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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I being in this fuckin site for nearly a year now and it’s always the the same thing

1- I see a female or a couple looking to meet

2- I send a nice friendly message to them saying I am interested in meet with a nice pic of me

3- I get a reply saying are you Asian ?

4- then they tell me they are not interested

Why don’t you just say it’s for white people only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because then people will complain that they have "only white people" on their profile.

And it's much 'nicer' to not state such preferences on profiles.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"So I being in this fuckin site for nearly a year now and it’s always the the same thing

1- I see a female or a couple looking to meet

2- I send a nice friendly message to them saying I am interested in meet with a nice pic of me

3- I get a reply saying are you Asian ?

4- then they tell me they are not interested

Why don’t you just say it’s for white people only "

It's called personal preference.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Coz it's not just for white ppl that comment there isn't gonna do you any good ,

We don't mind if you're asian asking as you're pretty however your out of luck coz you're male and we don't have no interest in males don't use the race card pal it's ugly

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"So I being in this fuckin site for nearly a year now and it’s always the the same thing

1- I see a female or a couple looking to meet

2- I send a nice friendly message to them saying I am interested in meet with a nice pic of me

3- I get a reply saying are you Asian ?

4- then they tell me they are not interested

Why don’t you just say it’s for white people only "

Just because someone is looking to meet it doesn’t mean that they want to meet you!

Op whinging isn’t attractive. Maybe it’s time to get the chip off your shoulder and look a little closer at why you don’t get any interest, after looking at your profile, I guarantee that your ethnicity has nothing to do with it. Plenty of people of all ethnicities are meeting, these are the people who put some effort into their profiles and pics.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"So I being in this fuckin site for nearly a year now and it’s always the the same thing

1- I see a female or a couple looking to meet

2- I send a nice friendly message to them saying I am interested in meet with a nice pic of me

3- I get a reply saying are you Asian ?

4- then they tell me they are not interested

Why don’t you just say it’s for white people only "

Because then they will be Racist and made to like shit.

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By *arahBaby123Woman
over a year ago

WORCESTER

Gotta speak up for OP folks. I see 'no asians' again and again on profiles. If I were asian, I would be 'whinging' too- and probably pretty offended.

I know folks have personal preferences but one thing this swingy thing life has taught me is that you never know what someone is truly like untill you meet them. Plus being fairly open minded has led to some fabulous encounters.

I had my own prejudices before starting all this malarky. Not any more! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got to accept people have personal preferences - as racist as they may appear.

There is certainly a bias against Asian men - but always remember that there are plenty out there that are strong enough to overcome the bias, or decent enough to have never become a victim to the bias.

These are the kind of people you ultimately want to be fucking, no?

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"So I being in this fuckin site for nearly a year now and it’s always the the same thing

1- I see a female or a couple looking to meet

2- I send a nice friendly message to them saying I am interested in meet with a nice pic of me

3- I get a reply saying are you Asian ?

4- then they tell me they are not interested

Why don’t you just say it’s for white people only "

If you know this is a problem, why not mention your ethnicity on your profile?

Plenty of profiles describe the persons ethnicity, size, shape, height, hair colour ...

It would be a no from me - but that’s because of the lack of effort in your profile & the dick pic avatar!

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

We guess the op decided that making an effort with his profile to make himself was too much like hard work

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Well he certainly had the hump didn't he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol typical whiney post tbh

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Lol typical whiney post tbh

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Pulling the race card aswell... tut tut

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"Gotta speak up for OP folks. I see 'no asians' again and again on profiles. If I were asian, I would be 'whinging' too- and probably pretty offended.

I know folks have personal preferences but one thing this swingy thing life has taught me is that you never know what someone is truly like untill you meet them. Plus being fairly open minded has led to some fabulous encounters.

I had my own prejudices before starting all this malarky. Not any more! xx"

Well explained, articulate and intelligent response. The others are just imbeciles who believe they have an appropriate response.....if you don't live it you cannot accurately comment on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gotta speak up for OP folks. I see 'no asians' again and again on profiles. If I were asian, I would be 'whinging' too- and probably pretty offended.

I know folks have personal preferences but one thing this swingy thing life has taught me is that you never know what someone is truly like untill you meet them. Plus being fairly open minded has led to some fabulous encounters.

I had my own prejudices before starting all this malarky. Not any more! xx"

I think the point is that the OP was whingeing that it wasn't on the profiles. Not that he saw it written up.

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By *J StathamMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I prefer when people put their ethnic preferences

If they say they are only interested in white men then it saves me time in sending a message and them having to read it

If they are looking for black men then I'm more likely to send them a message

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