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" Avoid... Comes over like he is trying to frame her for Adultery so that he can leave or divorce her. OR That your being set up to either get revenge on her or something worse. " Have to say that was my first thought when I read it... call me cynical | |||
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" Avoid... Comes over like he is trying to frame her for Adultery so that he can leave or divorce her. OR That your being set up to either get revenge on her or something worse. Have to say that was my first thought when I read it... call me cynical" me too ... i read that thinking the same . I also think if worried should never meet a person. | |||
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"pure and simple leave wel alone u already have doubts about the situation as uve posted on here my moto is if it dont feel rite it isnt yeh i know wat ure thinking MMMMMMM COULD BE SEXY and mind blowing but ide leave it and move on " Could not agree more !!!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"its 99% chance of bs if the lass aint speaking to you " Agreed and well said, been in a similar position myself and did not touch it with a barge pole, was always some excuse why she couldn't come to the phone etc | |||
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"sounds like a honey trap to me, i wouldn't do it." my thought exactly .. he is testing his mrs to see if she faithful.. bad idea .. RUN ! | |||
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"To be honest Iconic, if I was male playing alone I would still need the consent of the female, especially after the true story about the female who's ex set her up to have roleplay with a few men. She didn't know anything about it so the men who carried out the roleplay where being duped. I don't think there is anything wrong with people playing their own way, ie without socials beforehand or how you played with the whole blindfold thing, (in fact it sounds really horny and could be added to the list , ta for that ) but I think people need to protect themselves. I am sure you would feel safe being with your hubby but it is the man coming in for the play that could end up in the mire so I think I would have to speak to the female to make sure she is up for a roleplay situation." Yes I agree. It does have to be very carefully planned and thought out and it is certainly a risk for a single guy. In the situation I described of course the guy was on our friends list and if blindfolds were used and if people wanted to ensure safety and compliance, could choose someone they'd already played with so would know the couple concerned. Without being completely sure, and the OP doesn't sound like he is as he's asking our opinion, then I wouldn't go for it, We've also done a similar caught in the woods scenario and again it took ages to organise. Its certainly easy for me to sit here and feel safe cos I wasn't on my own but considerably more scary for the single person in that scenario ![]() | |||
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"sounds like a honey trap to me, i wouldn't do it." Thats just what i thought. Stay well clear! ![]() | |||
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"sounds like a honey trap to me, i wouldn't do it. Thats just what i thought. Stay well clear! ![]() specially if your DIY ain't any cop ![]() ![]() | |||
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"hi all, i have been invited to a meet. Basically the scenario is the guy has told me its a role play. He wants me to pretend to be a mate of his who is a handyman. He wont be there when I go round to fix something at his house. His partner thinks I am a mate of his and not off this site. He wants me to flirt with her and see what happens. I am a little concerned that she is not fully aware I am on this site and thinking I am a friend of his. Should I be concerned or just go for it? Any advise would be great. Thanks " dont do it as it sounds like a bad idea to me, he could be trying to get her to cheat xxxx | |||
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"As a couple we play similar games, though obviously both of us are involved and its entirely consensual, but I can understand concerns and if you feel uneasy then don't do it. My OH arranged to take me to an unknown place, blindfold from the house so I had no idea where I was being driven to. He took me into this guys factory whereby my partner and this single guy played with me orally over various machinery. I kept the blindfold on the whole time, the guy was instructed not to speak to me and I have no idea to this day who the guy was. Took the blindfold off when we got home, don't even know where we went. However it took a lot of planning. I was unaware and it would have spoilt the scenario had I spoken to the guy beforehand, where would the element of surprise and the unknown be? But my OH met him, had coffee and a chat, inspected the factory, passed over his phone details, talked in depth about the scenario etc. The guy was also off our friends list, though I have no idea who and I never want to know. No doubt he must have spoken to me via message on there. Also my OH never left my side as I was vulnerable (part of the scenario) in that I was blindfold the whole time and I was only wearing a corset under my coat. But the single guy would have known by my body language that I was ok, I was safe as held onto my OHs hand the whole time and there was a lot of correspondence between the two men before the meet, and they chat on my OHs msn now, though I don't know who it is. It could be genuine but just not quite thought out well enough, everyone does not play in a meeting for drinks, texting/calling beforehand and then meeting in their home, some people like the thrill of variety, but if you are uneasy then don't do it. " thats different though, im sure the lads turning up at someones house pretending to be a service which the lady requires then he has to try it on with her. its alot different some blindfold fun, coz even if the single man hadnt spoken to you (which is to be expected) he's still turning up where you are there blindfolded ready and willing for this to happen. i mean soon as he gets there he knows its the real deal. its a bit different the guy being there and anothe guy brings a girl over blindfolded and obviousily up for it where this guy has to trust who ever he's messaged that its all legit without being able to confirm it. and then have to make moves on a stranger who could be up for it or might be offended in the worst way! | |||
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"Run the other way, do not stop and don not look back!" This is soooo a honey trap!!!! Run awaaaay! | |||
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"it could be your wife lol ![]() where does it say he is married?? or are you using your bestest crystal ball to make stuff up??? OP, i would ask more questions if i were you. It could be a trap as others have said or it could be legit. at the end of the day you need to go with your gut feeling. If you dont feel comfortable with the scenario dont do it - a shag is not worth the risk really ![]() | |||
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