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Having no luck on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having no luck on here at all but I keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You make your own luck here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol well I’m shit at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having no luck on here at all but I keep trying "

Its probably the cock shots. Not that I've had any success on here either..

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Hide your cock pics and send to those people who ask to see them

Delete the last three paragraphs from your profile text, they’re unnecessary. Concise but precise is all you need, anyone interested will ask for details.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smile! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I could think of some advice to give you, but unfortunately I'm not having any luck myself either.

It's tough for guys

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

If you forum search profile advice, there are hundreds of threads.

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Success on fab !! what is the mystical thing that you speak of ?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP...it's not luck that will get you a shag here.

It's having the right attitude for swinging.

If you just want to get your dick wet, there are easier ways do it. Swinging is a whole different mindset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap

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By *antasticMrFucksMan
over a year ago

Taunton


"OP...it's not luck that will get you a shag here.

It's having the right attitude for swinging.

If you just want to get your dick wet, there are easier ways do it. Swinging is a whole different mindset."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The green arrow is quite telling in this case.

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"OP...it's not luck that will get you a shag here.

It's having the right attitude for swinging.

If you just want to get your dick wet, there are easier ways do it. Swinging is a whole different mindset."

this but sometimes being at the right place right time help.

You have a nice profile. You have specific interests and age range which is great,it is what you are looking for. But very very much narrows down people who would meet. Not many young single females will just want their picture/video taken with a random stranger.

Hope you find what you looking for. Perseverance is the key.

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"The green arrow is quite telling in this case."
i should really get into the habit of looking at this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a little down to luck in my opinion.

I feel lucky that I was online one evening when my long term partner was, on a Facebook app. But I made my own luck by changing my photo to a more provocative one, that caught his eye.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP it's not about luck at all, but your attitude, approach and expectations, combined with how your present yourself - get those right and this can be a great place to be, get them wrong and invariably it's frustrating.

You've not asked for profile advice, so I shan't give any, but that's often the first thing that needs adjusting when people state they're not having much "luck"

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"The green arrow is quite telling in this case. i should really get into the habit of looking at this "

The green arrow, often ignored but a wonderful insight when activated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random posts about being horny and wanting a shag is going to put off every girl on this site

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"The green arrow is quite telling in this case. i should really get into the habit of looking at this

The green arrow, often ignored but a wonderful insight when activated "

Got to love that little green arrow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The green arrow is quite telling in this case. i should really get into the habit of looking at this

The green arrow, often ignored but a wonderful insight when activated

Got to love that little green arrow! "

I forget that the green arrow is a thing!?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

People will look at a profile first. Effort in means rewards out. A negative attitude certainly won't help you.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ahhhh...green arrow of handiness!

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood


"People will look at a profile first. Effort in means rewards out. A negative attitude certainly won't help you. "

This

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Ahhhh...green arrow of handiness! "

And truthfulness...

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Green Arrow, sounds like a Marvel superhero !!

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

We aren't looking for single men, but if we were we wouldn't give you a second glance in fact we wouldn't even read your profile.

No offence but your profile pic is really shite and the other one you look afraid of getting caught or something.

I've no idea what people look for in a single guy but I imagine it will be someone who appears confident but friendly, good looking but not intimidating ?

I don't really pay much attention to other guys photos but when they appear in couples profiles the only ones that make me even pause are usually with clothes, maybe boxers and a classy pose maybe with a towel or something ... then again you probably don't care what I think and my mrs hates photos of men holding cocks.

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

It's bloody difficult for a guy on here to get a chat with anyone even if you put on your profile that you are straight or bi and i have been on here for a while now and I have never met anyone

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"It's bloody difficult for a guy on here to get a chat with anyone even if you put on your profile that you are straight or bi and i have been on here for a while now and I have never met anyone "

Your veri suggests otherwise (thumb

As for difficult, it's as difficult as you want to make it - find the right approach, attitude and expectations coupled with a decent profile and pics and, whilst it might not guarantee a thing, it removes any notion of "difficulty" from your head - get any one of those things wrong though and it can seem difficult.

Your experience of the site though, is entirely in your hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We aren't looking for single men, but if we were we wouldn't give you a second glance in fact we wouldn't even read your profile.

No offence but your profile pic is really shite and the other one you look afraid of getting caught or something.

I've no idea what people look for in a single guy but I imagine it will be someone who appears confident but friendly, good looking but not intimidating ?

I don't really pay much attention to other guys photos but when they appear in couples profiles the only ones that make me even pause are usually with clothes, maybe boxers and a classy pose maybe with a towel or something ... then again you probably don't care what I think and my mrs hates photos of men holding cocks."

Not everyone is photogenic, or likes having their photo taken, but I to understand where you're coming from. It's all about Marketing, so the OP should play to his strengths..

By the way, the only pics on your profile that might be you, are pics of cocks, so I'm not sure you're in a position to chastise the guy!?

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands


"We aren't looking for single men, but if we were we wouldn't give you a second glance in fact we wouldn't even read your profile.

No offence but your profile pic is really shite and the other one you look afraid of getting caught or something.

I've no idea what people look for in a single guy but I imagine it will be someone who appears confident but friendly, good looking but not intimidating ?

I don't really pay much attention to other guys photos but when they appear in couples profiles the only ones that make me even pause are usually with clothes, maybe boxers and a classy pose maybe with a towel or something ... then again you probably don't care what I think and my mrs hates photos of men holding cocks.

Not everyone is photogenic, or likes having their photo taken, but I to understand where you're coming from. It's all about Marketing, so the OP should play to his strengths..

By the way, the only pics on your profile that might be you, are pics of cocks, so I'm not sure you're in a position to chastise the guy!? "

Chastise ???

The gut asked for feedback and he got it !!!

if you read my profile we aren't looking to meet so I'm not marketing myself lol

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

*guy not gut lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be disheartened guys ... Keep at it. Get to a club or an organised social event ... You can soon get some varifications if you are prepared to put the work in. Good things come to he who waits . Good luck

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Your status doesn't help.

Women can be as picky as they like. There's few women to a few hundred men.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"OP...it's not luck that will get you a shag here.

It's having the right attitude for swinging.

If you just want to get your dick wet, there are easier ways do it. Swinging is a whole different mindset."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op take your time when messaging a well crafted message will get you more replies than do u wanna fuck followed by a cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile leaves very very little to be desired... and your verification history does certainly not do you any favours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry neither are we and its been years baha

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

To be honest... if I was looking for a single guy, I would read the status and get no further.

How on Earth do you expect to entice a lady to meet with a status like that?

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miserable looking bugger. Happy smiling face pic and either get a shave or grow a beard.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

What does that status even mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horny status is a big put off - just as others mentioned.

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By *ush fuckerMan
over a year ago

Wouldn’t You Like To Know

I always fuck my luck

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's bloody difficult for a guy on here to get a chat with anyone even if you put on your profile that you are straight or bi and i have been on here for a while now and I have never met anyone "

People look at profiles first. Start there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why men get blocked for being honest on site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it men get blocked for being honest?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Oh, yet another unlucky status.

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Why is it men get blocked for being honest? "

If they not interested it easier to block sometimes then do not show up in search results when looking.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Why is it men get blocked for being honest?

If they not interested it easier to block sometimes then do not show up in search results when looking."

Exactly this! Cut the wheat from the chaff, streamline your local searches down to only the profiles you’re interested in, and sound like you’ll be a match. Then craft an honest, and individual message to the one or two profiles which really grab your attention

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