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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near yonder

So, shoot me down if this is the wrong place to ask (or at least direct me to the right place). I think I’d like one- experiences; good and bad please and how you organised?

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By *hil_SW19Man
over a year ago

Raynes Park

I've been to a number of Gbs.

You need to have the patience of a saint as lots of fantasists will say yes then new come.

Find a good venue.. hotels can be ackward. Though possible

Set your own rules on the play. Don't be pressurised.

Limit numbers too

DM me if you want

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"So, shoot me down if this is the wrong place to ask (or at least direct me to the right place). I think I’d like one- experiences; good and bad please and how you organised?"

In forums there’s a meets requests and parties, could be uour best place to start, this where to tell us about it afterwards

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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near yonder

I’d like to start small 3 maybe 4 men?

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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near yonder


"So, shoot me down if this is the wrong place to ask (or at least direct me to the right place). I think I’d like one- experiences; good and bad please and how you organised?

In forums there’s a meets requests and parties, could be uour best place to start, this where to tell us about it afterwards "

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By *dtittyCouple
over a year ago

Durham

This is on my fantasy to do list, alot of clubs seems to have greedy girl nights which is the way I'm going to go, once mr agrees that is

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By *arksouthMan
over a year ago

south

I've never been to a GB. But I'm nearby and would love an invite if you do arrange one!

Mark X

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

I had a guy contact me once. Was putting on a coach to pick people up. No excuses. Shows dedication to his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to remember, half the guys will not show then half of who dies show will get stage fright. Invite plenty lol

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Suggest fluffers. Someone last week told me what they were.

A new word for an activity i wasnt aware of.

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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near yonder


"This is on my fantasy to do list, alot of clubs seems to have greedy girl nights which is the way I'm going to go, once mr agrees that is "

There’s no reason he shouldn’t - imagine him watching you get fucked by other men- what’s not to like?

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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near yonder


"I've never been to a GB. But I'm nearby and would love an invite if you do arrange one!

Mark X "

Oooh and your bi too... possible extra curricular for dr m

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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near yonder


"I had a guy contact me once. Was putting on a coach to pick people up. No excuses. Shows dedication to his wife"

“Please alight here for gabgbang and shopping at Marble Arch....”

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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near yonder


"Suggest fluffers. Someone last week told me what they were.

A new word for an activity i wasnt aware of."

Teeheee

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’d like to start small 3 maybe 4 men?

"

Just go to a club. You will easily find 3 or 4 willing men.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’d like to start small 3 maybe 4 men?

Just go to a club. You will easily find 3 or 4 willing men. "

Yes a club is the answer.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start off in a club...

Get confidence

Plus you get safety n security in a club. Might not get hour pick of studs.. but would defo get experience. Easier to say no or walk away in a club than a meet.

If going it alone.. get some one who will watch your back.

Hope it works

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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near yonder


"Start off in a club...

Get confidence

Plus you get safety n security in a club. Might not get hour pick of studs.. but would defo get experience. Easier to say no or walk away in a club than a meet.

If going it alone.. get some one who will watch your back.

Hope it works"

Thank you x

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

A club seems a good bet. You can advertise in Meets before hand & even if they don’t turn up you could have a lot of fun with any of us who might be there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d like to start small 3 maybe 4 men?

"

I think it's a wonderful idea for you to try. As long as the bulls are deserving of it. Some ladies on here must be good for advice. I wish you well. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The venue is the hard part or organise a group of guys to be at a club ?

We would love to join you

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I would definitely recommend having it at a club, maybe on a greedy girls night.

Many times you hear of people renting somewhere and asking loads of guys and hardly any showing up, at a club at least you know you could choose from whoever was interested, plus you have the venue sorted and the security and vetting system of the club.

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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near yonder


"The venue is the hard part or organise a group of guys to be at a club ?

We would love to join you "

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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near yonder


"I would definitely recommend having it at a club, maybe on a greedy girls night.

Many times you hear of people renting somewhere and asking loads of guys and hardly any showing up, at a club at least you know you could choose from whoever was interested, plus you have the venue sorted and the security and vetting system of the club. "

Thank you. The whole club thing seems scarier to me than a meet?!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Not sure why a club would scare you rather than meeting 4 guy's in a hotel room....

You would get your fantasy in a club within a hour be home for 1pm safe and sound..

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I've been fortunate to host /arrange a number of successful gangbangs. Hard work and lots of effort in ing out the wannabes, the dreamers and the time wasters, but oh so worth it

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

we have had many gang bangs over a lot of years ,op.pm if you would like any advise

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By *insbury Park FabberMan
over a year ago

London

I've organised and hosted several, and attended others in hotels, hired flats and clubs. They can vary a lot depending on where is and what kind of experience you're after, including how many guys. They can be hard work to organise but also certainly a lot of fun...if I can help with any other thoughts or anything do drop me a line.

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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near yonder

Thanks for your replies!!

Eeeep!

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Go to a club on a non gb night (Angels is a good bet) and you will find they are a lot less scary than you think! Then once you’ve sussed it out, arrange a meet. It is all under your control

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By *ndtheswingersMan
over a year ago

colchester

At the first gb I attended, there were 4 blokes and one lucky girl.

The couple had invited 6, 3 didn't show, 3 did plus hubby and wife.

The hotel was laid out that you could get to bedrooms without going into Reception.

Point is, expect half your 'guests' to be flaky and choose your venue carefully

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By *otSoNew159Woman
over a year ago

Welham Green

Mmmm I have been thinking about this too! Hard to do alone as you need to be with someone who you trust but hopefully soon! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been to a GB. But I'm nearby and would love an invite if you do arrange one!

Mark X

Oooh and your bi too... possible extra curricular for dr m "

I need to find a way to get down to Southampton...

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By *irebrand 1263Man
over a year ago

near you


"I've never been to a GB. But I'm nearby and would love an invite if you do arrange one!

Mark X

Oooh and your bi too... possible extra curricular for dr m

I need to find a way to get down to Southampton..."

Pick me up on the way

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By *ingfisher83Man
over a year ago

Soton | Fareham | Portsmouth | Chichester


"Thanks for your replies!!

Eeeep! "

Some good advice on this thread! I have also sent you PM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been to a GB. But I'm nearby and would love an invite if you do arrange one!

Mark X

Oooh and your bi too... possible extra curricular for dr m

I need to find a way to get down to Southampton...

Pick me up on the way "

With pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a filthy fantasy, would love to make it a reality myself, good luck!

I need to move to Brighton, I want all the scenarios!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I personally don't want a gangbang but I would be very happy to supervise one if a lady wanted one any of the clubs I'm attending.

I would watch over her, make sure any boundaries are respected and that everybody is wearing a condom.

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham


"Suggest fluffers. Someone last week told me what they were.

A new word for an activity i wasnt aware of.

Teeheee"

Fluffers were a staple of the porn business until the arrival of Viagra.

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By *orkizCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We used to attend a gangbang it was organised by a guy we know a good selection of guys plus we didn't have the hassle of sorting it out

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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near yonder

Thanks everyone!

I might have to put some of this into real life!

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By *edheadjMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Once you get the confidence to run one, it's best to over subscribe. You will get no shows and drop outs, so invite more than you intend to play with.

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By *ubbermaidbabyCouple
over a year ago

clwyd

Having done several gang bangs ranging from 6 to 27 at Raw parties I’d say the club is certainly the way forward, there’s a awful lot of men who when it actually comes down to it find it’s not for them which can be frustrating. The Raw parties gang bangs supply a chaperone if you want and make sure the participants stick to your rules, it’s good to know it the throws of it all they are keeping a eye on proceedings.

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By *ewdimension04Couple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

This is something we are interested in and would certainly appreciate any advice or contacts to help arrange. Would be happy to host at a hotel or a club x

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By *ewdimension04Couple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire


"Having done several gang bangs ranging from 6 to 27 at Raw parties I’d say the club is certainly the way forward, there’s a awful lot of men who when it actually comes down to it find it’s not for them which can be frustrating. The Raw parties gang bangs supply a chaperone if you want and make sure the participants stick to your rules, it’s good to know it the throws of it all they are keeping a eye on proceedings. "

This sounds exactly what we are looking for, how do you find out more info? X

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By *i winkersCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Having done several gang bangs ranging from 6 to 27 at Raw parties I’d say the club is certainly the way forward, there’s a awful lot of men who when it actually comes down to it find it’s not for them which can be frustrating.

The Raw parties gang bangs supply a chaperone if you want and make sure the participants stick to your rules, it’s good to know it the throws of it all they are keeping a eye on proceedings. "

The raw parties at townhouse are actually ending the host's and the club are parting ways.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"I’d like to start small 3 maybe 4 men?

"

That's not a gang bang, that what normally happens at a club or party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a first time we recommend a club a Friday nights at Abfabs is a favourite as plenty of guys to choose from and a lockable room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kept my first gb really simple and that's how I do it now.

I found a male friend happy to host at his house, put out a meet request 3 hours before I was due to meet, not really giving enough time for people to say they will come and cancel. All 6 guys who said they would turned up on time. No messing about. Lots of fun. 3 I knew from meeting them before and others I didn't know at the time.

I set up a group chat on Kik so I could say my boundaries, rulew and also so they could see it was real and going ahead and another reason so I didn't have to keep repeating all the details and sending out texts. It was also helpful because when I was getting ready and busy they could help eachother with directions and things and I was undisturbed.

It all worked out 100% as I wanted it to

Hope you find your way of doing things that works best for you!

Have fun

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By *i winkersCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Having done several gang bangs ranging from 6 to 27 at Raw parties I’d say the club is certainly the way forward, there’s a awful lot of men who when it actually comes down to it find it’s not for them which can be frustrating.

The Raw parties gang bangs supply a chaperone if you want and make sure the participants stick to your rules, it’s good to know it the throws of it all they are keeping a eye on proceedings.

The raw parties at townhouse are actually ending the host's and the club are parting ways. "

Sorry mis information its the rawnch nights which are stopping. We have seen some good fantasies on a raw night x

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Having done several gang bangs ranging from 6 to 27 at Raw parties I’d say the club is certainly the way forward, there’s a awful lot of men who when it actually comes down to it find it’s not for them which can be frustrating.

The Raw parties gang bangs supply a chaperone if you want and make sure the participants stick to your rules, it’s good to know it the throws of it all they are keeping a eye on proceedings.

The raw parties at townhouse are actually ending the host's and the club are parting ways.

Sorry mis information its the rawnch nights which are stopping. We have seen some good fantasies on a raw night x "

They host both RAW & Rawnch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a gang bang

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By *ubbermaidbabyCouple
over a year ago

clwyd


"Having done several gang bangs ranging from 6 to 27 at Raw parties I’d say the club is certainly the way forward, there’s a awful lot of men who when it actually comes down to it find it’s not for them which can be frustrating. The Raw parties gang bangs supply a chaperone if you want and make sure the participants stick to your rules, it’s good to know it the throws of it all they are keeping a eye on proceedings.

This sounds exactly what we are looking for, how do you find out more info? X"

JesterLilac profile on fab are the hosts, townhouse twosome profile are the wonderful owners profile. Next RAW parties is listed in the forum, take a peek and message J&L about fantasy.

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By *ewdimension04Couple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire


"Having done several gang bangs ranging from 6 to 27 at Raw parties I’d say the club is certainly the way forward, there’s a awful lot of men who when it actually comes down to it find it’s not for them which can be frustrating. The Raw parties gang bangs supply a chaperone if you want and make sure the participants stick to your rules, it’s good to know it the throws of it all they are keeping a eye on proceedings.

Thank you x

This sounds exactly what we are looking for, how do you find out more info? X

JesterLilac profile on fab are the hosts, townhouse twosome profile are the wonderful owners profile. Next RAW parties is listed in the forum, take a peek and message J&L about fantasy. "

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By *ewdimension04Couple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire


"Having done several gang bangs ranging from 6 to 27 at Raw parties I’d say the club is certainly the way forward, there’s a awful lot of men who when it actually comes down to it find it’s not for them which can be frustrating. The Raw parties gang bangs supply a chaperone if you want and make sure the participants stick to your rules, it’s good to know it the throws of it all they are keeping a eye on proceedings.

Thank you x

This sounds exactly what we are looking for, how do you find out more info? X

JesterLilac profile on fab are the hosts, townhouse twosome profile are the wonderful owners profile. Next RAW parties is listed in the forum, take a peek and message J&L about fantasy. "

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By *evinnorfolkMan
over a year ago

attleborough

There are lots of clubss that have greedy girls nights. These are generally safe comfortable environments where you are not under any pressure to do things you are not happy about. You can go and watch, take a single man or several if you are that way inclined. You will also find that some greedy girls are looking for other greedy girls.

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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near yonder

Thanks all, been off the site for a while. All great info

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

It’s something you must try Jess enjoyed hers

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I kept my first gb really simple and that's how I do it now.

I found a male friend happy to host at his house, put out a meet request 3 hours before I was due to meet, not really giving enough time for people to say they will come and cancel. All 6 guys who said they would turned up on time. No messing about. Lots of fun. 3 I knew from meeting them before and others I didn't know at the time.

I set up a group chat on Kik so I could say my boundaries, rulew and also so they could see it was real and going ahead and another reason so I didn't have to keep repeating all the details and sending out texts. It was also helpful because when I was getting ready and busy they could help eachother with directions and things and I was undisturbed.

It all worked out 100% as I wanted it to

Hope you find your way of doing things that works best for you!

Have fun "

Well lucythickthighs. It's all about the reliability of the men. You had some you knew which is good. GBs I've been to it's mostly a group that know one another. But all new boys come on a recommendation, and that works. Wish I was nearer having seen your profile.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

If fit black guys are your thing then the profile Shadow Kings would be worth checking out. If we wanted a gang bang then that would be our first port of call.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Do what we do, go to a singles night in a club. That way she can have as many men as she wants, stop when she wants, start again later in the evening, etc. If you invite a load of men to your house they'll obviously all want to participate and if you've had enough before they've all fucked, it might be awkward.

Plus, a club is a safe and comfortable environment with a large amount of different men. She likes to start off in the sex-swing and move to a bed surface after a few cocks for a change of position. You'll probably not have a swing at home.

Good luck, enjoy. Beware, GBs are addictive!

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"I’d like to start small 3 maybe 4 men?

"
YOu can often find those sorts of numbers at a club - much less stress and hassle than tryign to organize your own event.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"So, shoot me down if this is the wrong place to ask (or at least direct me to the right place). I think I’d like one- experiences; good and bad please and how you organised?"

As Mr Icebreaker says 3 or 4 men is much easier to organise in a club (and without being a pedant isn't really a gang bang) A friend who has organised a few days the biggest issues is no shows.

Ms Icebreaker

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"So, shoot me down if this is the wrong place to ask (or at least direct me to the right place). I think I’d like one- experiences; good and bad please and how you organised?

As Mr Icebreaker says 3 or 4 men is much easier to organise in a club (and without being a pedant isn't really a gang bang) A friend who has organised a few days the biggest issues is no shows.

Ms Icebreaker "

I'd agree with this. In a club there is always a crowd of willing guys, and its a safe environment. I've taken five guys (each multiple times) and absolutely loved it. Not sure whether it was a gangbang or just a moresome, but it's whet my appetite for more, and for more guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nice to have it in the comfort of your own home but it takes hours of organising and lots of patience as so many fantasists. The idiots can get you down sometimes...

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Its nice to have it in the comfort of your own home but it takes hours of organising and lots of patience as so many fantasists. The idiots can get you down sometimes..."
Maybe you live in the countryside but do you worry about the neighbours finding out? Or don't care?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its nice to have it in the comfort of your own home but it takes hours of organising and lots of patience as so many fantasists. The idiots can get you down sometimes...Maybe you live in the countryside but do you worry about the neighbours finding out? Or don't care? "

We live in a village. The neighbours may suspect but they have no way of knowing so it doesn't bother us.

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