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By *ease123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

central Bedfordshire

I really wanna do this..... but my gagging reflects isn’t great.... helpful hints please TIA

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'd like some tips too....I'm ok to a point and then start to heave

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By *r Normally KinkyMan
over a year ago

Somerset

Breathe out before you go down empty lungs mean no build up of air pressure so its easier to go down and should go some way to reducing the gag reflex,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really wanna do this..... but my gagging reflects isn’t great.... helpful hints please TIA"

Look for a chap with a think dick might help

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Performing deep throat properly is an art form , it can take some practice to perfect it , you need to desensitise Ur gag reflex

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By *weet Treat 69Couple
over a year ago

North Wales area

I'm lucky I don't have much of a gag, either that or I have big mouth.

It's my hubby piercing that tickles the back of me throat.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Performing deep throat properly is an art form , it can take some practice to perfect it , you need to desensitise Ur gag reflex "

But how? Simple repetition doesn't seem to be helping

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By *ease123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

central Bedfordshire

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Performing deep throat properly is an art form , it can take some practice to perfect it , you need to desensitise Ur gag reflex

But how? Simple repetition doesn't seem to be helping"

you need to get used to things touching the back of your throat , yes at first it makes you gag and vomit even but repetition will get you more de-sensitised to it , depends how motivated you are to deep throat cock really , try touching the back of your throat with your toothbrush ever time you clean your teeth , worked for me and now I'm an expert deep throat sucker so I'm so often told

Good luck op !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to really struggle almost heave when went anywhere near my throat now happily drop balls deep it's about holding at that place u start to gag and trying to relax muscles and letting them open takes a time.but practise makes perfect x x

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Watch a few deep throat probs and learn, the wetter the cock the easier it will slip down ,it's easy when you know how

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the anxiety about doing it isn’t helping. I am lucky to have minimal/zero gag reflex, but know it is better and easier to go ball deep when I am relaxed and enjoying it too. It is not the be all and end all, so enjoy the practice and experiment with what is right for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anybody wants a decent sized pretty thick cock to practice on give me a shout

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon


"I really wanna do this..... but my gagging reflects isn’t great.... helpful hints please TIA"

Breath through your nose!0

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Just suck it and see op

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I am available as a practice piece if you're interested (and definitely not for my own personal enjoyment)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Struggle myself with hubby but have done it with other guys easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start slow and ease it down the throat. Eventually u will be a pro lol

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By *n_thy_kneesMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

Lovehoney sell a Deepthroat spray. It's a numbing spray.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

The most important aspect of learning how to deep throat your boyfriend or husband without gagging is getting your gag reflex, also known as your pharyngeal reflex under control. While this isn’t an issue for the roughly 37% of women who are fortunate enough to not have a gag reflex, if you do have a gag reflex, then this will teach you how to get it under control.

1 You’ll be using either a finger or the handle of a toothbrush or a dildo or something phallic shaped. Just make sure that it’s clean and sterile first. And also make sure that it wouldn’t damage your throat or get stuck in it

2 Place it into your mouth and slowly edge towards the back of your throat.

3 Eventually, it will trigger your gag reflex as it reaches the back of your throat. When this happens, consciously try to suppress your gag reflex hold it there.

4 You now need to maintain your breathing through your nose while at the same time concentrating on relaxing your throat. Sometimes this is easy and sometimes this can be quite difficult. The key is to keep trying, even if you do find yourself accidentally gagging now and then.

5 Hold your finger/dildo/toothbrush steady at the back of your throat for up to 10 seconds. Don’t try to move it in or out.

6 Try doing this two to three times every day for a week. You’ll find that towards the end of the week, it will get a lot easier, and your gag reflex won’t be as sensitive compared to when you started.

7 Your gag reflex will become less and less sensitive over the coming weeks as you continue practising. Once you notice this, then it’s time to take it a step further. Every once in a while, try slowly moving your finger/toothbrush/dildo in and out of your mouth so that it’s repeatedly brushing off your gag reflex.

8 The first few times you try this, your gag reflex will be heavily stimulated making you feel like throwing up. But it’s important to try your best to stay calm, keep breathing and relax even if your throat is in spasms!

9 After a few weeks of this, you will have eventually worn down the sensitivity of your gag reflex to the point where you are quite comfortable taking a dildo deep into and out of your throat without convulsing, gagging or coughing excessively.

10 Now you need to try it with your man!

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Lovehoney sell a Deepthroat spray. It's a numbing spray. "
don't want my throat pussy numbing I want to feel it lol what's the point otherwise unless it's purely to please the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You called?'!

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By *ease123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

central Bedfordshire


"The most important aspect of learning how to deep throat your boyfriend or husband without gagging is getting your gag reflex, also known as your pharyngeal reflex under control. While this isn’t an issue for the roughly 37% of women who are fortunate enough to not have a gag reflex, if you do have a gag reflex, then this will teach you how to get it under control.

1 You’ll be using either a finger or the handle of a toothbrush or a dildo or something phallic shaped. Just make sure that it’s clean and sterile first. And also make sure that it wouldn’t damage your throat or get stuck in it

2 Place it into your mouth and slowly edge towards the back of your throat.

3 Eventually, it will trigger your gag reflex as it reaches the back of your throat. When this happens, consciously try to suppress your gag reflex hold it there.

4 You now need to maintain your breathing through your nose while at the same time concentrating on relaxing your throat. Sometimes this is easy and sometimes this can be quite difficult. The key is to keep trying, even if you do find yourself accidentally gagging now and then.

5 Hold your finger/dildo/toothbrush steady at the back of your throat for up to 10 seconds. Don’t try to move it in or out.

6 Try doing this two to three times every day for a week. You’ll find that towards the end of the week, it will get a lot easier, and your gag reflex won’t be as sensitive compared to when you started.

7 Your gag reflex will become less and less sensitive over the coming weeks as you continue practising. Once you notice this, then it’s time to take it a step further. Every once in a while, try slowly moving your finger/toothbrush/dildo in and out of your mouth so that it’s repeatedly brushing off your gag reflex.

8 The first few times you try this, your gag reflex will be heavily stimulated making you feel like throwing up. But it’s important to try your best to stay calm, keep breathing and relax even if your throat is in spasms!

9 After a few weeks of this, you will have eventually worn down the sensitivity of your gag reflex to the point where you are quite comfortable taking a dildo deep into and out of your throat without convulsing, gagging or coughing excessively.

10 Now you need to try it with your man!"

Thank you

Guess what I’ll be doing later?

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Only hint I can give is try on me.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Well I tried to help but got ignored

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By *ellbound_GhoulwarpWoman
over a year ago

Fifth Circle of Hell

I find laying on back with head hanging off the edge of the bed is the easiest way, I rarely gag during deepthroat.

Only thing about DT I struggle with is breathing through my nose, I seem to hold my breathe and come up for air when I need to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Breathe out before you go down empty lungs mean no build up of air pressure so its easier to go down and should go some way to reducing the gag reflex, "

I agree with this. I always breath out first, and make sure plenty of spit on his cock to help it slide down.

Definitely not an expert but I can do 9" and the above does help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

practice

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over a year ago

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By *ease123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

central Bedfordshire


"Well I tried to help but got ignored "

Ahhhh sorry.... not intentional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you start to suck cock lower down your tongue then start breathing through your nose this has always wrked for me

Fi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find laying on back with head hanging off the edge of the bed is the easiest way, I rarely gag during deepthroat.

Only thing about DT I struggle with is breathing through my nose, I seem to hold my breathe and come up for air when I need to lol"

This position is great, it’s how I recently realised I can fully deepthroat

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Well I tried to help but got ignored

Ahhhh sorry.... not intentional "

ok

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"As you start to suck cock lower down your tongue then start breathing through your nose this has always wrked for me

Fi "

if your deep throating properly ya cant breath at all

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"As you start to suck cock lower down your tongue then start breathing through your nose this has always wrked for me

Fi if your deep throating properly ya cant breath at all "

that sounds correct any one wants to practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like holding your beath as it slides deep down x

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

And his cum is pumped straight to ur tummy and ya dont even taste it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it done stood up in front and it hurt..... like the end of my manhood was hitting something hard and pointy. We repeated in 69 and had no issues.

Not sure if that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hold my breath. I find that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hold my breath.. but I love gagging

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By *LOVEpinacoladasWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I find laying on back with head hanging off the edge of the bed is the easiest way, I rarely gag during deepthroat.

Only thing about DT I struggle with is breathing through my nose, I seem to hold my breathe and come up for air when I need to lol

This position is great, it’s how I recently realised I can fully deepthroat "

Yes, agreed!

I've always found it's as much about the angle as the gag reflex. Head back over the edge of the bed stretches the throat out - if you imagine "classic blowjob" person on knees or between legs position, the cock's going to bash the back of the throat more.

Going on top in a 69 is also easier for me for similar reasons!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice practice practice,free any time purely for your training purposes only

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By *lim Jim 69Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

get the right angle, lay on the bed with your head hanging over the side. choose cock size wisely to start with. take it down slowly and surely at your own speed not the guys speed. remember to breathe.

once you got the knack you'll luv it.. the guys you'll do it to will deffo luv it.

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
over a year ago

Belpre

It just takes practice. Besides, it doesn't hurt to gag sometimes anyway, just keep going ; ) .

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By *utonguy2023Man
over a year ago

luton

Could always use mune for practice till you can acomplish in full

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Performing deep throat properly is an art form , it can take some practice to perfect it , you need to desensitise Ur gag reflex

But how? Simple repetition doesn't seem to be helping"

Try using fingers.. food.. or other things. Also try making a fist and putting your thumb in the middle. It does help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a lot of practice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started practising this morning whilst brushing my teeth! Some great advice on here, following with interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can never breathe when I deep throat and when I'm deepthroating and I'm balls deep I'm always sick so have a bin nearby

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By *ebbiexxxTV/TS
over a year ago

Heston

The film 'Deep Throat' was the first porn movie I ever watched (in my very early teens) and I guess I just assumed that is how to suck cock. It came pretty naturally to me when I started giving oral. Enjoying it is key of course. Depending on how you are feeling and who you are with it's possible not to gag. Worrying about gagging is not the answer. Again, depending on who you are with it could be something to embrace-a lot of guys like a deep, wet sloppy blow job and gagging on a nice dick can add to the enjoyment for both the giver and receiver. Just have plenty of towels on hand if the juices start to flow......

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Thank you

Guess what I’ll be doing later? "

Wow, I'm also on the program now!

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"The film 'Deep Throat' was the first porn movie I ever watched (in my very early teens) and I guess I just assumed that is how to suck cock. It came pretty naturally to me when I started giving oral. Enjoying it is key of course. Depending on how you are feeling and who you are with it's possible not to gag. Worrying about gagging is not the answer. Again, depending on who you are with it could be something to embrace-a lot of guys like a deep, wet sloppy blow job and gagging on a nice dick can add to the enjoyment for both the giver and receiver. Just have plenty of towels on hand if the juices start to flow......

"

was it Lynda Lovelace in that film ?

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By *parklesueTV/TS
over a year ago

Middleton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nine?! That’s got to be pro ranking surely?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find laying on back with head hanging off the edge of the bed is the easiest way, I rarely gag during deepthroat.

"

That's how I perfected it with very large ones

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Seems to be a lot of guys interested and experienced in this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. Not experience me in the giving element (not my thing - but all ye power to you if it is)but oh - having it done? Definitely. Though I’ve never met a lady who can fully deepehtoat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had it done before but still in search for someone to try it lol, offers welcome

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By *adam07Man
over a year ago

london

Anyone want to try on my banana cock?

In North London/ Hackney.

Can drive too so get in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered about deep throat. Can Mrs N and I spank that gorgeous bottom sometime. xxx

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Any guys want to use my deep throat ? Hit me up !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not too bothered about deepthroating , I prefer a good hard knobsucking tbh . But I've found that if your partner lies with their head tipped back slightly on the edge of the bed it's much easier to feed in the inches . HTH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really wanna do this..... but my gagging reflects isn’t great.... helpful hints please TIA"

Apparently, you just have to persevere. Not that I would know, of course. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use p o p p e r s lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need someone to practice with. As I'm a nice dude, I'll volunteer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use p o p p e r s lol"

Bleurgh !! Horrible smelly stuff !!

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I really wanna do this..... but my gagging reflects isn’t great.... helpful hints please TIA"

If you need a little help with suppressing your gag reflex, most pharmacies sell an analgesic spray

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By *ease123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

central Bedfordshire

Thank you all for the advice and those that offered for me to practise on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find laying on back with head hanging off the edge of the bed is the easiest way, I rarely gag during deepthroat.

Only thing about DT I struggle with is breathing through my nose, I seem to hold my breathe and come up for air when I need to lol"

This is the best position for me when doing deepthroat.

I like to gag too though and some guys seem to like it

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Watch a few deep throat probs and learn, the wetter the cock the easier it will slip down ,it's easy when you know how "

Can't PM you Tinkerbelle, but wanted to say, I wish I could. The eyes are quite mesmeric and that's only in photos. Must be awesome in close up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gag alot too, some positions are alot easier than others, i love grabbing the arse and pushing them deep x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice with someone you trust, so you can relax. Take it slowly and allow yourself to get used to it. I've trained a few subs to do this but never pushed any that weren't comfortable with actually gagging, some actually enjoy the loss of control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax, breath out, don't go straight down all the way in one go. I've helped a number of partners go all the way, but don't rush it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to have you try that on me!

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By *bridge manMan
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Sook a smaller cock... Use mine for practice lol...

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By *lfiebMan
over a year ago

Hastings

I find making his cock super wet helps it slide down better and if it's got a curve in it try taking at a different angle so again it fits nicely and doesn't hurt or make you gag.

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

hot wife


"I really wanna do this..... but my gagging reflects isn’t great.... helpful hints please TIA"
deepthroat mouth spray it relaxes the back of the throat and has a nice minty taste too and after a few weeks you won't need it as your be use to taking cock deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you try to suck the cock at a good angle, my fb found it easier to deep throat if the bend is aiming downward. Normally in 69.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Love being a deep throat whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was never able to deepthroat until the last year or so. I think the main factor in being able to do it is not whether you gag (which a lot of guys do enjoy anyway) but rather the ability not to panic when you do feel the gag start. It's psychological.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Drink a little water while practicing helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The most important aspect of learning how to deep throat your boyfriend or husband without gagging is getting your gag reflex, also known as your pharyngeal reflex under control. While this isn’t an issue for the roughly 37% of women who are fortunate enough to not have a gag reflex, if you do have a gag reflex, then this will teach you how to get it under control.

1 You’ll be using either a finger or the handle of a toothbrush or a dildo or something phallic shaped. Just make sure that it’s clean and sterile first. And also make sure that it wouldn’t damage your throat or get stuck in it

2 Place it into your mouth and slowly edge towards the back of your throat.

3 Eventually, it will trigger your gag reflex as it reaches the back of your throat. When this happens, consciously try to suppress your gag reflex hold it there.

4 You now need to maintain your breathing through your nose while at the same time concentrating on relaxing your throat. Sometimes this is easy and sometimes this can be quite difficult. The key is to keep trying, even if you do find yourself accidentally gagging now and then.

5 Hold your finger/dildo/toothbrush steady at the back of your throat for up to 10 seconds. Don’t try to move it in or out.

6 Try doing this two to three times every day for a week. You’ll find that towards the end of the week, it will get a lot easier, and your gag reflex won’t be as sensitive compared to when you started.

7 Your gag reflex will become less and less sensitive over the coming weeks as you continue practising. Once you notice this, then it’s time to take it a step further. Every once in a while, try slowly moving your finger/toothbrush/dildo in and out of your mouth so that it’s repeatedly brushing off your gag reflex.

8 The first few times you try this, your gag reflex will be heavily stimulated making you feel like throwing up. But it’s important to try your best to stay calm, keep breathing and relax even if your throat is in spasms!

9 After a few weeks of this, you will have eventually worn down the sensitivity of your gag reflex to the point where you are quite comfortable taking a dildo deep into and out of your throat without convulsing, gagging or coughing excessively.

10 Now you need to try it with your man!"

Thats great advice thank you, my teeth are going to glowing white after all this “brushing” i need to run off and do MrsC x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't he a character off 'All the President's Men?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the gag and wretch tbh

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By *addyLilGirlCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Make sure your turned on wanting to be face fucked and suck that dick deep down.

Wet your lips and throat dry gag and friction is never a thing that feels good for either party

I always breath in like I'm taking my paracetamol to stop my gag reflex...

If you can't handle it on your knees and face fucking do it on the edge of the bed with your head of it your throats straight and it's less pressure on your throat and gag reflex

&&&&&&&

Have fun

Nothing better then a good face fucking

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Adore being brutally face fucked

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