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"Yes hate,it's a strong word but I really do. It really does hold me back from playing Mrs says she is happy with it but I'm not. It's a constant source of embarrassment in swinging terms. Do other guy's feel like this? " Why do you hate it? You say it holds you back.. in what way? | |||
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"Yes hate,it's a strong word but I really do. It really does hold me back from playing Mrs says she is happy with it but I'm not. It's a constant source of embarrassment in swinging terms. Do other guy's feel like this? " I've gotta say I'm not fond of it either | |||
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"thanks for everyone's input kind words. To clarify, it's small,it's thin, flaccid it's embarrassing. But look it's given me two fantastic children and grandchildren. But from a point of view of ego and vanity and tbh feeling manly I really don't. I am extremely self conscious to the point of I avoid playing fearing disappointed for the female concerned. Ultimately I realise that I can't change anything but you read so many post's by fems on here and read profiles plus we talk to others and let's face it sooooo many comment on penis size it's hardly surprising that some of us guys get paranoid." Im the exact same Im a grower not a showwer That again my mrs says its fine and infact to big, hits the top. Which i can feel. But when you see many posts and photos of a cucumber sized cock ya think whats the point. My confidence is at its lowest its been. | |||
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"thanks for everyone's input kind words. To clarify, it's small,it's thin, flaccid it's embarrassing. But look it's given me two fantastic children and grandchildren. But from a point of view of ego and vanity and tbh feeling manly I really don't. I am extremely self conscious to the point of I avoid playing fearing disappointed for the female concerned. Ultimately I realise that I can't change anything but you read so many post's by fems on here and read profiles plus we talk to others and let's face it sooooo many comment on penis size it's hardly surprising that some of us guys get paranoid." Your photos are from the worst angle, looking down. Which is also the way you see it. Most guys are wise to this and take them from the side or looking up is even better. Do this and restore some pride, plus see other guy's dicks in perspective as they are trying to make them look bigger. Most will take photos when they 'maxed out' and tell a few porkies regarding size. All this will make you feel worse, so see it for what it is. Average dick is 5 and half inches, fact. Most guys measure theirs wrongly from their balls! If I had a wife I would want a conciensious dude like you all over her. | |||
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"thanks for everyone's input kind words. To clarify, it's small,it's thin, flaccid it's embarrassing. But look it's given me two fantastic children and grandchildren. But from a point of view of ego and vanity and tbh feeling manly I really don't. I am extremely self conscious to the point of I avoid playing fearing disappointed for the female concerned. Ultimately I realise that I can't change anything but you read so many post's by fems on here and read profiles plus we talk to others and let's face it sooooo many comment on penis size it's hardly surprising that some of us guys get paranoid." I have the same kind of issues but with body confidence, my stomach, thighs just everything. Fab hasn't really helped especially when you hear men's unkind opinions on here without thinking of How it can impact self esteem. So I get it. I asked myself how to improve my self esteem but that's exactly it it comes from self and self acceptance. Good days and bad days and learning to love our body and being grateful for health and also improving our bodies in ways that we can control if that would help our self-esteem. Try and focus on things you like and can improve rather than what you don't like and can't change. I ofcourse am a hypocrite here because I am the same lol. But for what it's worth if your wife is happy with it and I think it looks good and I am sure others wouldn't complain Xxx | |||
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"thanks for everyone's input kind words. To clarify, it's small,it's thin, flaccid it's embarrassing. But look it's given me two fantastic children and grandchildren. But from a point of view of ego and vanity and tbh feeling manly I really don't. I am extremely self conscious to the point of I avoid playing fearing disappointed for the female concerned. Ultimately I realise that I can't change anything but you read so many post's by fems on here and read profiles plus we talk to others and let's face it sooooo many comment on penis size it's hardly surprising that some of us guys get paranoid." You've filled two prams and your life with it ..not such a bad innings | |||
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"thanks for everyone's input kind words. To clarify, it's small,it's thin, flaccid it's embarrassing. But look it's given me two fantastic children and grandchildren. But from a point of view of ego and vanity and tbh feeling manly I really don't. I am extremely self conscious to the point of I avoid playing fearing disappointed for the female concerned. Ultimately I realise that I can't change anything but you read so many post's by fems on here and read profiles plus we talk to others and let's face it sooooo many comment on penis size it's hardly surprising that some of us guys get paranoid." It doesn't look small and thin to me. | |||
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"Is this a ruse to get people to look at your knob? " Good grief no. Absolutely not | |||
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"So sad to hear you feel like this looks perfectly fine to me. I think the worst thing you can do is compare to others. My fab is paranoid about his, but I love it, perfect length, perfect size. I mean, who needs more than a mouthful. Bodies come in all shapes, sizes. All beautiful! More celebrating ourselves is needed " Mines small but I really don’t care! It fits nicely in my hand so that’s all that bothers me lol | |||
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"thanks for everyone's input kind words. To clarify, it's small,it's thin, flaccid it's embarrassing. But look it's given me two fantastic children and grandchildren. But from a point of view of ego and vanity and tbh feeling manly I really don't. I am extremely self conscious to the point of I avoid playing fearing disappointed for the female concerned. Ultimately I realise that I can't change anything but you read so many post's by fems on here and read profiles plus we talk to others and let's face it sooooo many comment on penis size it's hardly surprising that some of us guys get paranoid." Looks absolutely fine to me. Not all want monster cocks. Upwards and onwards Mrs | |||
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"Get yourself a bottle of buckfast make sure you have no kids that night and it’s boom time" I tasted that again for the first time in almost 30 yrs last weekend and it still tasted as bad as I remembered!! | |||
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"thanks for everyone's input kind words. To clarify, it's small,it's thin, flaccid it's embarrassing. But look it's given me two fantastic children and grandchildren. But from a point of view of ego and vanity and tbh feeling manly I really don't. I am extremely self conscious to the point of I avoid playing fearing disappointed for the female concerned. Ultimately I realise that I can't change anything but you read so many post's by fems on here and read profiles plus we talk to others and let's face it sooooo many comment on penis size it's hardly surprising that some of us guys get paranoid." Hey, Mr here. I feel exactly the same as you do but one thing I’m learning is that most women say that the size isn’t everything. The gf tells me this all the time but I just assume she’s saying it to make me feel better but most females from couples we meet say the same thing. I’m only 6” hard which is perfect for her. She doesn’t like big dicks and won’t meet anyone bigger than 7”. Don’t be so hard on yourself. | |||
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"Yes hate,it's a strong word but I really do. It really does hold me back from playing Mrs says she is happy with it but I'm not. It's a constant source of embarrassment in swinging terms. Do other guy's feel like this? " You can't hale your little man fella you only get one you need to love it and nurture it like a plant and then it will grow. | |||
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"Yes hate,it's a strong word but I really do. It really does hold me back from playing Mrs says she is happy with it but I'm not. It's a constant source of embarrassment in swinging terms. Do other guy's feel like this? You can't hale your little man fella you only get one you need to love it and nurture it like a plant and then it will grow. " I think he may have already tried this | |||
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"Yes hate,it's a strong word but I really do. It really does hold me back from playing Mrs says she is happy with it but I'm not. It's a constant source of embarrassment in swinging terms. Do other guy's feel like this? " I don't hate mine, and I haven't really tried to find how I feel about it. My only concern is that, I am not a quickie person, I last longer before cumming. I was with a friend in a hotel in Prague who came in with a girl, before ten pumps he had climaxed... I was like, wow! I wish I could do it that quick. But then, all to their own. Hate is a choice (my opinion), you can also choose to focus on what you are good at and what you love giving. Understandably, some posts on here could be intimidating and somehow makes you want to measure yourself against others. However, I would not advice you to keep doing that, no one comes out tops in all things. Some big (long or whatever big means) cannot get hard enough, some that get hard don't last, some that last don't make kids, and those that have all these might not be able to keep a long relationship not to mention having a wife. But, look at you, the one cock you seem to hate have made you two kids who have gone on to give you grand kids. Celebrate Man! No one has it all, but some of concentrate on the little we have... Most importantly, the Mrs (who is and should be the Chief judge here) like it. Case closed | |||
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"May I ask....your wife meets other guys, right? Does that make you even more paranoid about yourself? " not really as she never cums from penetration. Not once with anyone. Thank you everyone for your reassuring comments. | |||
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"Thats so kind of you to make him feel better" It is stating facts. Not ego massaging. | |||
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"Yes hate,it's a strong word but I really do. It really does hold me back from playing Mrs says she is happy with it but I'm not. It's a constant source of embarrassment in swinging terms. Do other guy's feel like this? " Looks fine to me!! | |||
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"I have same problem mine comes too quick so I have to keep stopping. As soon as I'm inside a woman I get that tickling sensation in the tip and I have to pull out till it dies down.id love to go hard and fast for even a few minutes. I'd appreciate some tips how to stop the quick urge to come" i recently got stud100 delay spray from online and i can promise you it works works wonders!! gives a slight numb feeling and make you last like a stallion | |||
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"Yes hate,it's a strong word but I really do. It really does hold me back from playing Mrs says she is happy with it but I'm not. It's a constant source of embarrassment in swinging terms. Do other guy's feel like this? " Your Mrs is gorgeous so you're obviously doing something right! No point worrying about stuff you can't change. I wish I had bigger boobs sometimes...c'est la vie | |||
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"Is this a ruse to get people to look at your knob? " Nope tbh the ONE picture I have on there is only coz Mrs wants it on there or I would have none. | |||
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"I have same problem mine comes too quick so I have to keep stopping. As soon as I'm inside a woman I get that tickling sensation in the tip and I have to pull out till it dies down.id love to go hard and fast for even a few minutes. I'd appreciate some tips how to stop the quick urge to come" There's a spray that can help, also a cockring also helps prevent cumming. Then last resort is the dreaded pinch. You could try visualising all the things you should never Google? Might be too effective tho. | |||
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"Yes hate,it's a strong word but I really do. It really does hold me back from playing Mrs says she is happy with it but I'm not. It's a constant source of embarrassment in swinging terms. Do other guy's feel like this? " you should try a bathmate (penis pump) I've seen on first hand experience of what they do, you can also watch videos on youtube. little cucks erections were harder, more girthy and he definitely couldn't fit in his cage after using his. pm me if you want anymore info there not cheap but definitely worth it | |||
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"As wife of the op, I have to say that I love his cock! It fits like a glove. We've been together for 30+ years! We have two beautiful children. I tell him every day how much I love him and that includes his cock. In answer to your questions, he has always felt this way, it's not just since fabs. " Now that's what I call sweet. I like to hear how much of a supporter and fan you are of your other half, warmed my insides P.s your sexy | |||
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"As wife of the op, I have to say that I love his cock! It fits like a glove. We've been together for 30+ years! We have two beautiful children. I tell him every day how much I love him and that includes his cock. In answer to your questions, he has always felt this way, it's not just since fabs. " And you look fantastic so he obviously has nothing to worry about | |||
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"As wife of the op, I have to say that I love his cock! It fits like a glove." Did you hear about the guy with 5 dicks ?? His pants fit like a glove too !! lol | |||
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