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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some people not send verifications ?

Even after a great meet and still in touch

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

All sorts of reasons. Best to ask them tbh.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I don’t think veris show if your profile is hidden op? Maybe they’ve tried to verify you and couldn’t? X

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Depends...

If it's a second (third, fourth) meet then they may think that one veri is enough.

If its a first meet, then as far as we can see there are only two options…

1. They don't want anyone to know they have had a meet (perhaps they are married?).

2. They don't want anyone to know they have had a meet... with you.

In this case I'd fuck them off at the high port, if they cant 'fess up with a veri, they can get fucked lol.

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By *moelmoWoman
over a year ago

slough

2. They don't want anyone to know they have had a meet... with you

This is reason really annoys me like good enough to fuck but not good enough to show it

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I often don’t. I also have some I chose not to show because they’re very personal.

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've also learned the hard way that some people don't want veris. I always ask first now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always ask also

I’ve only had 3 meets altogether

But had to ask to be verified

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"I always ask also

I’ve only had 3 meets altogether

But had to ask to be verified "

Yeah, cant see your profile so don't know details, so I'm guessing you are a single fem, and guys can be dicks, don't send a veri until you get one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends...

If it's a second (third, fourth) meet then they may think that one veri is enough.

If its a first meet, then as far as we can see there are only two options…

1. They don't want anyone to know they have had a meet (perhaps they are married?).

2. They don't want anyone to know they have had a meet... with you.

In this case I'd fuck them off at the high port, if they cant 'fess up with a veri, they can get fucked lol. "

They can indeed, the dreamers, snobs and special people avoid us because we will veri and expect one back, then they wouldn’t be so special eh? Lol x

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

How do you veri without getting one first? I've only ever done it with the "do you want to verify so and so in return"...

Never actually done one first....I'm obviously a bit dim lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"How do you veri without getting one first? I've only ever done it with the "do you want to verify so and so in return"...

Never actually done one first....I'm obviously a bit dim lol"

Go to the menu on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes single female but stay hidden most of the time as I simply can’t cope with all the messages

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I turn up my filters when I can't cope.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I turn up my filters when I can't cope. "

This ,me too on my single profile

Miss

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Did you verify them OP?.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I asked first

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Depends...

If it's a second (third, fourth) meet then they may think that one veri is enough.

If its a first meet, then as far as we can see there are only two options…

1. They don't want anyone to know they have had a meet (perhaps they are married?).

2. They don't want anyone to know they have had a meet... with you.

In this case I'd fuck them off at the high port, if they cant 'fess up with a veri, they can get fucked lol.

They can indeed, the dreamers, snobs and special people avoid us because we will veri and expect one back, then they wouldn’t be so special eh? Lol x"

Yeah. We had a "meet" (no names, no pack drill lol) who never displayed our veri, and didn't veri us back.

I left it for a while, but mentioned it next time we saw them at a social.

"He/she/they" explained that they didn't want everyone to think they had fucked half of fab, either directly or by playing with those who had many veries, so didn't think a veri was necessary (they had about 4 veries at that time, we probably had about 104) and giving/having a veri with us would flag them up.

Needless to say we dropped them off our friends list.

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