FabSwingers.com forum: Is it me..?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it me, but I thought by joining Fab Swingers, it would be reasonably straight forward and easy to find a woman who ideally would enjoy the potential possibility of being in a relationship with a polite, loving and caring guy, who adored her whilst having the freedom to be pleasured and fulfilled sexually, by other men, knowing that they’ll always be going home together!

Although I maybe more George Roper than George Cloony ( google it young uns!) I ain’t that bad!

Searching for a Stag and vixen/hotwife is definitely the holy grail of relationships!

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there

Sex is the nectar of life, and this is one buzzing hive, so many drones yet so few willing queens, no matter how good are your genes!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Aye its probably near on everyone’s ultimate but real life attraction/distance etc etc a to be taken into consideration too.

It’s like putting numbers on the lotto really

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Im not here for a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me, but I thought by joining Fab Swingers, it would be reasonably straight forward and easy to find a woman who ideally would enjoy the potential possibility of being in a relationship with a polite, loving and caring guy, who adored her whilst having the freedom to be pleasured and fulfilled sexually, by other men, knowing that they’ll always be going home together!

Although I maybe more George Roper than George Cloony ( google it young uns!) I ain’t that bad!

Searching for a Stag and vixen/hotwife is definitely the holy grail of relationships!

Why did you think it would be straightforward and easy to find a relationship here?

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

There are plenty of people here looking for different types of relationships. I think the key is being happy in the here and now and maybe you’ll bump into what you’re looking for whem you least expect it.

V x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I am looking for something like you describe op, the thing is that I have very little trust or faith in cyberspace.

To me anything will originate from me chatting to somebody by chance somewhere in person.

So this site to me is not necessarily a vehicle to meet that special person, or persons.

I personally feel attending events, socials and clubs would be the most proactive way.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Myself and Miss met on here. Neither of us were looking for more than but just fell for each other. That was 3 years ago.

Best of luck op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here 4 years ago and been engaged and living together since then.

If some one is for you then you will meet them,wether it's on fab or a pub or even asda.

Don't give up hope.

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

All I have to do is walk down the street, and often get approached in the supermarket, so its not me, its just the cult of fab I've never met any woman from here, a miracle to get a reply

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Fab is a forum for introducing people, helping them to get conversations going.

What it doesn't do, is guarentee you anything. You are not guarenteed a reply to a message, a shag or even a cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me, but I thought by joining Fab Swingers, it would be reasonably straight forward and easy to find a woman

For some it is,for others not so easy.

Kind of mirrors real life in that respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lately FAB makes me feel pretty crap about myself. Getting occasional views, hardly any replies usually a polite no thanks, maybe it's my photos, I have no dick pics, what's a guy to do. If I can't charm people with my profile or looks then maybe I'm not suited here either.

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By *ysonfuryMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Think you just have to go with the flow. My ideal would be to meet a regular lady who I could club with and arrange meets with other like-minded people on FAB. That may or may not happen but in the meantime you can meet lots of great people on your fab journey. Just be yourself and most of all if you are lucky enough to get a meet be reliable and respect the wishes of whoever you meet up with. Enjoy the adventure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The short answer OP, is yes, It's you.

I would suggest that you realign your expectations.

Single men HUGELY outnumber the ladies here - numbers suggested vary, but could be as high as 100-1 (or even higher)

Then you have to factor in how many might actually be looking for the sort of relationship that you're talking about. I would suggest that's going to be a pretty low number.

Then, you've got to find one of those few ladies with who you click with - mutual attraction and all that.

I wish you luck, but try and visualise trying to find a needle in a field full of hay, never mind a haystack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get a handle on the ratio of men to ladies. Search for ladies seeking men. Count how many are on line then reverse the search and count how many men are on line

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Im not here for a relationship"

This!

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

This isn’t a dating site for most people...it’s a swinging site. People have different goals on here, whether it be no-strings sex, enabling an open relationship, joining a couple as either a single or another couple, socially interacting with other people who enjoy the same lifestyle and have the same liberal attitude to it or a single person finding someone else single with whom to enjoy a swinging lifestyle.

I would say that last one would be one of the rarer ones, compared to the first four as this is a swinging site, not a dating site. There are people looking for it but it would likely be difficult to find given that you’d then have to be a) attracted to them and b) suitably local.

Add to that, that swinging as a couple requires a bedrock of trust and experience with each other and a clear understanding of the other person’s needs and desires and you’ll find few brand new relationships jumping straight into swinging.

My advice would be to stop looking for it and enjoy it for what it is. If you then find someone amazing who you click with and enjoy the lifestyle together as friends with benefits, let it develop without pressure and expectation.

T’is only my advice though, so you can take it or leave it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For the few asking the question “Why did I think it was gonna be easy” is because I thought they’d be more chance of finding likeminded on certain particular sites, this being one of them!

But I appreciate and welcome all your comments.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

My least favourite sentence (well maybe not my least but it’s up there) is “this is a swinging site not a dating site”. I date from here and there are plenty that do.

Have fun. Be happy in the here and now and if dating comes along then ... result.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not what I’m looking for, but it wouldn’t be unwelcome if the chance came along with the right person!!

I’m sure there are plenty of ladies here who would enjoy that type of relationship, but of course not everyone is after the same things.

Keep looking, you’ll find her x

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

"For the few asking the question “Why did I think it was gonna be easy” is because I thought they’d be more chance of finding likeminded on certain particular sites, this being one of them!

But I appreciate and welcome all your comments. "

Fuck all chance of that here! Too many dreamers, fantasists, and the usual trolls for that to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I maybe more George Roper than George Cloony ( google it young uns!) I ain’t that bad!

Searching for a Stag and vixen/hotwife is definitely the holy grail of relationships!

You had me cracking up at George Roper .. he was soooo funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not what I’m looking for, but it wouldn’t be unwelcome if the chance came along with the right person!!

I’m sure there are plenty of ladies here who would enjoy that type of relationship, but of course not everyone is after the same things. "

Best let it find you. Rather than search for a relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex is the nectar of life, and this is one buzzing hive, so many drones yet so few willing queens, no matter how good are your genes!"

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