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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

So after circling it for a long time, we're taking our first tentative steps into making things happen with a social meet early next month.

We're not sure what to expect, really. Obviously it'll be drinks and chat, but what's the vibe generally like at socials? Is it flirty, or more like a gathering of people sharing an interest? Bit of both? Will Mrs A get hit on all evening? Are there etiquettes we should be aware of? So many questions!

And any advice for making the most of a social beyond just...well...being social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it a one to one social or a organised social?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If its an organised social held in a public place it's not much different to a night in a pub really. There will be flirting but guys hitting on a woman with a partner is unusual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter really. No one is forced to do anything, so just enjoy it! X

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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


"is it a one to one social or a organised social? "

An organised one.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Don't rush into things lol

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"is it a one to one social or a organised social?

An organised one."

Then it’s just a night in a pub with a load of other people who have the same interest as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An organised social is just like an evening at a pub with a group of people with shared interests and a bit of flirting.

From my experiance single guys will predominantly not approach a couple and not be pests; it is a much more relaxed vibe and a great way to meet people.

If you can find out who is going and make contact with a few before hand then you will have people to chat to straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to our first recently and really enjoyed it if you naturally confident socially you will definitely enjoy it things got very touchy feely in the women's toilets but only if you wanted it too nobody was pouncing on you

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By *aturelady69Woman
over a year ago

no mans land ...

in the womens toilets ? really , was it just women then or was it men too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just woman and tv/ts

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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

Just a follow-up to say we attended the social and it was brilliant. Such a pleasant way to take our first real step into the the lifestyle. Met a lot of lovely people and Mrs A got lots of attention, but none of it pushy or horrible (and some of it quite welcome!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbie here - Have gone to a club but was not much fun not knowing anybody. Done another 1-1 which was ok. What are organised socials? How can we find one?

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray


"Just a follow-up to say we attended the social and it was brilliant. Such a pleasant way to take our first real step into the the lifestyle. Met a lot of lovely people and Mrs A got lots of attention, but none of it pushy or horrible (and some of it quite welcome!)"

You looked like you were enjoying yourselves and i for one liked chatting to you two

Rabbit x x

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Just a follow-up to say we attended the social and it was brilliant. Such a pleasant way to take our first real step into the the lifestyle. Met a lot of lovely people and Mrs A got lots of attention, but none of it pushy or horrible (and some of it quite welcome!)"

Some of it?

Joking aside, it was great to meet you both. So glad you had a great evening. I know the first group social can be a bit daunting.

Ducks to water I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for posting this.

We are in the same position and a social is probably the way to go rather than just turning up at a club.

Hopefully we will have he same experience.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Thanks for posting this.

We are in the same position and a social is probably the way to go rather than just turning up at a club.

Hopefully we will have he same experience. "

Keep an eye out for the Manchester Lounge Social, the next one is probably a couple of months away.

If you fancy a road trip there's the Lick and Bicker social in Leicester.

Both highly recommended.

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray


"Thanks for posting this.

We are in the same position and a social is probably the way to go rather than just turning up at a club.

Hopefully we will have he same experience.

Keep an eye out for the Manchester Lounge Social, the next one is probably a couple of months away.

If you fancy a road trip there's the Lick and Bicker social in Leicester.

Both highly recommended. "

Errrumm ... there are also more local socials with less travelling !!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We really enjoy a good group social where people are keen to chat to everyone, not just the people they want to have sex with. We've been to some great inclusive ones.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Thanks for posting this.

We are in the same position and a social is probably the way to go rather than just turning up at a club.

Hopefully we will have he same experience.

Keep an eye out for the Manchester Lounge Social, the next one is probably a couple of months away.

If you fancy a road trip there's the Lick and Bicker social in Leicester.

Both highly recommended.

Errrumm ... there are also more local socials with less travelling !!

"

Very true. There's cracking socials in Heathrow. Bit far from Manchester though......

Is there a date for the next Heathrow social?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

There are some stunning (alliteration) socials in Yorkshire.

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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


"We really enjoy a good group social where people are keen to chat to everyone, not just the people they want to have sex with. We've been to some great inclusive ones."

Yeah, that's what was so nice. And as newbies it was invaluable to get other people's advice in a totally unpressured setting.

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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for posting this.

We are in the same position and a social is probably the way to go rather than just turning up at a club.

Hopefully we will have he same experience. "

Can't recommend it highly enough. Just a great night out at the pub, and really liberating to just be able to have frank and honest chat with people about all this. We were terrified before arriving, and we're made to feel totally at ease immediately.

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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


"Newbie here - Have gone to a club but was not much fun not knowing anybody. Done another 1-1 which was ok. What are organised socials? How can we find one? "

Just a night at the pub, basically, but with a bunch of like-minded people. Much less intimidating than we thought it would be.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We really enjoy a good group social where people are keen to chat to everyone, not just the people they want to have sex with. We've been to some great inclusive ones.

Yeah, that's what was so nice. And as newbies it was invaluable to get other people's advice in a totally unpressured setting."

I think that's what's so nice. It such a relief to joke about giving another guy a blow job without your friends looking at you as if you've taken leave of what little sense you have.

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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


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You looked like you were enjoying yourselves and i for one liked chatting to you two

Rabbit x x "

Great to meet you too! Heathrow too far for us, but if you do another Kings Cross social sometime, we'll be there!

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By *team7279 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


" Joking aside, it was great to meet you both. So glad you had a great evening. I know the first group social can be a bit daunting.

Ducks to water I'd say. "

Cheers! Hopefully we can chat more next time! I need to get some shirt tips.

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By *ania2000Couple
over a year ago

liverpool


"is it a one to one social or a organised social?

An organised one."
ooo where ?? Might just come if theres invites..Tx

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


" Joking aside, it was great to meet you both. So glad you had a great evening. I know the first group social can be a bit daunting.

Ducks to water I'd say.

Cheers! Hopefully we can chat more next time! I need to get some shirt tips. "

I'm not sure the world is ready for two people wearing shirts like mine.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


" Joking aside, it was great to meet you both. So glad you had a great evening. I know the first group social can be a bit daunting.

Ducks to water I'd say.

Cheers! Hopefully we can chat more next time! I need to get some shirt tips.

I'm not sure the world is ready for two people wearing shirts like mine. "

The world needs more brightness

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


" Joking aside, it was great to meet you both. So glad you had a great evening. I know the first group social can be a bit daunting.

Ducks to water I'd say.

Cheers! Hopefully we can chat more next time! I need to get some shirt tips.

I'm not sure the world is ready for two people wearing shirts like mine.

The world needs more brightness "

I tend to agree....

I work in the city. Varying shades of black and dark blue everywhere.

A splash of colour stands out like a beacon.

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