FabSwingers.com forum: Blindfold surprise

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I really love the thought of blindfolding her and surprising her with another cock as I am the only one she has had. Keeping the blindfold on and then the guy leaves.

The thought of watching her get pleased is my biggest fantasy.

Has anyone done this before and how did it go?

I have mentioned it to her briefly but not exactly told her how much of a burning sensation it is.

Any advice?

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

Personally I think you need to talk about it properly before going ahead

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By *randMrsTeaseCouple
over a year ago

Durham

You need to properly discuss this with your partner before carrying it out. She needs to be full aware of what will be happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please get her consent before you attempt this.....

This could go very wrong if you attempt to accomplish this without her consent

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Very very wrong

As said just discuss it she may like the idea. We had a similar conversation about it and looking to try this for her.

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside

Agree with everything said above. Please check this is something she will enjoy as, at the end of it all, she's the one who will be sleeping with someone new and she has to be comfortable.

We suggest acting it out with a sex toy. To ease her comfort levels (but also to turn you on) get her to control the sex toy whilst she pleasures you as well.

Build it up by adding in another person's name if that works for you.

Keep talking about it and if it is something she's into then suggest that you are happy to bring someone round for real and then if she agrees to that then you can arrange a surprise date for someone to join you.

However, it might not be the safest way to have your first threesome. Take baby steps, not giant leaps of faith and potential misunderstanding xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Agree with everything said above. Please check this is something she will enjoy as, at the end of it all, she's the one who will be sleeping with someone new and she has to be comfortable.

We suggest acting it out with a sex toy. To ease her comfort levels (but also to turn you on) get her to control the sex toy whilst she pleasures you as well.

Build it up by adding in another person's name if that works for you.

However, it might not be the safest way to have your first threesome. Take baby steps, not giant leaps of faith and potential misunderstanding xx"

This is amazing advice. Thank you very much x

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

This was one of S fantasies so I said I'd arrange it for her. We had a few guys we made contact with so I set aboit arranging one of them to come one evenjng. She dressed up in something hot and I tied her to the bed with a blindfold on. The guy arrived so she heard him come up the stairs etc and everything carried on from there. She couldn't see anything so only had touch to go on as I released her arms and finally her legs. She wasn't allowed to see who it was until we finished with her. She got incredibly horny and loved every minute. The only thing we said we would have changed was to have had the guy leave again so she'd never know who it was. The only problem with that would have been unable to do him a verification for the meet.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

As a single bloke the only thing I'd add is to bear in mind that if you did this without a LOT of discussion between the two of you first, you potentially put your relationship at risk AND put the other guy in a position where technically he's unwittingly committed an offence. (Extreme end of it I know, but not something to be done lightly as it could change the entire dynamic of everything you have). Obviously everyone is here for the same reason, but absolute consent has to be in place. Good luck - could be amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this idea

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I love this idea"

Wow! That's quite a turn-on just to hear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see blue flashing lights and handcuffs coming here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I really love the thought of blindfolding her and surprising her with another cock as I am the only one she has had. Keeping the blindfold on and then the guy leaves.

The thought of watching her get pleased is my biggest fantasy.

Has anyone done this before and how did it go?

I have mentioned it to her briefly but not exactly told her how much of a burning sensation it is.

Any advice?"

Yes. Tell her not us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The post was for advice on how to explain to her about the fantasy not carry it out with out her consent

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading

We like the thought of this but in reality it may stay a fantasy.

I've realised I'm fussier then M... and don't want to regret who I fucked!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The post was for advice on how to explain to her about the fantasy not carry it out with out her consent"

The problem with that is we don't know her. You're asking this from a couple's profile so can only assume she doesn't access it and will draw certain conclusions from that, rightly or wrongly.

All I can say is sit down with her, tell her how this fantasy excites you and ask her how she feels about it. I genuinely don't know any other way to go about telling a partner about a fantasy other than actually saying it out loud or writing it down for her to read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The post was for advice on how to explain to her about the fantasy not carry it out with out her consent

The problem with that is we don't know her. You're asking this from a couple's profile so can only assume she doesn't access it and will draw certain conclusions from that, rightly or wrongly.

We have spoken about it briefly but I didn't explain how much of a fantasy it is to me. I just need to man up and tell her.

I will keep you updated on my progress

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The post was for advice on how to explain to her about the fantasy not carry it out with out her consent

The problem with that is we don't know her. You're asking this from a couple's profile so can only assume she doesn't access it and will draw certain conclusions from that, rightly or wrongly.

We have spoken about it briefly but I didn't explain how much of a fantasy it is to me. I just need to man up and tell her.

I will keep you updated on my progress "

There's no need, I think some things are private in a relationship

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

Discuss it in detail with each other first, even let her pic the guy if it makes her feel more comfortable, if she agrees the great, I'd also video it and let her watch it afterwards

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