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By *llycpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

new to meeting and all so far have been in hotels , but when travelling to other cpls homes that can accommodate does that mean there dont mind you sleeping the night as well??

more for when meeting people far away then a good taxi ride and both like to have a drink to relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it usually means just for the meet. Would get anything else clarified first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will expect you to stay.

Some will not expect you to stay.

It's something you need to ask any couple you plan to meet in their home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably why many prefer local meets, so they can go home after...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a spare room and always offer for people to stay if they want ( but no pressure) but some people dont want people staying (kids home in the morning or whatever)

Always best to check, if not offered

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am quite strange about staying over at other peoples homes... ok if people stay over at mine but I don't do the reverse. I would rather book a hotel to stay over in after a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a spare room and always offer for people to stay if they want ( but no pressure) but some people dont want people staying (kids home in the morning or whatever)

Always best to check, if not offered"

We've been offered a stop-over in our hometown which is absolutely fantastic of the people who offer to. We can put someone up, and have a guest room, but we do that on merits. If we had someone coming a goodly way to see us on the train or busses then more than likely, and it's nice sharing breakfast the next morning too...

Wolf

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I accomodate, it doesnt mean i want them there for breakfast. IF i am planning on having a sleep over then it is arranged properly beforehand. Wouldnt want someone turning up just for a meet with an overnight bag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accom fot the actual meet but do not have over night stays but this is mainly due to me having sleep problems, I have lost out on many a meet through it but for me it's not possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to accommodate at weekends until we had a meet with a couple who turned up & brought so much baggage with them we thought they were planning to move in & we even ended up going for a lunchtime drink next day with them as they obviously thought we were going to carry on from the night before (we had a drink & told them to go in the end).

Also we prefer to wake up in the morning & get on with our day rather than having to try & hint for people to leave.

We now only accommodate for a few hours & its up to the other couple what they do after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it usually means just for the meet. Would get anything else clarified first."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends some do and some don't but it would be arranged before the actual meeting up.......... like everyone else says best to make sure before you turn up, or before anyone came to yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We accomodate over night if people have far to travel but for anyone local no point in a over night stay but thats just us.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"new to meeting and all so far have been in hotels , but when travelling to other cpls homes that can accommodate does that mean there dont mind you sleeping the night as well??

more for when meeting people far away then a good taxi ride and both like to have a drink to relax

"

Usually just for the meet, although some like us say ppl are welcome to stay over...so if you fancy a drive from Donny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accomodate for the length of the meet.... I would not stay over anywhere.. nor would anyone stay here.

Some will.. some wont ... just ask.

cali

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

we used to be able to accom but never over night

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I accom fot the actual meet but do not have over night stays but this is mainly due to me having sleep problems, I have lost out on many a meet through it but for me it's not possible"

I very rarely stay over because, after 6 years of living alone, I have real problems sleeping with others. Also, I love my own bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always expect to stay over when I meet with someone who 'accomodates'.

I also expect a full english and fresh coffee in the morning along with my morning paper. Trousers should be pressed and shoes shined!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Always agree the ground rules first - then there are no surprises...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate, however, it does not necessarily mean my house, or for the other person to be "entertained" all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can accommodate, however, it does not necessarily mean my house, or for the other person to be "entertained" all night. "

So no full english then???

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

I very rarely stay over because, after 6 years of living alone, I have real problems sleeping with others. Also, I love my own bed. "

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"

I very rarely stay over because, after 6 years of living alone, I have real problems sleeping with others. Also, I love my own bed.

"

It's just sooooo comfy

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"

I very rarely stay over because, after 6 years of living alone, I have real problems sleeping with others. Also, I love my own bed.

It's just sooooo comfy "

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

We'd accommodate overnight if needed. No one has needed it so far.

We were offered an overnighter next time we play with a couple so we could all have a drink and not be too bothered with the time. Sounded like a great idea to us.

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So no full english then???"

horlicks...

;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I very rarely stay over because, after 6 years of living alone, I have real problems sleeping with others. Also, I love my own bed.

It's just sooooo comfy "

I love my own bed too, but what with me dev and the cat, someone has to top to tail with the cat and he farts a lot

;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are not able to do either due to little people.

however if we are going to meet another couple at their home,we would always assume that accomodate means for the duration of playtime and would not expect to stay over.

in all honesty i am not sure we would like to stay over as we are not really morning people.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I will offer a guy accomodation if they have travelled or we are going to have a couple of drinksIt rare i ask them if they would like them to stay over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have some spare rooms, and there are some friends we met via swinging who come and stay for weekends, but new meets are just a few hours, then off ya go... things may change if we are meeting again... OP never assume, but stick an overnight bag in the boot just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have some spare rooms, and there are some friends we met via swinging who come and stay for weekends, but new meets are just a few hours, then off ya go... things may change if we are meeting again... OP never assume, but stick an overnight bag in the boot just in case "

+1

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