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Am i misguided?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would discribe us as an average couple, i no we are not 10/10 but i would say we are a solid 6-7. Maybe im wrong and i rate us too highly. Or is it just our profile that lets us down. Can some help us out

A+E x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Misguided in what way and how do you need help?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am i misguided on how attactive we are. Is it just our profile letting us down on getting a conversation going with people or are we less attactive then we think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think your profile is very good and very honest, it's not broken so don't try to fix it x

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Very sexy couple.

Trying to meet genuine Couples on here is getting harder and harder.

We think we are attractive but ordinary with a very naughty side but so hard to interact with other couples.

Good luck

Enn & Ess xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking great to me.

Perhaps on the face picture get your hubby to smile a bit

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Profile looks fine, try getting yourselves to socials and clubs xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been to a few clubs just need to find time to get to 1 again

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Been to a few clubs just need to find time to get to 1 again"

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

When looking for couples, if there's not pictures of both, I move on.

Maybe as the description of the Mr isn't as positive as the Mrs and the lack of pictures puts people off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't see anything wrong in your profile. And you certainly haven't overrated yourselves in the looks department, cute couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks every1. The mr doesnt like having his picture taken hence lack of his pics no smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I don't see anything wrong in your profile. And you certainly haven't overrated yourselves in the looks department, cute couple "

Seconded.

Don’t take the site too seriously, and don’t have any expectations of it, as that’s when you can get demoralised on here.

We’d also voice what others have said, get yourselves to socials and clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh you should,nt care what people on here think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agree clubs are the way forward but just looking on here when we havent got time to go to clubs. Im not fussed what people think per say but i was shocked at the lack or replies we get and the lack of incoming messages.

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I would discribe us as an average couple, i no we are not 10/10 but i would say we are a solid 6-7. Maybe im wrong and i rate us too highly. Or is it just our profile that lets us down. Can some help us out

A+E x"

I like your profile, nice pics, maybe add more? Gorgeous bum emma

V x

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Agree clubs are the way forward but just looking on here when we havent got time to go to clubs. Im not fussed what people think per say but i was shocked at the lack or replies we get and the lack of incoming messages. "

You're looking for young women. They are the rarest demographic on fabs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are looking for couples too but even they seem few and far between

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I think Mr looks like Mr Bean (sorry). Maybe ditch the tie and unfasten some buttons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pmsl thats funny. The tie was because we was at a wedding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Added a more relaxed photo

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Pmsl thats funny. The tie was because we was at a wedding"

Mr looking too serious. Mrs looks fine and smiley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Added a more relaxed photo "

A million times better with that new photo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Noted will keep that in mind when i force him to take more pics

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Added a more relaxed photo

A million times better with that new photo"

Agreed. Lovely couple.x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I like people who are confident in how they look, that in itself is attractive and a refreshing change. You're not misguided

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

There is so much more to people than their dress size or the size of their cock.

I need a deeper connection to be truly attracted to someone, and that only come with knowing someone.

Keep your profile light and honest, no single person will be attractive to the whole of fab.

I too struggle, I know I’m a good person, I think reasonably good looking with a good sense of humour and moral compass, but hey ho, if they don’t like me, then their loss i would say.

It will happen for you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks i hope so

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By *iratedave2Man
over a year ago

dartford

Your Profile doesn't list that your looking for couples, only for women, not a criticism, just trying to help!

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Thanks i hope so"

All in the eye of the beholder

Sadly though all ‘beholders’ aren’t that honest these days x

Good luck xx

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By *iratedave2Man
over a year ago

dartford

If couples try and message you, they get the warning message that "you're not looking for couples!" Change the bit on your profile where it lists what you are looking for, might help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers done

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

hi! I don't meet, and not couples but your other half looks proper moody and would put me off meeting. you, on the other hand from a very straight woman, look lovely. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks ill get him to smile in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op it's not dial a play on here you aren't going to get any success sitting on your arses get out......

Oops your a couple sorry for a sec I thought you were one of those whinging single guys

*lowers tone

As suggested Perhaps try a club and post a poss meet etc

Or get yourselves to a local social

And yes a smile goes a long way

Godspeed j x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah we need to get out more. Defo want go to a club soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would discribe us as an average couple, i no we are not 10/10 but i would say we are a solid 6-7. Maybe im wrong and i rate us too highly. Or is it just our profile that lets us down. Can some help us out

A+E x"

No, it's just really hard to get meets on here these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would discribe us as an average couple, i no we are not 10/10 but i would say we are a solid 6-7. Maybe im wrong and i rate us too highly. Or is it just our profile that lets us down. Can some help us out

A+E x"
you'll be a 6/7 to some a 3/4 to others and a 9 to a few ,you can't quantify attraction

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get that. Meets are hard to come by it seems hope it changes

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