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"Drink a lot And don’t wee before hand. " That doesn't make any difference lol | |||
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"Not everyone can. " Can and able are two different things often confused. Physically there is no reason why not, mentally yes I'd agree. | |||
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"Drink a lot if you want to piss a lot, lol. Seriously you don't need to drink more than usual, you do need to be very arroused and very relaxed with the person you're with. If you're focused on trying to squirt you probably won't, then you'll get disappointed and the frustration continues and less likely to do it. It may not happen the first time either no matter how experienced the guy is, not all ladies are stimulated to squirt in the exact same way." This!! | |||
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"Not everyone can. Can and able are two different things often confused. Physically there is no reason why not, mentally yes I'd agree." Shrug. I'm open to the idea, it's never happened, I've come to the conclusion it's not likely to, and run screaming from those who want to prove me wrong. | |||
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"Just piss your pants !! Or wait until you’re in your 70’s and this will happen naturally lol Seriously the obsession with this on here is laughable.."  That's completely unnecessary. | |||
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"Or don't even try. We are very happy with non-squirters. " This. It can get monotonous and predictable sometimes and ff putting. Surprises though are always lovely. | |||
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"Made quite a few women squirt. The technique uses the same muscels that u use for gripping. It takes quite a lot of effort too. The method I use is I make a Spiderman web slinger position with my hand when it's inside pushed up against her upper wall, u should feel a slight bump around that area, then u need to vigerosuly do a come hither motion using not just the fingers but the arm muscels too. I find it's got to be at a pretty fast rate. Say about 3-4 of these motions per second. It helps in you have a strong grip and good arm muscels. 20 years of judo certainly pays off here for me. I also position my self at 90 degrees to her, it's really tricky to do if your inline with her" Effort....judo...strong grip.... blimey not very romantic is it  | |||
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"Made quite a few women squirt. The technique uses the same muscels that u use for gripping. It takes quite a lot of effort too. The method I use is I make a Spiderman web slinger position with my hand when it's inside pushed up against her upper wall, u should feel a slight bump around that area, then u need to vigerosuly do a come hither motion using not just the fingers but the arm muscels too. I find it's got to be at a pretty fast rate. Say about 3-4 of these motions per second. It helps in you have a strong grip and good arm muscels. 20 years of judo certainly pays off here for me. I also position my self at 90 degrees to her, it's really tricky to do if your inline with her Effort....judo...strong grip.... blimey not very romantic is it "Was gonna say PMSL but maybe not the post for it!  | |||
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"KEY POINT: Not all girls squirt, and even if she has in the past doesn’t mean she will again. I’ve found the situation and circumstance has to be right, and you have to put the time and effort in. But if you do, and she does, it is TOTALLY worth it. I’ve found that when a woman squirts, it is one of the most amazing orgasms she can experience. It is a very intense feeling unlike any other." What!? no judo death grip? | |||
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"Hi mrs had a meet about a month ago and he said he could make her squirt but didnt now we are looking at how to make it happend any tips would ? Thanks "fill bladder at least 3 litres of water it'll be a cinch | |||
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"Made quite a few women squirt. The technique uses the same muscels that u use for gripping. It takes quite a lot of effort too. The method I use is I make a Spiderman web slinger position with my hand when it's inside pushed up against her upper wall, u should feel a slight bump around that area, then u need to vigerosuly do a come hither motion using not just the fingers but the arm muscels too. I find it's got to be at a pretty fast rate. Say about 3-4 of these motions per second. It helps in you have a strong grip and good arm muscels. 20 years of judo certainly pays off here for me. I also position my self at 90 degrees to her, it's really tricky to do if your inline with her Effort....judo...strong grip.... blimey not very romantic is it "Yeah coz squirtings always on my list of romantic things to do!
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"Hi mrs had a meet about a month ago and he said he could make her squirt but didnt now we are looking at how to make it happend any tips would ? Thanks "some women just can’t! no matter how u try | |||
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"Try yourself first. In the bath relax. Try two fingers and pull them up towards your front as if you as saying come here. The reason for the bath is as you get close you will feel like you are going to wee. Just let it go and relax. It takes time and patients Xx" I would keep it quiet about the patients! | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps." Jeez you had time to write all this  | |||
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"Made quite a few women squirt. The technique uses the same muscels that u use for gripping. It takes quite a lot of effort too. The method I use is I make a Spiderman web slinger position with my hand when it's inside pushed up against her upper wall, u should feel a slight bump around that area, then u need to vigerosuly do a come hither motion using not just the fingers but the arm muscels too. I find it's got to be at a pretty fast rate. Say about 3-4 of these motions per second. It helps in you have a strong grip and good arm muscels. 20 years of judo certainly pays off here for me. I also position my self at 90 degrees to her, it's really tricky to do if your inline with her" This is probably the best advice, especially the angle at 90 degrees . | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps. Jeez you had time to write all this "A lady I was involved with once want me to help her squirt so I looked up online and just keep it I have a whole file of stuff, It saves space on the bookshelf so i don't clog it up with outdated Joy of SEX books. it all helps the fun in the practical instead of going in all guns blazing. | |||
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"Hi mrs had a meet about a month ago and he said he could make her squirt but didnt now we are looking at how to make it happend any tips would ? Thanks "Go to the bottom of the home page to the 15% discount for toys on love honey! Go to the g spot vibrators section, purple one, about £15. Get really turned on beforehand, lots of foreplay. Get her to bare down as you/she used that quite vigorously. I had it 6 months before it just happened out of nowhere. Highly recommend. Good luck | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps. Jeez you had time to write all this "cut and paste | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps." Could someone summarise this  | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps. Could someone summarise this "yes drink 3 litres of water before session and get to work straight away time is of the essence | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps. Jeez you had time to write all this "Did you have time to read it? | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps. Jeez you had time to write all this
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps. Could someone summarise this "yep...yawn | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps." Incredibly useful and detailed advice  | |||
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"Made quite a few women squirt. The technique uses the same muscels that u use for gripping. It takes quite a lot of effort too. The method I use is I make a Spiderman web slinger position with my hand when it's inside pushed up against her upper wall, u should feel a slight bump around that area, then u need to vigerosuly do a come hither motion using not just the fingers but the arm muscels too. I find it's got to be at a pretty fast rate. Say about 3-4 of these motions per second. It helps in you have a strong grip and good arm muscels. 20 years of judo certainly pays off here for me. I also position my self at 90 degrees to her, it's really tricky to do if your inline with her" This seems pretty spot on. Though I'd start slow and as she gets wetter you pick up speed until you going pretty damn fast. If you can get your palm to rub her clit while you do it, it helps alot. I've never made a woman squirt or gush from penetrative sex but have a good few times using this method. Very sexy. Best if luck OP | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps. Incredibly useful and detailed advice "  | |||
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"Made quite a few women squirt. The technique uses the same muscels that u use for gripping. It takes quite a lot of effort too. The method I use is I make a Spiderman web slinger position with my hand when it's inside pushed up against her upper wall, u should feel a slight bump around that area, then u need to vigerosuly do a come hither motion using not just the fingers but the arm muscels too. I find it's got to be at a pretty fast rate. Say about 3-4 of these motions per second. It helps in you have a strong grip and good arm muscels. 20 years of judo certainly pays off here for me. I also position my self at 90 degrees to her, it's really tricky to do if your inline with her" Exactly this .. I googled it a few years ago and tried it on my partner at the time .. It never let me down using this method ..However like someone mentioned in an earlier comment ..Not all ladies can do it .. Although a few have said to me that's the first time they have ever experienced is .. My cock is also the right shape and if they ride me this usually does the trick | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps." Not your usual style of answer... did you cut and paste | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps." | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps. Not your usual style of answer... did you cut and paste " | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps. Not your usual style of answer... did you cut and paste "Why have you been STALKING ME in the forums. | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps. Not your usual style of answer... did you cut and paste
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"Hi mrs had a meet about a month ago and he said he could make her squirt but didnt now we are looking at how to make it happend any tips would ? Thanks "Short nails, no rough edges, middle or middle and index finger massage roof of vagina as if you were trying to slide a piece of paper out of your lady, gently at first feel for tightening of vagina walls and moisture, then build up more speed gradually till first few splashes then bang go for full throttle and keep going till your covered in the stuff. Sometimes palm of same hand bouncing against clit adds stimulus or your other hands wet thumb rubbing the clit or get your tongue on it if you can. I love a squirter its so hot n horny mmmm | |||
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"Tip #1: Make Preparations Which Will Set the Mood The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to make it possible for her. It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that’s to come. So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact? Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices. Aromatherapy as an arousal method – Lavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use a sense of smell to get your woman ready. Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later. Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy. Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter. Tip #2: Find the Position That’s Right for Her Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience. Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest: First, have her lie on her back. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse. You could even try this special ‘inverted spiderman’ technique. Just hang her head off the edge of the bed and you’ll be able to hit her g-spot in the perfect position. How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her g-spot at the perfect angle. Now that she’s in the right position, let’s move on to some physical stimulation. Tip #3: Focus on the Foreplay Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt. With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood: Whisper sweet nothings – Whether your partner enjoys the gentle brush of your breath against her ear, or the sound of dirty talk gets her going, this step can be used to titillate and tease. Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss. Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy. You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, Some men may find it difficult to determine which spots she finds to be most sensitive. This need not be an issue, as long as you communicate and pay special attention to her physical cues. If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship. Tip #4: Invest in (a lot of) High-Quality Lube If there’s one thing to splurge on when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her. You really can never use too much lube. With this in mind, let’s go over some g-spot stimulating steps you can take: Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm. Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral manipulation. Slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina, keeping your palm face up. Curl your fingertip and perform a “come hither” motion with your finger on the frontal wall of her vagina. While you don’t want to provide overstimulation, after a few minutes, you should be able to add another finger and test out a variety of other stimulation techniques in order to keep her aroused and interested. How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax. Moving deeper inside her, locate her g-spot (a spongy structure, anywhere from the size of a dime to the size of a quarter when stimulated) about 2-3 inches within her vagina, and take note of its location because you’ll need easy access for the tip below. a popular lubricant is actually grapeseed oil. It is cheap, easy to buy, free from harsh chemicals and its perfect for squirting. Keep in mind, your partner may complain of an urge to urinate. This is absolutely normal, and you should assure her that she need not worry. In order to squirt, she will need to feel completely comfortable around you and providing her with the reassurance that a bit of urine isn’t anything that will freak you out will help her to relax and let go. Tip #5: Combine Clitoral and Vaginal Stimulation for Electrifying Results I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important? The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation. So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is: Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the g-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the g-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.) With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gently stroking the g-spot. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation. Tip #6: Focus More on the Experience Than the Goal You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal. Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter. Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused because it's so different from men. For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks. Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually, you and she will get into the groove that’s right for you. And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again. So, take your time and really enjoy the experience. I hope this helps." To respond to this degree I think you have too much time on your hands.... | |||
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