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Couples: Advice/Tips Needed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm interested in how couples in long term relationships keep their sex life on the boil.

Do you have any special tips or tricks?

Whenever I read articles about "spicing up your sex life" I find the advice a bit depressing and obvious so perhaps seeing what real couples do is more helpful!

Thanks!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A lot of them join Fab....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of them join Fab...."

We have a couples profile and go to clubs and parties when we can

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London


"A lot of them join Fab....

We have a couples profile and go to clubs and parties when we can "

Same here, 20 years in May, still finding new and exciting things to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s no trick.

Unconditional Love, honesty, respect and partnership keep things alive.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Keep the domestic, domestic. The fun,fun and smile a lot . If it doesn’t make you smile.... well, why do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very good advice, thanks

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We have been together 19 years.

I think the trick is not to let ths relationship go stale, make time for each other, don't take each other for granted and be open to trying new things.

It works for us anyway.

Nita

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Coming up for 39 years together.

Try new stuff is all I can say.

It isn't possible to keep any sex life on a constant boil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been married 35 years

Keeping sex alive is easy just try to make love and not just fuck

And always try to add a little kink into the play xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s no trick.

Unconditional Love, honesty, respect and partnership keep things alive. "

This

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Twenty...cough cough years! Keep in reasonable shape, make an effort, try news things, tell each other what you’d like to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s no trick.

Unconditional Love, honesty, respect and partnership keep things alive. "

This 35 years and still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 30 years together and we are still friends as well as lovers and enjoy doing things together, be that sitting in the garden with a glass of wine or a DP

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I was in a ten year + relationship and didn't really need anything to keep us going. I pretty much always came and so did he and we just wanted that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nearly 30 years together and we are still friends as well as lovers and enjoy doing things together, be that sitting in the garden with a glass of wine or a DP "

Haha!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many profiles describe how they are swinging to “spice up” their sex life or even some say it’s to save their relationship.

In our opinion swinging should compliment your sex life and relationship, not define it.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"So many profiles describe how they are swinging to “spice up” their sex life or even some say it’s to save their relationship.

In our opinion swinging should compliment your sex life and relationship, not define it."
Spot on. Any couples on here who don’t already have a great sex life, it probably won’t turn out well. So many couples swinging every weekend and in the week too, then are no longer on site.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So many profiles describe how they are swinging to “spice up” their sex life or even some say it’s to save their relationship.

In our opinion swinging should compliment your sex life and relationship, not define it."

I don't think doing something to spice up your sex life is defining it. Years ago we bought toys to spice things up but it didn't define our sex life.

As far as saving a relationship goes, I don't think any form of sex can do that but surely it's worth a try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many profiles describe how they are swinging to “spice up” their sex life or even some say it’s to save their relationship.

In our opinion swinging should compliment your sex life and relationship, not define it.

I don't think doing something to spice up your sex life is defining it. Years ago we bought toys to spice things up but it didn't define our sex life.

As far as saving a relationship goes, I don't think any form of sex can do that but surely it's worth a try."

Agreed - but to rely on swinging to spice it up without the right mindset and understanding is naive at the very least.

Besides swinging as a sex aid and introducing toys as a sex aid bring entirely different connotations to sex and a relationship.

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

13 years together here. We just try and make life nice for each other. Compliments, helping out, taking an interest in each other's hobbies, date nights, breakfast together. Communication always. We get up in the morning and make it our goal to make each other smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"13 years together here. We just try and make life nice for each other. Compliments, helping out, taking an interest in each other's hobbies, date nights, breakfast together. Communication always. We get up in the morning and make it our goal to make each other smile. "

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