FabSwingers.com forum: Bi or curious

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, as my profile states, I am bisexual. I recently received a message from a bisexual couple that were interested in meeting, that was until I said I don't like to kiss guys.

To which the reply was "then you're not bisexual".

I put bisexual on my profile, because I'm a long way past the curious stage. I just dont like kissing guys!

I'd be interested to read other people's thoughts on this, should I say I'm Bi curious as I don't kiss guys, or am I right to state that I'm Bi sexual??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You pick your own labels in this game

As you were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you find men sexually attractive then I'd say your bi lol

A lot of straight swinging couples don't kiss as they see kissing as for a relationship

If its sex then a lot don't like it

End of the day it's up to you what you class yourself as so have fun and ignore them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I totally understand about labels etc, and the situation in question hasn't bothered me, I was just curious to what other people's thoughts were.

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By *ooster7Man
over a year ago

west yorks

Look its up to you. Im bi love a nice cock to play with but dont enjoy kissing guys much . So what id far rather a guy went straight to my cock than bothered kissing my face off

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

So what if you don’t kiss men? Who wants to get stubble burn? Sounds like a naff argument to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself bisexual. I enjoy all the pleasures of fucking both men and woman, licking pussy, sucking cock, licking and rimming, love being sucked by men and woman and have found myself pushing back to take more cock. I have kissed men but not my thing really but have done. Am I bi or not?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Really dislike people who tell you what you should be doing, what you should call yourself, etc. Arrogant a*holes, block them - and anybody else you come across like them - and do your own thing!

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"Really dislike people who tell you what you should be doing, what you should call yourself, etc. Arrogant a*holes, block them - and anybody else you come across like them - and do your own thing!"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really dislike people who tell you what you should be doing, what you should call yourself, etc. Arrogant a*holes, block them - and anybody else you come across like them - and do your own thing!"

I like this coupke alot!!! Well said about the whole people telling others what you should call themselves.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I'm bisexual (long past curious) but I just couldn't kiss a guy. Kudos to those that do but it's not for me at all.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm bisexual (long past curious) but I just couldn't kiss a guy. Kudos to those that do but it's not for me at all."
what about Adam?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s a must from me, as kisses are the start of foreplay with a guy or a couple for me. However I would respect another’s wishes and it’s certainly not, an indicator of being ‘properly’ bisexual in my opinion. It’s like saying if you don’t participate in anal sex, you’re not properly gay.

It’s your body and your rules, if it doesn’t feel right, then it’s not pleasurable for you or anyone else.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

I love to drink men’s piss, cum, bum fucked hard and all those lovely things, but hate kissing a man!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Really dislike people who tell you what you should be doing, what you should call yourself, etc. Arrogant a*holes, block them - and anybody else you come across like them - and do your own thing!"

Exactly this. You should only ever do what you want to do. No one gets to say what you are, who you are or what label you should apply. You set your own boundaries and if others choose to look for something different then that’s entirely their choice. I wouldn’t necessarily choose to meet a man that didn’t want to kiss me, and I’m allowed to have that choice. But I’m not allowed to tell him off for it or be obnoxious about it or tell him he must be gay then. I must respect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve often seen bi profiles where the couple state they won’t kiss other people. They’re still bi. Personal preference that’s all.

Might be worth putting it on your profile as for some people it could be a potential deal breaker.

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