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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey

So I'm considering going to a club on my own for the first time as a single.

Really want to go but I'm a little nervous

Any advice for a single lady visiting all by her self?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

You'll love it.

One thing is, be cautious of the single men who will mail you on the back of this post - Oh I'll take you along and show you the ropes. Unless you know them or they're happy to chat and get to know you, chances are they're looking for that golden ticket.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Find a club with a good reputation with women and couples. If there are clearly mixed reviews, find a different place. Ask the staff for a tour and the rules. Be social, stay sober, if anyone is being inappropriate say so. Read around the forum about acceptable and unacceptable behaviour.

They're great places to go.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You'll love it.

One thing is, be cautious of the single men who will mail you on the back of this post - Oh I'll take you along and show you the ropes. Unless you know them or they're happy to chat and get to know you, chances are they're looking for that golden ticket. "

Yeah. They often want a cheap in and a guaranteed shag. Don't go with someone unless you trust them to have your back. Most people are fine, and I know someone who I would have trusted as a club guide, but I only go with friends for very good reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been to clubs before.

Mostly to chameleons. But I went there with my ex husband

Trying to find my way in the swingers world as a single fem now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It says in your profile .. you've bin going to clubs and parties for 7 years.

Did you forget to ask this question , when u started or you just taking the piss lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It says in your profile .. you've bin going to clubs and parties for 7 years.

Did you forget to ask this question , when u started or you just taking the piss lol

"

I was swinging previously as a couple!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You know the score then. Just be a bit more assertive and watch yourself. Without a male keeper (ugh) some people think you're more up for grabs.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"It says in your profile .. you've bin going to clubs and parties for 7 years.

Did you forget to ask this question , when u started or you just taking the piss lol

"

Necessary?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I've been to clubs before.

Mostly to chameleons. But I went there with my ex husband

Trying to find my way in the swingers world as a single fem now x"
I often go with a group of single ladies.

Find some local ladies or a couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It says in your profile .. you've bin going to clubs and parties for 7 years.

Did you forget to ask this question , when u started or you just taking the piss lol

Necessary? "

Not really .. ! Lol

But I get sarcastic sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am a single girl and been to clubs in my own a lot. PM if you like x

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By *asteregg01Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hey

So I'm considering going to a club on my own for the first time as a single.

Really want to go but I'm a little nervous

Any advice for a single lady visiting all by her self?

"

Hi there, I visit Quest regularly on my own. No problems with guys. I always make myself heard. If you need any more advice feel free to message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You obviously need a sick note.

Go in the hot tub.

A casserole of infection.

You'll be ill till the clocks go forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you have been on the scene 7 years. I'm assuming you always go with a partner or a friend?. I'm sure if you go to one of the club's you are familiar with then the staff and clientele will be more than happy to look after you. Failing that you could always drop me a message and I would be happy to accompany you to a club and be your wing man for the evening.You look a very attractive lady and seem to tick the boxes for me, however I'm not 6 foot ..

I'm someone that actually reads profiles x

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Hey

So I'm considering going to a club on my own for the first time as a single.

Really want to go but I'm a little nervous

Any advice for a single lady visiting all by her self?

"
Are you going somewhere completely new then? Maybe see if any past acquaintances will be going. Or do you see this as a personal challenge/opportunity to do something different by yourself? Girls will get approached regardless i imagine. As a single guy i wouldn't have the courage to venture alone. I'd feel so awkward.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I did my first club visit as a single girl 5 years ago (abfabs)

Took me 20 of sitting outside in the car to build up the courage lol

Walk in , head held high and you will be less than 2 mins alone. Everyone will come talk to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did my first club visit as a single girl 5 years ago (abfabs)

Took me 20 of sitting outside in the car to build up the courage lol

Walk in , head held high and you will be less than 2 mins alone. Everyone will come talk to you "

Very true.

You have some excellent pictures btw Scarlettx xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Hey

So I'm considering going to a club on my own for the first time as a single.

Really want to go but I'm a little nervous

Any advice for a single lady visiting all by her self?

"

There was a thread recently about single women buddying up to visit clubs together, do a search

As someone who has previous club experience as a couple though, I’m sure you’re quite aware your presence as a single female is very much welcomed on the club scene, and has been mentioned already, you won’t be alone inside for long

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