FabSwingers.com forum: advice please!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right! i'm looking for advice on how to build my profile because i'v been on here a few weeks now and cannot get a reply for the life of me, maybe.. im just an ugly bastard and i dont know it

but yeah i dunno how i'm supposed to meet anyone or get verified or anything if i can't even get a reply.

perhaps my relatively polite introductions aren't the way forward? i really dont get it.

Any advice appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The can not accommodate will be a big Red Flag!

M & J

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Well your not ugly just keep trying and good luck x

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Nothing wrong with your Profile or Pics.

It’s just the fact that you are in competition with about 75 Million Gazzillion other Single Guys. Sad but true. Good Luck x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"no limits" is a red flag. You do, or I want to swerve.

Write more about what you have to offer.

But yes, it's a tough gig for guys here.

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Just patience and time.

Not been on here long. Can take some time for a meet.

People do not jump into bed straight away (well not always).

Just personalize messages you send and be polite and respectful and sure will happen.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Just give it some time, it can be a long haul getting communication going.

I’d also swerve due to “no limits”.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for the advice! taken on board! keep it coming i will keep my eyes on this post! thanks again.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Nice smile

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Lovely pics and nice to see you've taken some advice about your profile text. Makes a refreshing change. Good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get on bumble, tinder and pof. You'll do a lot better than on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give up.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Give up."
why should he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you all for the advice! taken on board! keep it coming i will keep my eyes on this post! thanks again."

Try going to clubs and social events to chat to people, get to know others, get your face known and get some verifications that way

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Give up.why should he?"

Less competition?

Anyway OP.

Not a bad profile and not a cock pic in sight

As others have said... you need to be patient.

The forums are a good way to get known and I reckon you would do well in clubs.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks good to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish you lived closer! X

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By *elsh_naturist_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newport

You'd get a reply from me no problem! Shame you're not closer!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

If you are you want a VA life get yourself to a club..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get on bumble, tinder and pof. You'll do a lot better than on here "

See above. 100% agree. Fab is for couples and anybody who caters to them. There are single ladies but to be honest you have no chance. This is not a reflection of you, just the sheer odds. 1 woman to every 15 men, plus they might not be to your liking. Bit of a good looking bastard like you will do well on dating sites. The ladies are just a filthy as on here.

Club might be different - I've never been. Most advise a club.

Good luck brother

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Hi Mr Northants. There is nothing wrong with your profile, just keep looking for people who are looking for a guy like you.

TOP TIP:The link below is for a social, put your name down. It will be a good opportunity meet a few people.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/846527

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lovely pics and nice to see you've taken some advice about your profile text. Makes a refreshing change. Good luck. X"

Always a nice word from Woody.. Great advice..

Get yourself to a local organised social event.. It did wonders for me .. Be polite and respectful and never rude .. It will get you far .. I've only been on 10 months and have 90 varifications. Have a look at the guys who are doing well on here and learn from their profiles . Be a little creative with your pics and I'm sure you will be fine on here .. Happy Fabbing matey

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It all sounds like 'I' 'I' 'I' to me, where is the what you can offer?

Come on! Sex is a two way street, sounds selfish to me if I am being honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lovely pics and nice to see you've taken some advice about your profile text. Makes a refreshing change. Good luck. X"

Always a nice word from Woody.. Great advice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right! i'm looking for advice on how to build my profile because i'v been on here a few weeks now and cannot get a reply for the life of me, maybe.. im just an ugly bastard and i dont know it

but yeah i dunno how i'm supposed to meet anyone or get verified or anything if i can't even get a reply.

perhaps my relatively polite introductions aren't the way forward? i really dont get it.

Any advice appreciated."

Correct op

Your an ugly bar steward

Only kidding

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Nothing wrong with your Profile or Pics.

It’s just the fact that you are in competition with about 75 Million Gazzillion other Single Guys. Sad but true. Good Luck x"

that

Best you leave and try match. Reduces the competition

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

This really isn't the place to find sexual encounters. Makes it all the more amazing if it ever transpires.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Well I think you are physically attractive and you have as much chance as all the other single guys, but yes, get to a social or club and good luck

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By *tarmanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Same here mate. I send polite, friendly messages, with pics and seldom ever receive a reply. I don't accommodate as I live in shared accommodation since my divorce. Shared house with both sexes live here, none are to the best of my knowledge into swinging and I don't wish to cause grief! No more of a red flag than that.I just want to meet someone for casual, enjoyable fun. Not a big ask! I'm clean, have my own hair and teeth, know how to behave, hold a knife and fork. Bit disheartening isnt it? Keep on keeping on mate.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

There are many single guy profiles,with great text and pics, who are very 'successful' on here. So couples and ladies have lots of choice. Those guys with bland, non informative profiles and no pics or not very good pics, will always struggle

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