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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For those who post meets. How often do you actually get a meet?

Posted a couple of times to see if there is any interest but we’ve never had any couples contact us. Wondering if it’s just our age or profile or whether posting meets rarely leads to anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those who post meets. How often do you actually get a meet?

Posted a couple of times to see if there is any interest but we’ve never had any couples contact us. Wondering if it’s just our age or profile or whether posting meets rarely leads to anything "

I post if im going to a club.

Or

Looking for a 121 meet.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"For those who post meets. How often do you actually get a meet?

Posted a couple of times to see if there is any interest but we’ve never had any couples contact us. Wondering if it’s just our age or profile or whether posting meets rarely leads to anything "

We very rarely get a reply when we put meets up. Still put them up though.

Mr2

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

We always put a meet up, but have yet to receive a msg as a result....or a reply to msg because someone else has posted one.

Actually, now I've written that, I wonder why we bother?!

We tend to have marginally more interest if we post on a thread about the event, and even more when we msg someone else has posted on a thread.

Hmm x

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Never. If I post a meet with 'at yours' I'm inundated with 'can I come round yours to fuck you' messages...

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We post when availiable.

If evening meet or weekend we get plenty of messgaes and always find what looking for either single men or couple.

When availiable daytimes, differant. Hard to find

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We have a meet up now , sometimes it works other times not

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We’ve messaged some people who want meets and just get ignored. We’ve never been messaged when we’ve put meets up so we don’t bother now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We got no interest in the meet so we’re out on our own tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never any response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to just now do club's now, as you spend more time trying to organise a meeting than actually meeting

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"We got no interest in the meet so we’re out on our own tonight. "

We've had no interest from our meet either so looking like just us off out tomorrow night.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve tried a few times with no luck at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure some people just put meets up for attention, we don’t tend to put meets up now, just sort something out ourselves...,

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I sometimes put meets up when we know in advance when we’re free so we can maybe attract attention for our couples profile but I rarely post them for my solo meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pop meets up if I'm ever free and sometimes get lucky and arrange a last minute social. Better still, a Fab Friend who I've already met socially may be free to do something.

The majority of the time I'm just bombarded with dick pics or crude messages. Very few actually bother to read my profile. People do message to say they're also free but rarely attach a face pic x

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Have been pretty lucky when posting a meet, but no, not 100% of the time...have had the odd no show.The nature of Fab I think.

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By *otplumMan
over a year ago

Margate

Being an eternal optimist I post meets but have yet to be contacted by anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s 50/50 for me when I post. Sometimes I works out great others it leaves me questioning why I even bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those who post meets. How often do you actually get a meet?

Posted a couple of times to see if there is any interest but we’ve never had any couples contact us. Wondering if it’s just our age or profile or whether posting meets rarely leads to anything "

So far none

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Depends on your outlook I suppose. We've posted meets and got no response and also messaged folk with meets and got no response. Luck of the draw.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We only post meets if we are going to a club. Private meets are only if we know the person, no need to post them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally but by no means often

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Everytime we message a couple that have a meet up, and we free, never get a reply.

Just think we fugly

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

When I post for a meet I get lots of interest , cherry pick and game on

No problems

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By *appy but hornyMan
over a year ago

wakefield

Never any replies, must be my age or my profile , any tips would be good

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By *ad123Man
over a year ago

ayr Scotland

Hi I have put meet s up had someone say yes than no show it be nice to find someone genuine that do trun up lol but that's fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always browse meets and if I am free will contact the poster. Had a couple of meets this way.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I have posted but no luck and also posted for daytime meets but that’s like trying to find a needle in a haystack. It’s persistence I guess I can Uber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We very rarely get a reply when we post a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put meets up when I am home alone. Can't remember the last time I actually met though - clearly doing something wrong

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I do post to meets and have meets from them - but not necessarily on that day. I tend to be slow to meet people in general, though posting meets increases my average speed to meeting.

The specific time and day that a meet is posted does affect the results: it's worth experimenting, to see what may be most productive.

It's also useful to see if tailoring the text of the meet influences success too.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I post social meets for places I'm intending to go anyway, that way I haven't had a wasted journey as I'm doing shopping in town or going to a local attraction or something. I always get last minute chancers asking outsides of the meet days and times though. They think I'm desparate enough to invite them to mine for a 'social' at the last minute. Umm I don't think so lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely get success when posting or replying to meets, mostly have to talk for a while before getting a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah keep posting few looks but no look as yet even when I'm in Cornwall and can accommodate o well

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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Never through the post

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"For those who post meets. How often do you actually get a meet?

Posted a couple of times to see if there is any interest but we’ve never had any couples contact us. Wondering if it’s just our age or profile or whether posting meets rarely leads to anything "

I’ve had plenty of offers from guys, even though I’m straight, and post meets looking for single women or couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a meet up for next Friday evening. Looking for a female.Not had a response so far

I would say it doesn't work ?

Then again I am Man but would expect better results for the women and couples ...

your just spoilt for choice

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Sometimes i do if i think they are my type of course but very rarely do men want to meet for mmf 3 some or they say they do then change their mind, i have met men for mmf in the past and they say afterwards they prefer to meet one on one.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Had a social meet up for singles since Friday, no sensible offers lol.

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By *orrow my wifeCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

We post when we are heading to a club it makes it easy to arrange things

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By *on_mclaneMan
over a year ago

manchester

Just posted for a meet tonight..... fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those who post meets. How often do you actually get a meet?

Posted a couple of times to see if there is any interest but we’ve never had any couples contact us. Wondering if it’s just our age or profile or whether posting meets rarely leads to anything "

So far zero lol

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Never! 100% failure rate!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Rare! You'd think I'd learn but what goes on in the hope someone I know will message or I'll get chatting to others going to, instead often turns into men I've never met messaging purely to ask if they can come with me. Often without even so much as a hi first.

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By *arcusgbrownMan
over a year ago

London

Never get a response

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Never had a response from one

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