you out then boom back in action haha x"
but the op probably wouldn't let u recover if u came too quick lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes i can last a while, sometimes two minutes depends how horny i am, how much ive edged etc , if i blow my load quick gimme 10 mins while i lick you out then boom back in action haha xbut the op probably wouldn't let u recover if u came too quick lol"

I still would want a veri haha

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, the length of time is not important for me, there's other enjoyable things that are just as important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gor blimey yeah if there was a few cumming one after the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That used to be me as they used to call me 5min wonder lol, little did I know the use of a cock ring! Best friends ever since

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

A massive compliment, just don't mention in the Veri

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I've cum quickly first time on a few occasions, and reactions have varied...

....one woman clearly took it as a compliment that she'd had such an effect on me - her face was a picture, a mix of surprise and delight, accompanied by a giggled "Wow!"...

....another simply reassured me that it was nothing to worry about, and that the best was yet to come - and it did...

....whilst one laughed, told me I'd still lasted longer than her husband ever could, and that it would be fine as long as I could go again - which I did, and he also never could, apparently!

One of my verifications is from one of the above-mentioned - another had also verified me, but having left the site, that one's no longer visible...

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Yes, of course.

Being quick shouldn’t be seen as a hindrance to a great sex life.

My previous primary partner has cerebral palsy and although our sex life was fantastic, due to his condition we found that he had little to no control over his cock. Handy sometimes when you’d want or only have time for a quickie but it was sometimes frustrating that we couldn’t share the intimacy that is penetrative sex for more than 3-5 minutes.

However what it did mean was we found ways that made him playing with me would also prolong his pleasure without the aching need to have him inside me. It rekindled my love for edging with someone and the various ways to play with foreplay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a guy cum soon as the tip of his cock touched the outside of my vulva!

Sorry but yes I felt disappointed.

He got dressed and left. Even left his condom behind for me to pick up!

I didn't verify him no. If he expressed manners and didn't make me feel used and disappointed (purely going by his attitude not performance), then I would of verified him.

Verified him based upon his personality, looks and how I felt around him."

Vulva brilliant ????????

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Would you verify?"

Yes, the verification system is about showing whether someone is genuine or not.

Too many people use it as some kind of sex rating thing

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Yes, the length of time is not important for me, there's other enjoyable things that are just as important "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you verified him yet op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woah, 5 minutes isn’t long enough?? Damn...

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I have been with women who seem to want to make me cum as quick as possible like it's a challenge or something but then also seem disappointed when it happens. But in any case like many blokes I tend to be on a hair trigger to start with and then once I've come once I can come back for another go and then subsequent rounds last a lot longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a guy cum soon as the tip of his cock touched the outside of my vulva!

Sorry but yes I felt disappointed.

He got dressed and left. Even left his condom behind for me to pick up!

I didn't verify him no. If he expressed manners and didn't make me feel used and disappointed (purely going by his attitude not performance), then I would of verified him.

Verified him based upon his personality, looks and how I felt around him."
he was probably embarrassed but see it this way you were that good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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You sound lovely and that was fantastic thing to say top lady

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I once had a meet with someone I was unsure about after the social. Went along with it (that says it all), as he talked the talk.

However, twenty minutes after we hit the hotel room, he was done and finished and I was outside having a barely-post-coital cigarette as he had fallen asleep. The whole thing had been all about him with barely a hint of what I might want. I didn’t verify him and didn’t stay over.

I’ve had other meets where the guy has cum quickly and I’ve been more than happy to stick around, chatting and laughing and going for round two, three and four past the early hours of the morning because they were willing to focus on me, let me focus on them in other ways and generally weren’t douchesausages.

It happens to most guys at some point or another but it’s how they handle it that counts towards whether I verify or not.

"

Great attitude and good post

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There's no site pressure to fab anyone - it's something that's between the people meeting, inclding whether they had pre-agreed to fab each other.

Premature ejaculation can obviously be troubling for men, who can also miss out on the lengthier, possibly more fulfilling sessions. It also depends on whether he is able to recover as well as what you all do, once he's cum: activity doesn't need to stop.

If someone had agreed to spend a few hours together and he turned up, doing whatever he could to hasten his cumming and he then ran off - maybe after you'd paid for a hotel in full - then it would be a different matter.

I'd generally veri someone if they were a great person, arrangements were easy and we got on - it doesn't need to be about the sexual activity. If there were elements of untoward behaviour, difficult interaction or being deceived, then a positive veri wouldn't be forthcoming, in all likelihood and they may receive a 'report' via fab admin, depending on what they've done.

I always discuss the length of availability in advance and share expectations too. Someone may get an emergency work or family call or alternatively may be cheating on someone and getting something, even if it's the absolute minimum, such as a 2 second 'wonder' job.

I feel for guys who experience premature ejaculation and ED issues. If you are going to be physically warm, then cuddling and other sexual activities that don't need someone to be constantly hard, are still satisfying warm-up and filler actions to savour.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

5 minutes isn’t premature, just a quickie! 1 minute, now that’s premature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once drove an hour to meet a guy and he shot his load as he was pushing into me and then asked if he could keep my knickers and if I could verify him! I asked him what he would like me to verify because I couldn’t say what he was like in the sack just that he could fill a condom rather quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a guy cum soon as the tip of his cock touched the outside of my vulva!

Sorry but yes I felt disappointed.

He got dressed and left. Even left his condom behind for me to pick up!

I didn't verify him no. If he expressed manners and didn't make me feel used and disappointed (purely going by his attitude not performance), then I would of verified him.

Verified him based upon his personality, looks and how I felt around him. he was probably embarrassed but see it this way you were that good"

I would never take it as a compliment if a man came that quickly! More a case of inexperience on his part. And as for embarrassment, he needs to grow up and learn some manners! He behaved like a pig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone just had sex in the room above me in a hotel. Only for about two minutes but I could hear her moaning so she must have been happy "

Yes but she was screaming, "Two minutes, you better not cum before I do"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes he turned up he is what he says he is verify him I would take that as a compliment and make him go again afterwards

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London

Well question is did u enjoy it? Did he leave u wanting more or with another go? If u didn't actually think its worthy of a "veri" then don't. U could always write the truth and then its upto him if he puts it on his profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the verification is there to show that said person is 'real' and not say a time waster (no pun intended) or 'fake'

Surely if you're not happy with the meet, there's nothing to say you can just leave a simple line like 'have met recently and xan confirm this person is real'

That way it indirectly shows you've met them so you're not fake (assuming they dont hide the verifications)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignoring the verification part of this thread.

A shortened version of a tale of a meet we had here a few years ago when I was here with a female swinging partner..

We had a short social meet with a guy and after a little discussion my partner said she wouldn't mind meeting him for a play session the following week. Arrangements were duly made for the following week. My partner spent quite a time preparing herself and was dressed in basque,stockings and high heels(looking stunning!) He duly turned up on time looking tidy etc and they proceeded to get acquainted on the sofa,kissing cuddling etc. She then invited him to have a blow job. He stood in front of her and she began to swallow. Within moments the guy started to apologise and started to cum... He apologised profusely and said that there was now no further chance of him getting another erection and began to perform oral on her and playing with her. Alas for him she was a girl who liked cock and a lot of it! Clearly getting nowhere he again began apologising and I asked her to demonstrate her'party trick' knowing exactly what I meant she stood up and facing me revealed her boobs fully. I preceded to then squeeze her nipple hard,and after a few moments she had her usual whole body shattering orgasm. After picking his jaw off the floor at her reaction he grabbed his coat and still apologising reversed out of the door..Poor guy was overwhelmed by her and it was his first meet with anyone having been in a very vanilla marriage for many years. Despite mailing him we never heard from him again... As my ex said after,nice guy but was upset at the shortness of the meet having spent the time getting ready and we could have been in bed together. We always had limited time together due to family constraints. Lesson learn't? Bit of a shame he didn't keep in touch as he was a central heating engineer and her boiler packed up a few weeks later so perhaps she could have negotiated mates rates?? That's the short version should any ladies wish to learn the party trick please get in touch???

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Poor guy probably thought "I can't compete with that" and then spent the next few nights trawling the web for instructions on 'how to'...

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Had a guy cum soon as the tip of his cock touched the outside of my vulva!

Sorry but yes I felt disappointed.

He got dressed and left. Even left his condom behind for me to pick up!

I didn't verify him no. If he expressed manners and didn't make me feel used and disappointed (purely going by his attitude not performance), then I would of verified him.

Verified him based upon his personality, looks and how I felt around him."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignoring the verification part of this thread.

A shortened version of a tale of a meet we had here a few years ago when I was here with a female swinging partner..

We had a short social meet with a guy and after a little discussion my partner said she wouldn't mind meeting him for a play session the following week. Arrangements were duly made for the following week. My partner spent quite a time preparing herself and was dressed in basque,stockings and high heels(looking stunning!) He duly turned up on time looking tidy etc and they proceeded to get acquainted on the sofa,kissing cuddling etc. She then invited him to have a blow job. He stood in front of her and she began to swallow. Within moments the guy started to apologise and started to cum... He apologised profusely and said that there was now no further chance of him getting another erection and began to perform oral on her and playing with her. Alas for him she was a girl who liked cock and a lot of it! Clearly getting nowhere he again began apologising and I asked her to demonstrate her'party trick' knowing exactly what I meant she stood up and facing me revealed her boobs fully. I preceded to then squeeze her nipple hard,and after a few moments she had her usual whole body shattering orgasm. After picking his jaw off the floor at her reaction he grabbed his coat and still apologising reversed out of the door..Poor guy was overwhelmed by her and it was his first meet with anyone having been in a very vanilla marriage for many years. Despite mailing him we never heard from him again... As my ex said after,nice guy but was upset at the shortness of the meet having spent the time getting ready and we could have been in bed together. We always had limited time together due to family constraints. Lesson learn't? Bit of a shame he didn't keep in touch as he was a central heating engineer and her boiler packed up a few weeks later so perhaps she could have negotiated mates rates?? That's the short version should any ladies wish to learn the party trick please get in touch???"

I’m intrigued to know how I can orgasm from a nipple squeeze..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a guy at pleasures cum in about 25 seconds..Hubby waz still getting undressed. Couldn't believe it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I've gone for an hour but sometimes I am done In a couple of mins if that's the case tho I would keep playing till I got hard again doesn't usually take long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best meet we ever had was a guy who had problems getting a hard on due to a health condition. He was amazing with his fingers and tongue - best ever ever. We didnt meet him off Fab but in a local club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The giy we had that lasted 25 seconds..got up and left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The giy we had that lasted 25 seconds..got up and left "

Now that's just rude and selfish. Ladies first and all that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The giy we had that lasted 25 seconds..got up and left "

Could never get that I would feel awful and obliged to carry on in some fashion hope you got some from of release.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i had hubby there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i had hubby there"

Nice to be a couple good you didn't end up to dissapointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy should have had a wank before the meet. Never go out with a loaded gun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the next one please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the next one please

"

Raises my hand ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you verify?"

I tend to take my time to orgasm on most occasions, but even if a man comes with you quickly then take it as the highest compliment and enjoy the likes of oily rubs, teasing oral or whatever Madam desires for a couple of minutes till he can go again?

No biggie.

B

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Better not give me a bj then lol,

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"Would you verify?"

The purpose of a verification is to confirm the meet looks like their profile pictures, is who they claim to be and turned up as planned.

It's not supposed to be a score card for sexual performance, although a lot of verifications are written just like that.

So yes, we would verify.

We wouldn't start a thread about it. It's possible the guy felt mortified and embarrassed.

A thread like this wouldn't be very kind.

I'm not sure of your motives behind the thread. Surely it's a question that a bit of consideration and common sense could have answered.

M plus E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guy should have had a wank before the meet. Never go out with a loaded gun "

A must x

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By *eorgeo1Man
over a year ago

Slaley

My wife and I met a guy in a hotel during the day time, planned for a few hours of fun wife sharing and a threesum. He turned up on time. Had about five mins of oral play. He then went 1st and lasted three minutes. We then chattered for about twenty minutes and tried again. He said his nerves got the better of him. And left less than 45 mins of entering the room. We verified the person. Eventually verified us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a guy cum soon as the tip of his cock touched the outside of my vulva!

Sorry but yes I felt disappointed.

He got dressed and left. Even left his condom behind for me to pick up!

I didn't verify him no. If he expressed manners and didn't make me feel used and disappointed (purely going by his attitude not performance), then I would of verified him.

Verified him based upon his personality, looks and how I felt around him."

Sorry about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one who wanted a veri after 3 minutes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Five minutes is about the average time it takes a guy to cum through intercourse so I don't see why not if that was all it was - and even if it wasn't things like stage fright, over excitement etc all play a part on occasion and happen to everyone - guess it might depend if it was then game over or if he was able to recover and go again, or even was just happy to carry on using his fingers and tongue until he did.

It's happened to me in the past and fortunately I've been lucky enough to have been with people who have shrugged their shoulders, taken it as a compliment and been happy to do other things until I was ready to go again."

Met a girl a few years back , went back to mine had a drink and chat for around 30 mins then headed up stairs , I was hard as a rock as she’d been rubbing me , we got to bed room started kissing and undressing and within second of our naked body’s touching I came , was very embarrassing we had to clean up before we had started basically , but fortunately she’s stayed and after a while and some playing thing got going well and we both had a great time together

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

It happens to most people at some point! Been there myself you just find other ways to have fun and if you recover then a bonus. I wouldnt give a bad veri for it if they turned up and were respectful and had a little fun then why not give a good veri!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to the best of us, a little Change of play and a 5 minute recovery break and it’s game on again. What about when a bloke can’t cum? I’ve had it where I’ve been fucking my little heart out for 15-20 minutes none stop and I can’t cum for the life of me. She’s loves it but eventually she’s that fucked she’s to exhausted to carry on

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By *ntonio24888Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Thats right you have a point lol ...

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By *ntonio24888Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Yes i had hubby there

Nice to be a couple good you didn't end up to dissapointed. "

)) lol good point )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"S has had a couple of occasions like this but I tell her to take it as a compliment that a guy was that excited he couldn't hold back any longer "

Completely understand how that could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about training your mind and having constant wanks

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By *appy but hornyMan
over a year ago

wakefield

I cum in seconds and that's the reason we had a cuckold lifestyle

Short answer I know, loved every second we played

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By *plbnorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I remember a guy who did blow quick but ended up being one of the best meets we have had. C only put her hands down hos boxers and tugged him a few times and it went off innhis pants but when he recovered and played again he lasted about an hour and made her cum 3 times

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By *oerow16Man
over a year ago

Essex/ London

I usually cum in 5 mins just carry on playing with them few minutes later ready to go again

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"I once had a meet with someone I was unsure about after the social. Went along with it (that says it all), as he talked the talk.

However, twenty minutes after we hit the hotel room, he was done and finished and I was outside having a barely-post-coital cigarette as he had fallen asleep. The whole thing had been all about him with barely a hint of what I might want. I didn’t verify him and didn’t stay over.

I’ve had other meets where the guy has cum quickly and I’ve been more than happy to stick around, chatting and laughing and going for round two, three and four past the early hours of the morning because they were willing to focus on me, let me focus on them in other ways and generally weren’t douchesausages.

It happens to most guys at some point or another but it’s how they handle it that counts towards whether I verify or not.

"

I think this pretty much covers it. The funny thing with me is that I get turned on when the lady is getting turned on, so I can never, ever cum first, the lady always gets sorted out, tongue, fingers, toys or whatever she desires.

The poor guy had a rough time, if he wasn’t a massive asshole then not verifying him would probably hit him even harder than the “early cumming” did! I know this is a sex site, but the very is much like a like on social media, put something out there and don’t get a like it’s gunna affect him. Obviously if he was really cocky and a bit of a dick then maybe message him and tell him you’re not verifying him due to that?

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Yes, we would. 99.9% of men never make me cum, or cover any of my wants or needs. So I turn it to my advantage, I'm a greedy girl, you've cum, next!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Yes, we would. 99.9% of men never make me cum, or cover any of my wants or needs. So I turn it to my advantage, I'm a greedy girl, you've cum, next! "

Me too

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By *ornysxguyMan
over a year ago

Maldon, Essex

If you feel that he didn’t live up to the playing expectation then don’t mention it. If he turned up, was what you expected on that respect then why not? Could have been nerves or the fact your too good at what you did to stimulate as to why he cane so quick.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

He definitely not a timewaster

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I've had a guy who cums in 5 seconds lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignoring the verification part of this thread.

A shortened version of a tale of a meet we had here a few years ago when I was here with a female swinging partner..

We had a short social meet with a guy and after a little discussion my partner said she wouldn't mind meeting him for a play session the following week. Arrangements were duly made for the following week. My partner spent quite a time preparing herself and was dressed in basque,stockings and high heels(looking stunning!) He duly turned up on time looking tidy etc and they proceeded to get acquainted on the sofa,kissing cuddling etc. She then invited him to have a blow job. He stood in front of her and she began to swallow. Within moments the guy started to apologise and started to cum... He apologised profusely and said that there was now no further chance of him getting another erection and began to perform oral on her and playing with her. Alas for him she was a girl who liked cock and a lot of it! Clearly getting nowhere he again began apologising and I asked her to demonstrate her'party trick' knowing exactly what I meant she stood up and facing me revealed her boobs fully. I preceded to then squeeze her nipple hard,and after a few moments she had her usual whole body shattering orgasm. After picking his jaw off the floor at her reaction he grabbed his coat and still apologising reversed out of the door..Poor guy was overwhelmed by her and it was his first meet with anyone having been in a very vanilla marriage for many years. Despite mailing him we never heard from him again... As my ex said after,nice guy but was upset at the shortness of the meet having spent the time getting ready and we could have been in bed together. We always had limited time together due to family constraints. Lesson learn't? Bit of a shame he didn't keep in touch as he was a central heating engineer and her boiler packed up a few weeks later so perhaps she could have negotiated mates rates?? That's the short version should any ladies wish to learn the party trick please get in touch???

I’m intrigued to know how I can orgasm from a nipple squeeze..?"

It's all a matter of training by the Dom of his submissive, Given time I think a Dom could get a good submissive to orgasm from voice command only(alas I've never managed this personally!) Apparently the pain orgasm has a lot to do with endorphins which heighten sensations? Pain causes production of these and combined with the trust the sub has in her Dom(actually knowing she is utterly safe) means the heightened state of alertness can be directed towards sexual release. Thus giving body shattering orgasms! That's my theory,but I'm sure there are better qualified who could put me right as I'm only working through experience not scientific research?? Any input or enquiries very welcome of course!(especially from available females of course!) Good luck practicing folks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you verify?

The purpose of a verification is to confirm the meet looks like their profile pictures, is who they claim to be and turned up as planned.

It's not supposed to be a score card for sexual performance, although a lot of verifications are written just like that.

So yes, we would verify.

We wouldn't start a thread about it. It's possible the guy felt mortified and embarrassed.

A thread like this wouldn't be very kind.

I'm not sure of your motives behind the thread. Surely it's a question that a bit of consideration and common sense could have answered.

M plus E

"

This is probably the best answer yet

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By *ecks74Woman
over a year ago

wrexham

Me and my fb had been chatting to this guy for a couple of weeks and arranged to meet next time he was in town at his hotel. We had shared a video of us fooling around with him and had a week or so of naughty chats of what we were all going to go. Wednesday came and we arrive at hotel, starts off pretty well but after about 10 mins of foreplay he puts condom on and starts to fuck me whilst I’m sucking my fb. Literally fellt him enter me and after about 3 thrusts he apologised and said he’d cum. He then said you two carry on I’ll be ready to go again in a minute. So we continue and out of corner of my eye I’m checking to see if he was ready. We fuck for about 20 minutes then and still no sign of him anywhere near ready to go again. We continue for another 30 mins or so and the guy apologised said it was no good and was going to shower. We literally finished and left as it felt awkward!!! Still verified him though but he has not displayed it or left us one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy, gorgeous, just my type. We started to play and he hadn't even entered me and he came.

Didn't bother me tbf, these things happen. He was mortified though and I felt bad that he felt bad.

Had cuddles and chatted after, still a lovely evening with a lovely guy. Sex for me is a small part of the experience. I like the person on a holistic level

And yes I left him a lovely veri. He messaged me later still mortified, said no one had made him feel the way I had before.

We still chat and we still meet up when I'm in his locality. He has become a really good friend

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I met a guy, gorgeous, just my type. We started to play and he hadn't even entered me and he came.

Didn't bother me tbf, these things happen. He was mortified though and I felt bad that he felt bad.

Had cuddles and chatted after, still a lovely evening with a lovely guy. Sex for me is a small part of the experience. I like the person on a holistic level

And yes I left him a lovely veri. He messaged me later still mortified, said no one had made him feel the way I had before.

We still chat and we still meet up when I'm in his locality. He has become a really good friend

"

This and your comments in the "performance" thread yesterday speak volumes, and I know you're not alone in thinking that way - but thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This and your comments in the "performance" thread yesterday speak volumes, and I know you're not alone in thinking that way - but thank you "

Thank you, really nice of you to say so. Just being me, into building people up, not tearing people down. Life is full of stress, and full of crap. You never know what people are going through in life, and kindness empathy and understanding cost absolutely nothing.

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over a year ago


"I met a guy, gorgeous, just my type. We started to play and he hadn't even entered me and he came.

Didn't bother me tbf, these things happen. He was mortified though and I felt bad that he felt bad.

Had cuddles and chatted after, still a lovely evening with a lovely guy. Sex for me is a small part of the experience. I like the person on a holistic level

And yes I left him a lovely veri. He messaged me later still mortified, said no one had made him feel the way I had before.

We still chat and we still meet up when I'm in his locality. He has become a really good friend

"

A few more people with similar views and guys blighted by PE wouldn't feel so pressured, or bad when things don't go as planned.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

This and your comments in the "performance" thread yesterday speak volumes, and I know you're not alone in thinking that way - but thank you

Thank you, really nice of you to say so. Just being me, into building people up, not tearing people down. Life is full of stress, and full of crap. You never know what people are going through in life, and kindness empathy and understanding cost absolutely nothing."

I think us men put far too much pressure on ourselves at times, and as I said in yesterday's thread, this place doesn't help at times with some of the tales of "prowess" that appear - so threads like that one and comments like yours on this one that provide reassurance and understanding are both refreshing and welcome.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Someone just had sex in the room above me in a hotel. Only for about two minutes but I could hear her moaning so she must have been happy "

Was it the right kind of moaning though ?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Would you verify?"

If I was with a woman and made her cum in 5 minutes then hell yes I'd love a verification

Just do one and it's up to him if he posts it, I'm assuming you told him it was ok and he satisfied you in other ways until he was hard again and lasted longer or did he leg it immediately after ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you verify?

Did he match the profile he has in here? Did he turn up on time? Was he clean, looking his best, polite, and easy to chat with? In short; was he genuine? "

I think that's the best way to give some one a verification

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

5 mins ? is this possible in reality

I lasted 30 seconds once

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"5 mins ? is this possible in reality

I lasted 30 seconds once "

Op obviously started the stop watch as soon as he walked in through the front door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you need a quickie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true, sometimes, time is limited

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

In the rare event that i fuck a lady I tend to cum very quickly, I just get over excited, i try to hold it back but most times i just cant.

I always make sure I go straight down on the lady though as i like them to be satisfied too.

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"Would you verify?"

Yeah if he got it up again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad I've read though this ,as at times this happens to me and it plays on ur mind, but reading though the comments has made me feel abit better about it, I'm not a guy that just wants a quick fuck then go, I do like using my fingers and tongue. Regardless off how long I last I will always try and make sure the women has a good time and feels wanted and not used. But once I've cum just go to foreplay and when ready just go again and so on . We are here to live and learn .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm glad I've read though this ,as at times this happens to me and it plays on ur mind, but reading though the comments has made me feel abit better about it, I'm not a guy that just wants a quick fuck then go, I do like using my fingers and tongue. Regardless off how long I last I will always try and make sure the women has a good time and feels wanted and not used. But once I've cum just go to foreplay and when ready just go again and so on . We are here to live and learn ."

This is so true

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By *he Devil XXXMan
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Regardless of the verification part of this thread.

It has been an enlightening and reassuring experience reading through the whole thread.

To date I have not had this issue but being honest, it is a slight background anxiety and I do sympathise with people who do have this issue.

I mean, if literally all boxes are ticked and the momentum of the mood etc. Well K'know.

(Note: I will be buying a cock ring now as that sounds fun.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you verify?"

Sounds like one of those who thinks when a guy cums its all over and not all over you .

There's a few of us who can cum multiple times, and cumming is also only a small part of a play meet imo.

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By *oneythiefMan
over a year ago

Perthshire

Perhaps you should ask future meets how long they can last before you meet and if they are repeaters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the other hand are people like me where occasionally ill get into my own head and just pysically cant cum. I had a bad experience when i was younger and now the more i try and cum the longer it takes to the point i just give up exhausted.

You should have tried and been abit reassuring because it happened to me and i know id rather cum too quickly than go for hours and not cum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my fb had been chatting to this guy for a couple of weeks and arranged to meet next time he was in town at his hotel. We had shared a video of us fooling around with him and had a week or so of naughty chats of what we were all going to go. Wednesday came and we arrive at hotel, starts off pretty well but after about 10 mins of foreplay he puts condom on and starts to fuck me whilst I’m sucking my fb. Literally fellt him enter me and after about 3 thrusts he apologised and said he’d cum. He then said you two carry on I’ll be ready to go again in a minute. So we continue and out of corner of my eye I’m checking to see if he was ready. We fuck for about 20 minutes then and still no sign of him anywhere near ready to go again. We continue for another 30 mins or so and the guy apologised said it was no good and was going to shower. We literally finished and left as it felt awkward!!! Still verified him though but he has not displayed it or left us one "
maybe he feels embarrassed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby can't last more than 5 seconds lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is of course better to get a lady to orgasm before the sex bit, slow things down and be patient. Usually after one you can turn it into multiples.. If you are one of the the thousands of excess guys on here you have to be good at one thing and that's delivering what a lady needs and putting your own needs second.

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By *ecks74Woman
over a year ago

wrexham


"Me and my fb had been chatting to this guy for a couple of weeks and arranged to meet next time he was in town at his hotel. We had shared a video of us fooling around with him and had a week or so of naughty chats of what we were all going to go. Wednesday came and we arrive at hotel, starts off pretty well but after about 10 mins of foreplay he puts condom on and starts to fuck me whilst I’m sucking my fb. Literally fellt him enter me and after about 3 thrusts he apologised and said he’d cum. He then said you two carry on I’ll be ready to go again in a minute. So we continue and out of corner of my eye I’m checking to see if he was ready. We fuck for about 20 minutes then and still no sign of him anywhere near ready to go again. We continue for another 30 mins or so and the guy apologised said it was no good and was going to shower. We literally finished and left as it felt awkward!!! Still verified him though but he has not displayed it or left us one maybe he feels embarrassed "

We did speak later that day and I told him not to worry it happens to everyone

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

I cum quick, take it as a compliment, get me hard and go again

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By *opedick89Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Been reading through but I think it's a shame that all you ladies think 5 mins is acceptable lol

Any woman seeking a real fuck plz contact

Long foreplay get juices flowing then fucking straight 30 to hour

Cum then chill and go again next round

I wouldn't even brag about lasting 2 to 5 mins lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been reading through but I think it's a shame that all you ladies think 5 mins is acceptable lol

Any woman seeking a real fuck plz contact

Long foreplay get juices flowing then fucking straight 30 to hour

Cum then chill and go again next round

I wouldn't even brag about lasting 2 to 5 mins lol"

I tend to agree! I had no idea this was so common amongst experienced men. I should clearly be grateful that most of my lovers have had no trouble in lasting up to two hours, sometimes longer. (I suppose some smart-arse will say it's because I'm unattractive)

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By *opedick89Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Been reading through but I think it's a shame that all you ladies think 5 mins is acceptable lol

Any woman seeking a real fuck plz contact

Long foreplay get juices flowing then fucking straight 30 to hour

Cum then chill and go again next round

I wouldn't even brag about lasting 2 to 5 mins lol

I tend to agree! I had no idea this was so common amongst experienced men. I should clearly be grateful that most of my lovers have had no trouble in lasting up to two hours, sometimes longer. (I suppose some smart-arse will say it's because I'm unattractive)"

If someone says something negative to this either they haven't had real session or they become familiar with accepting quick Cum.

Any woman having sex with you would surely not want it to end and to get the most out of it

In 5 mins can't even spank that ass or pull the hair or tit fuck etc like lol some off you guys are getting away with murder(5 mins)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mrs can cum in under a minute with foreplay and sexual intercourse if she's been mentally turned on beforehand.

Can't believe people have verified her if it's a problem

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Been reading through but I think it's a shame that all you ladies think 5 mins is acceptable lol

Any woman seeking a real fuck plz contact

Long foreplay get juices flowing then fucking straight 30 to hour

Cum then chill and go again next round

I wouldn't even brag about lasting 2 to 5 mins lol

I tend to agree! I had no idea this was so common amongst experienced men. I should clearly be grateful that most of my lovers have had no trouble in lasting up to two hours, sometimes longer. (I suppose some smart-arse will say it's because I'm unattractive)

If someone says something negative to this either they haven't had real session or they become familiar with accepting quick Cum.

Any woman having sex with you would surely not want it to end and to get the most out of it

In 5 mins can't even spank that ass or pull the hair or tit fuck etc like lol some off you guys are getting away with murder(5 mins)"

And it's exactly posts like this that cause anxieties in *some* men - as has clearly been shown throughout this thread it is most definitely *not* about how long you can last for *most* people and is all about finding what works for the individuals involved.

Simple fact is that the average length of time a guy takes to cum through penetrative sex alone in the UK is between 5 and 15 minutes.

Saying things like "they haven't had a real session" is not only insulting but not particularly helpful either.

If you can go for hours and that is what your partners like then good for you but it doesn't make you somehow better, or a "real" lover - it just means it takes you longer to cum plain and simple.

As I've said further up being "good in bed" is about knowing your abilities, and finding how they work with a partner *not* simply that you are able to bang away for hours - to suggest otherwise is wrong as this thread has shown.

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By *oshtotty23Couple
over a year ago

S

I have had it to us he started playing then bang. I just made him hard again and carried on playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been reading through but I think it's a shame that all you ladies think 5 mins is acceptable lol

Any woman seeking a real fuck plz contact

Long foreplay get juices flowing then fucking straight 30 to hour

Cum then chill and go again next round

I wouldn't even brag about lasting 2 to 5 mins lol

I tend to agree! I had no idea this was so common amongst experienced men. I should clearly be grateful that most of my lovers have had no trouble in lasting up to two hours, sometimes longer. (I suppose some smart-arse will say it's because I'm unattractive)

If someone says something negative to this either they haven't had real session or they become familiar with accepting quick Cum.

Any woman having sex with you would surely not want it to end and to get the most out of it

In 5 mins can't even spank that ass or pull the hair or tit fuck etc like lol some off you guys are getting away with murder(5 mins)

And it's exactly posts like this that cause anxieties in *some* men - as has clearly been shown throughout this thread it is most definitely *not* about how long you can last for *most* people and is all about finding what works for the individuals involved.

Simple fact is that the average length of time a guy takes to cum through penetrative sex alone in the UK is between 5 and 15 minutes.

Saying things like "they haven't had a real session" is not only insulting but not particularly helpful either.

If you can go for hours and that is what your partners like then good for you but it doesn't make you somehow better, or a "real" lover - it just means it takes you longer to cum plain and simple.

As I've said further up being "good in bed" is about knowing your abilities, and finding how they work with a partner *not* simply that you are able to bang away for hours - to suggest otherwise is wrong as this thread has shown."
Totally agree, had experience of thirty minutes - one hour and all it made me realise was that the ceiling needed painting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most guys on here are thinking “Wow, how did he manage to last 5 minutes?!”

It depends on the amount of foreplay before - if that is included in the 5mins then ok, it was a bit hasty, lol.

Ladies should always cum first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been reading through but I think it's a shame that all you ladies think 5 mins is acceptable lol

Any woman seeking a real fuck plz contact

Long foreplay get juices flowing then fucking straight 30 to hour

Cum then chill and go again next round

I wouldn't even brag about lasting 2 to 5 mins lol

I tend to agree! I had no idea this was so common amongst experienced men. I should clearly be grateful that most of my lovers have had no trouble in lasting up to two hours, sometimes longer. (I suppose some smart-arse will say it's because I'm unattractive)

If someone says something negative to this either they haven't had real session or they become familiar with accepting quick Cum.

Any woman having sex with you would surely not want it to end and to get the most out of it

In 5 mins can't even spank that ass or pull the hair or tit fuck etc like lol some off you guys are getting away with murder(5 mins)

And it's exactly posts like this that cause anxieties in *some* men - as has clearly been shown throughout this thread it is most definitely *not* about how long you can last for *most* people and is all about finding what works for the individuals involved.

Simple fact is that the average length of time a guy takes to cum through penetrative sex alone in the UK is between 5 and 15 minutes.

Saying things like "they haven't had a real session" is not only insulting but not particularly helpful either.

If you can go for hours and that is what your partners like then good for you but it doesn't make you somehow better, or a "real" lover - it just means it takes you longer to cum plain and simple.

As I've said further up being "good in bed" is about knowing your abilities, and finding how they work with a partner *not* simply that you are able to bang away for hours - to suggest otherwise is wrong as this thread has shown."

Well said mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had it to us he started playing then bang. I just made him hard again and carried on playing "

That's what we can do to women so why not do it to men too.

I had women cum inside a few minutes, does that imply she no good for more... I keep giving. There's a point which is different for everyone when you know it's time to rest, then maybe start again.

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By *anya1974Woman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Shame on him.

I am sure many would have felt the same way.

He wouldn't have shown the veri anyway but I would have felt better telling him what I thought.

Good job not all guys are like him.

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By *anya1974Woman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Its all about mutual pleasure for me.

Clearly OP didn't get anything out of the experience.

Read her post again to refresh.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Shame on him.

I am sure many would have felt the same way.

He wouldn't have shown the veri anyway but I would have felt better telling him what I thought.

Good job not all guys are like him."

"Shame on him"?

For cumming within 5 minutes? How is that shameful?!

*All* that we know (as the OP hasn't provided further detail or been back to the thread since the OP) is that they met a guy who came within 5 minutes - as the rest of the thread shows it happens - the OP hasn't said whether he then upped and left without a further word, whether he carried on doing other things, bragged about it or anything, so I fail to see how you can label it shameful based on the information given.

Poor guy may have felt humiliated or been made to feel bad by the OP for all we know.

The *only* shameful thing in this thread is the lack of understanding or empathy from some for a fairly common occurrence that can cause anxiety and worse. Fortunately though the vast majority have shown compassion and reassurance, and it's those people that are to be applauded.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If it's through penetrative sex and a guy comes within 5 minutes I don't mind at all, if it's 5 minutes of getting in the room, which actually has happened, as long as he's a good kisser and some point there will be a snuggle and a round 2 it won't bother me at all.

I don't really see why it's such a big issue.

I've had a situation a couple of times with guys when they come in their pants without even getting their cock out, I just see it as a compliment.

There's plenty of other things that you can do together, for me it's not at all just about penetrative sex and how long that lasts.

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By *opedick89Man
over a year ago

Midlands

For all those truing to slate me I am referring to being a male a cumming withing 5 mins it's normal for a female to multiple orgasm but for a man its not as straight forward fair enough I can see quite a few ladies in here its no issue which is ok with you but ladies I've been with wouldn't be having that so sorry if my opinion offends just being truthfull and yh it isn't all about just the sex but that part of it for some is a part where you explore don't rush the cumming (for a man) women cumming straight away and loads is no issue in my book just saying to clear things up and deep down a lot of u ladies want longer no wonder lots of u say u never cum on meets or in first round

Try me ain't all talk

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"For all those truing to slate me I am referring to being a male a cumming withing 5 mins it's normal for a female to multiple orgasm but for a man its not as straight forward fair enough I can see quite a few ladies in here its no issue which is ok with you but ladies I've been with wouldn't be having that so sorry if my opinion offends just being truthfull and yh it isn't all about just the sex but that part of it for some is a part where you explore don't rush the cumming (for a man) women cumming straight away and loads is no issue in my book just saying to clear things up and deep down a lot of u ladies want longer no wonder lots of u say u never cum on meets or in first round

Try me ain't all talk "

I don't think anyone is trying to slate you at all, which is more than can be said for your posts with suggestions of people not having experienced "real sessions".

As I said earlier good sex is *not* about how long you can go, nor is it a competition for who can last the longest - it's about being aware of your abilities and limitations as well as being attuned to your partner and putting all of those things to best use for mutual pleasure.

Simple fact of the matter is we're all different, not all of us want to be able to bang away for hours without release and nor do some of our partners want us to it would seem.

There is no right or wrong just finding people that are compatible and looking for mutual pleasure, and part of that includes being understanding of each other's abilities and limitations.

If someone expects me to be able to "bang away for 30 minutes to an hour" they're going to be sorely disappointed and not for me as a result - but that also doesn't mean with the right person we won't have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion... the op’s question is why fab exists.. reason being is that a five minute encounter is what happens on vanilla street and the reason why we are here is to experience something out of the ordinary.. something that really stands out...

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"In my opinion... the op’s question is why fab exists.. reason being is that a five minute encounter is what happens on vanilla street and the reason why we are here is to experience something out of the ordinary.. something that really stands out... "

So you're saying a guy cumming in 5 minutes is every vanilla street sex session ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion... the op’s question is why fab exists.. reason being is that a five minute encounter is what happens on vanilla street and the reason why we are here is to experience something out of the ordinary.. something that really stands out...

So you're saying a guy cumming in 5 minutes is every vanilla street sex session ?

Kind of... midweek... when the kids are in bed...

That kind of thing..

"

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Would you verify?"

Would you recommend a store that short change you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion... the op’s question is why fab exists.. reason being is that a five minute encounter is what happens on vanilla street and the reason why we are here is to experience something out of the ordinary.. something that really stands out...

So you're saying a guy cumming in 5 minutes is every vanilla street sex session ?

Kind of... midweek... when the kids are in bed...

That kind of thing..

"

I’m 99% certain that almost everyone on here is looking for a bit more than that.. if so fab wouldn’t exist.... ?????

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"In my opinion... the op’s question is why fab exists.. reason being is that a five minute encounter is what happens on vanilla street and the reason why we are here is to experience something out of the ordinary.. something that really stands out...

So you're saying a guy cumming in 5 minutes is every vanilla street sex session ?

Kind of... midweek... when the kids are in bed...

That kind of thing..

"

Thing is, we don't know what is behind the OP's question, as their sole contribution to the thread has been "Guy cumming in 5 minutes - would you verify?" they've not provided any detail, any background, anything to go on at all really.

Besides, as others have pointed out the verification system is not supposed to be about prowess and ability, but a simple verification that the person is who they say they are.

Of course we all want any sexual encounters, regardless of whether they are through here, or in "vanilla street" to be as mutually pleasurable as possible, why wouldn't we?

I also think the thread has moved on from the OPs original question anyway, into more of a general discussion about whether it matters how long someone lasts, and as has been shown by the majority of people responding, the resounding answer to that has been no it doesn't, at least as long as that doesn't signal a complete, "time to get dressed it's game over situation" anyway

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By *opedick89Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"For all those truing to slate me I am referring to being a male a cumming withing 5 mins it's normal for a female to multiple orgasm but for a man its not as straight forward fair enough I can see quite a few ladies in here its no issue which is ok with you but ladies I've been with wouldn't be having that so sorry if my opinion offends just being truthfull and yh it isn't all about just the sex but that part of it for some is a part where you explore don't rush the cumming (for a man) women cumming straight away and loads is no issue in my book just saying to clear things up and deep down a lot of u ladies want longer no wonder lots of u say u never cum on meets or in first round

Try me ain't all talk

I don't think anyone is trying to slate you at all, which is more than can be said for your posts with suggestions of people not having experienced "real sessions".

As I said earlier good sex is *not* about how long you can go, nor is it a competition for who can last the longest - it's about being aware of your abilities and limitations as well as being attuned to your partner and putting all of those things to best use for mutual pleasure.

Simple fact of the matter is we're all different, not all of us want to be able to bang away for hours without release and nor do some of our partners want us to it would seem.

There is no right or wrong just finding people that are compatible and looking for mutual pleasure, and part of that includes being understanding of each other's abilities and limitations.

If someone expects me to be able to "bang away for 30 minutes to an hour" they're going to be sorely disappointed and not for me as a result - but that also doesn't mean with the right person we won't have a great time."

Na I agree mate its about both the ladies and man its just for me I just don't like Cummings early and if the woman tells me cum because

She's had enough then Id cum

But general never been a quick guy but sorry if I seemed to be slating the quick guys if your ladies loves that then nothing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For all those truing to slate me I am referring to being a male a cumming withing 5 mins it's normal for a female to multiple orgasm but for a man its not as straight forward fair enough I can see quite a few ladies in here its no issue which is ok with you but ladies I've been with wouldn't be having that so sorry if my opinion offends just being truthfull and yh it isn't all about just the sex but that part of it for some is a part where you explore don't rush the cumming (for a man) women cumming straight away and loads is no issue in my book just saying to clear things up and deep down a lot of u ladies want longer no wonder lots of u say u never cum on meets or in first round

Try me ain't all talk

I don't think anyone is trying to slate you at all, which is more than can be said for your posts with suggestions of people not having experienced "real sessions".

As I said earlier good sex is *not* about how long you can go, nor is it a competition for who can last the longest - it's about being aware of your abilities and limitations as well as being attuned to your partner and putting all of those things to best use for mutual pleasure.

Simple fact of the matter is we're all different, not all of us want to be able to bang away for hours without release and nor do some of our partners want us to it would seem.

There is no right or wrong just finding people that are compatible and looking for mutual pleasure, and part of that includes being understanding of each other's abilities and limitations.

If someone expects me to be able to "bang away for 30 minutes to an hour" they're going to be sorely disappointed and not for me as a result - but that also doesn't mean with the right person we won't have a great time.

Na I agree mate its about both the ladies and man its just for me I just don't like Cummings early and if the woman tells me cum because

She's had enough then Id cum

But general never been a quick guy but sorry if I seemed to be slating the quick guys if your ladies loves that then nothing wrong "

Yes everyone likes something different. I think it might be to do with cultural expectations. A lot of British people seem to prefer shorter sessions, whereas lovers I have had from different countries (which thinking back, have outnumbered the British) have preferred and expected longer sessions. It's easy to get used to what you've experienced the most.

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By *opedick89Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"In my opinion... the op’s question is why fab exists.. reason being is that a five minute encounter is what happens on vanilla street and the reason why we are here is to experience something out of the ordinary.. something that really stands out...

So you're saying a guy cumming in 5 minutes is every vanilla street sex session ?

Kind of... midweek... when the kids are in bed...

That kind of thing..

I’m 99% certain that almost everyone on here is looking for a bit more than that.. if so fab wouldn’t exist.... ?????"

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By *xywelshguyMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Surely any lady would be flattered to have made a guy cum that quick?

There's always round 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely any lady would be flattered to have made a guy cum that quick?

There's always round 2 "

No as I said before, to me it indicates a lack of skill/experience. Of course if he can carry on, that's fine, but many can't!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Everyone is different of course and I’m happy to take things like that as a compliment.

I’m not into being shagged senseless

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By *illowzWoman
over a year ago

Exeter


"Would you verify?

Did he match the profile he has in here? Did he turn up on time? Was he clean, looking his best, polite, and easy to chat with? In short; was he genuine? "

Exactly this. This is what I thought verification was about? I never put much detail.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If she was in throws of a multiple orgasm and I came in ten seconds, I’d be bogged off because she was faking it... allegedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s like trip visor... let’s say you go to a restaurant and the service is distinctly average and food is ok... let’s get real ladies ???

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