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long time no meets im to ugly

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By *esmond70 OP   Man
over a year ago

tavistock

hi all ive been on here a while now not had any meets think its because im to old or ugly what do you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, you're probably right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye at 46 ya well past it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I was 46

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your avitar says stop so most will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all ive been on here a while now not had any meets think its because im to old or ugly what do you think"

You're hardly too old mate, there are plenty older that are filling their boots in droves....

Mind your profile doesn't say much about you to be fair. Ladies tend to like a bit of imagination. And apart from the one shot taken in your local you can't really make much out on your pics. You get out what you put in....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negativity = ugly so yep I agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your avitar says stop so most will "

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Negativity = ugly so yep I agree with you "

agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up and battle on iv only had the odd meet after 4 months lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chin up and battle on iv only had the odd meet after 4 months lol "

erm u hada meet last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And wow was it Amazing Still smiling x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

wouldnt say you are ugly but your pics arent the best quality.

maybe expand your profile a bit and just be patient x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *esmond70 OP   Man
over a year ago

tavistock

thankyou all will try and find someone to take new pics for me.

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be positive!!!!! Use forums and chatrooms more and get to some socials! Your the only one who can help yourself! Less of the old n ugly people find statements like that very unatractive! Stop feeling sorry for yourself and enjoy like xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thankyou all will try and find someone to take new pics for me. "

To be fair, I wouldn't bother with having to wait around for someone to volunteer their services in this department as you'll be in for a long wait to be honest. I wouldn't bother wasting time messaging around to find someone to take them either. You don't even need to wait to find someone else to take them as there's no sense in creating yet another stumbling block for you to have to clamber over before you have any success is there?

Just take them yourself! I did with all of mine, save one in my private gallery, and I don't find it a problem at all getting meets because of this.

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By *esmond70 OP   Man
over a year ago

tavistock

thankyou everyone. for the advice

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


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Just take them yourself! I did with all of mine, save one in my private gallery, and I don't find it a problem at all getting meets because of this. "

I used to - plenty of dashing back and forth with the self timer and propping the camera up on boxes or furniture... lol

Wolf

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


"Chin up and battle on iv only had the odd meet after 4 months lol

erm u hada meet last night "

He seems to have a meet every bloomin' night! One pic on his profile.

What's going on there in Wales?

To the OP: This is not normal.

It takes a lot of time to get noticed. Well, at least for most of us. Get to socials advertised in Meets & Events

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


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Just take them yourself! I did with all of mine, save one in my private gallery, and I don't find it a problem at all getting meets because of this.

I used to - plenty of dashing back and forth with the self timer and propping the camera up on boxes or furniture... lol

Wolf"

I read that as propping the camera on BONES and furniture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all ive been on here a while now not had any meets think its because im to old or ugly what do you think

You're hardly too old mate, there are plenty older that are filling their boots in droves....

Mind your profile doesn't say much about you to be fair. Ladies tend to like a bit of imagination. And apart from the one shot taken in your local you can't really make much out on your pics. You get out what you put in...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all ive been on here a while now not had any meets think its because im to old or ugly what do you think"

We think its your profile, using 'bubbly' and such words are not masculine, more likened to describing female personality.....our opinion!

Better quality photos and a more original profile, sell yourself.....its a 'buyers market' and.with single guys flooding the market, you need to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all ive been on here a while now not had any meets think its because im to old or ugly what do you think"

So if you have not had any meets how did you get verified ?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"hi all ive been on here a while now not had any meets think its because im to old or ugly what do you think

So if you have not had any meets how did you get verified ? "

phone or webcam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something rather unattractive about self deprecating needy threads.

Hardly the qualities of fantasy is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something rather unattractive about self deprecating needy threads.

Hardly the qualities of fantasy is it? "

+1

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Yeah, you're probably right"
plus 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all ive been on here a while now not had any meets think its because im to old or ugly what do you think

So if you have not had any meets how did you get verified ?

phone or webcam?"

Didnt think single guys could get verified that way

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im going to be honest, i dont think your ugly but i think you could do with a bit of a revamp, maybe trendy yourself up abit, you dont have to go mad. The photos dont do you justice, maybe have a look at other peoples pictures and get an idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried meeting the people on your friends list? They must think you're ok.

Why not join your local club, either Secrets at Totnes, where single guys can go on Wednesdays, if it is still as it used to be, or Unit 18 at Plymouth.

Try to get to a social event. OK you'll probably have to travel and perhaps stay over at a hotel, but if you make the effort you'll reap the rewards.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


"Have you tried meeting the people on your friends list? They must think you're ok.

Why not join your local club, either Secrets at Totnes, where single guys can go on Wednesdays, if it is still as it used to be, or Unit 18 at Plymouth.

Try to get to a social event. OK you'll probably have to travel and perhaps stay over at a hotel, but if you make the effort you'll reap the rewards.

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By *esmond70 OP   Man
over a year ago

tavistock

thankyou all again for the advice i will get new pics sorted as soon as i get a new camera as for the verified it was from a lady i know well and met. a few times from a different place thankyou all again for your honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah your pics are tiny, and you need pics that show you at your best, id also probs set your cock pics to friends list or private only and add people to list or send privatley when they ask or if a meets looking likley you can politley ask if thye want to see your ruder pics if they are interested and in my experience if they want to see they will add or say send them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds mad but i have never asked to see cock pics

sometimes i wish i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im sure you've looked at plenty jaqs haha

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