FabSwingers.com forum: Inexperience.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for reading. I'm hoping for some advice here.

Due to being a hard working, slightly too nice at times sort of guy and a series of ridiculously unlucky events has made me quite sexually inexperienced.

I worked hard at university and was never one to sleep around. I never met the right girl to have a long relationship with and most times when I've 'got lucky' something has interrupted or happened to ruin it (of no fault of mine).

I'm not bad looking and a lot of people actually think I've prob shagged more than themselves. I'm humorous, honest and just your normal guy really.

But anyway...

After a sexless 2011 I decided to join the site and enjoy myself. I've found that this is more of a couples site or at least you'll get more meets as a couple or girl. But what I'm intrigued about is parties and clubs.

Would you suggest parties and clubs for someone like myself? Are the pretty chilled and easy going? I don't know too much about them and slightly nervous about going on my own, I don't want to go and find that no one is interested or people think im too young etc.

Any advice or your opinion/experience on them would be greatly appreciated. Especially if you were in a similar situation.

Thanks and happy swinging!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i would get to some socials, where you can chat and get to know ppl without any pressure.

You are polite and non pushy,which always goes down well in a club

parties might be a bit full on...i remember one where i was getting on fab with a dishy single guy, but when a group of us moved to the bedroom it was all a bit much for him and he left in a hurry.

At a club u would at least be able to choose for yourself whether to visit the playrooms.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I would start with sites aimed at singles as they will be much easier for you get real single women from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Ladies, much appreciated. I never really new of socials, thanks i will check them out.

I've heard other paid sites are just as male dominated but I think it might be worth trying them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think social meets sound good. Otherwise 1-1 meets with ladies should be less intimidating than whole groups. All the best to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice re socials and smaller meets. If you're into meeting couples try and choose an experienced couple and mention your lack of experience.

I want to give you a big hug!! Ms

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Plenty of good advice on here... we would say go to socials.

We attended the Cardiff one last Saturday, lots of single guys there, and although we dont particularly seek them out to play with them, we dont mind chatting and getting to know them for future reference. Then, if we bump into them in a party or club situation, at least we know who are the ones to avoid, and who are the ones that Jayne might like to get to know a little better!!

Polite, friendly, non-pushy guys get our vote every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, Its just a suggestion you might like to try Abfabs/ Kestrels, its a fabulous place,and the staff are gr8.

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