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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi all

just had a 'hey' from a girl which was lovely but when i replied message was deleted and i am no doubt blocked - guys are always accused of being negative or lacking something in messages but how am i supposed to react to 'hey' ?? p.s i didnt send a cock pic lol - not even my own one

david x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Probably a bloke that messaged you.

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood


"Probably a bloke that messaged you."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably a bloke that messaged you.

Exactly "

i know i may be nieve but i find that very cynical regarding a bloke getting in touch i should add that the girls' profile was very explicit with pics that left you in no doubt that she was all woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's even more suspicious, the very explicit pictures. Did 'she' have any veris? Was photo verified?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"That's even more suspicious, the very explicit pictures. Did 'she' have any veris? Was photo verified? "

This.

There are no rules, unfortunately, just probabilities. Interesting messages are more likely to get replies, but not always.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Probably a bloke that messaged you.

Exactly

i know i may be nieve but i find that very cynical regarding a bloke getting in touch i should add that the girls' profile was very explicit with pics that left you in no doubt that she was all woman "

It happens regularly here. He was using you as wank fodder.

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there


"hi all

just had a 'hey' from a girl which was lovely but when i replied message was deleted and i am no doubt blocked - guys are always accused of being negative or lacking something in messages but how am i supposed to react to 'hey' ?? p.s i didnt send a cock pic lol - not even my own one

david x "

Do you usually send someone else's cock picture!? :

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"hi all

just had a 'hey' from a girl which was lovely but when i replied message was deleted and i am no doubt blocked - guys are always accused of being negative or lacking something in messages but how am i supposed to react to 'hey' ?? p.s i didnt send a cock pic lol - not even my own one

david x

Do you usually send someone else's cock picture!? :

"

Some people do...

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Jumping on your tread op hope you don't mind....

Do women actively look for males and couples or do you just see what pops up in your mail?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Jumping on your tread op hope you don't mind....

Do women actively look for males and couples or do you just see what pops up in your mail?"

It's generally poor form to do this.

But I think most women wait to be contacted. Can't speak for couples. I've tried searching for men in my area (get tired of awful messages) and there are too many, the search here can't handle those numbers.

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Jumping on your tread op hope you don't mind....

Do women actively look for males and couples or do you just see what pops up in your mail?"

Personaly we see who mailed us first when meeting. If no one matches then look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all

just had a 'hey' from a girl which was lovely but when i replied message was deleted and i am no doubt blocked - guys are always accused of being negative or lacking something in messages but how am i supposed to react to 'hey' ?? p.s i didnt send a cock pic lol - not even my own one

david x "

Personally, if she's got nothing more to say than that, then I'm not interested anyway. Move on to more interesting possibilities x

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Jumping on your tread op hope you don't mind....

Do women actively look for males and couples or do you just see what pops up in your mail?

It's generally poor form to do this.

But I think most women wait to be contacted. Can't speak for couples. I've tried searching for men in my area (get tired of awful messages) and there are too many, the search here can't handle those numbers. "

Sorry for the poor etiquette, I will start a new thread next time.

Just with it coinciding with the topic that's all because if women and couples generally don't contact first then there's something to think about isn't it.

Sorry op for jumping on your thread.

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