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Hotel Accomodation... Do I stay or Do I Go?

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By *PerfectGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

Hi,

Say I have been invited to a meet with a couple... they have booked a nice hotel for the evening etc.

We plan on having a couple of drinks before hand, to relax and set ground rules, before anything exciting starts.

What is the accepted etiquette for the 'single' guy, would it be usual to also stay over, if so should i offer to split the room?

Any advise would be appreciated.

Ta

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Only you and your meet will know the answer to the questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always try to meet them at least halfway on stuff like that, you're all have fun so why not share the expense?

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

Mate - ask them! Everybody has different ideas/perceptions, and might even change their mind depending on their mood or the weather or how nice the room is! Talk to them, not us

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By *PerfectGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

Cheers Guys,

Guess every situation is different, anyway I have asked the question and await response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a gent and offer halfers...although some couples may want to cover costs themselves etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

Say I have been invited to a meet with a couple... they have booked a nice hotel for the evening etc.

We plan on having a couple of drinks before hand, to relax and set ground rules, before anything exciting starts.

What is the accepted etiquette for the 'single' guy, would it be usual to also stay over, if so should i offer to split the room?

Any advise would be appreciated.

Ta

J "

id bring that question up while having a drink and setting ground rules before you drink to much incase you need to drive

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By *PerfectGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

Halfers... Done! Again I guess this depends on circumstances / couple etc.

Cheers!

J

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

well if you go halfs you then have the problem of saying who gets what when nicking the towels ect

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

or bomb the couple out and come visit me instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or book a seperate room you may have fun but they may like to sleep alone or could be all night fun.

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By *PerfectGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

I like the sound of all night fun, the hotel needs to be near the airport as I am flying first thing!

Oh and I'm not there for the towels I had something else in mind Some new shampoo, and a shower cap would be handy!

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By *PerfectGent OP   Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"or bomb the couple out and come visit me instead "

I have plenty of stamina Fmuma! Maybe I can see you some other time... Are you visting Aberdeen soon

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By *om1noMan
over a year ago

South Worcestershire

Ask them, but if there paying id leave them to it, if I pay then i leave anyway, depends if you have to drive after a drink

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"I like the sound of all night fun, the hotel needs to be near the airport as I am flying first thing!

Oh and I'm not there for the towels I had something else in mind Some new shampoo, and a shower cap would be handy!"
dont mate i used wash n go and the fucker did

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

We always pay and book for the room.We have our fun or not but no one will ever stay over with us.If the guy pays half they seem to think they have the right to stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would have gone to meet them, if you get the chance to go back to their room for some fun, offer something towards the room afterwards. And I doubt you would be able to stay the night. Remember if there is no mutual attraction, you are entitled to say thanks but no thanks just as much as they are, in which case, walk away and don't offer any money towards the room, they paid for it and took the risk, you didn't. Also if they are up your way anyway, why offer them money?

Enjoy either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah ya never stay over with a couple even if they ask and if ya do seperate rooms, that way if you want to play with them again things wont get too weird, and also cuts down on the risk to their relationship if things get confusing,

you shouldnt really stay at a couples in most cases as a single guy, its just for the best.

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