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Is 20 an okay age for swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm single male who loves sex... nothing wrong with that!

I'm also 100% straight !

Would love some advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm single male who loves sex... nothing wrong with that!

I'm also 100% straight !

Would love some advice x"

It's fine at any age mate, just be prepared for some knock backs because of your age. Which is fair enough right?

Read as much as you can in the forum, contribute to it, be respectful, follow the rules

Ask questions and be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm single male who loves sex... nothing wrong with that!

I'm also 100% straight !

Would love some advice x"

What kind of advice are you after?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being a young single lad, what route should I take? Will I have any luck here? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a young single lad, what route should I take? Will I have any luck here? X"

Make sure your profile reflects your personality as best you can. Forget about sex. Go to a local social, get a verification from it , you may even end up getting a 'meet' out of it. One veri like that is enough to start the ball rolling.

Forget about sex.. I can't repeat that enough lol, if it's meant to be, it'll happen.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Being a young single lad, what route should I take? Will I have any luck here? X"

Profile profile profile.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Being a young single lad, what route should I take? Will I have any luck here? X"

OP there is no such thing as luck on fab. You make your own luck on here and success levels amongst most men are proportional to the effort they make.

The fact you are a single male will limit your appeal more than anything OP - there are far more men on fab than women or couples. Your age will be a deciding factor for many. Lots of people have children and in some cases grandchildren of a similar age to you.

Don't view fab as a means to getting lots of easy sex as it is about as far from it as you can get. It's much harder to "pull" on here than it is out in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs


"Being a young single lad, what route should I take? Will I have any luck here? X"

Take rbe route to wherever in NP20 young ladies in your age group socialise. Learn to chat up women, flirt and take rejection. You're wasting your youth on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 18/02/19 22:24:14]"

Not sure what type of advice your looking for kiddywinkie but It normally goes something like this

You insert your erect penis into a lady's vagina..........

Then simply go in and out like the okey y

Hope this helps

Always hear for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 18/02/19 22:24:14]

Not sure what type of advice your looking for kiddywinkie but It normally goes something like this

You insert your erect penis into a lady's vagina..........

Cheers pal

Had no clue intill you said

Then simply go in and out like the okey y

Hope this helps

Always hear for you

"

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Spend your time with your mates.. Messing about having fun....

You've loads of time at 35plus to be getting into this

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We would say you are too young.

If you are in a long term relationship and are stable together then yes.

We would say you need to be in your 30’s, today’s impression of sex in general is too fogged by the myths of porn.

You have to work at it for it to work.

Just our view

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I've played with quite a few twenty year old guys in clubs. My advice would be to go to a club and build a circle of playmates who accept you for who you are rather than for a few lines on a Fab profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many negative people on this site lol , just ignore them and try to enjoy what the site offers you

Being in age similar to you I know myself how fought the site can be but on my old profile I had a small handful of meets so it can be done !

Having a bit less luck on this profile however hahaha

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Hubby was 20 and I was 19 when we started so don't worry about being too young.

Just be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm single male who loves sex... nothing wrong with that!

I'm also 100% straight !

Would love some advice x"

Main advise from us is simple. Don't be a complete dick don't push your luck and be prepared for knock backs x

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Main advice -

It's lower than you think

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Hi there OP.

Do you know the difference between a random shag and swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi there OP.

Do you know the difference between a random shag and swinging?"

Explain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op success on here is down to a few things,1 a good profile,2 a well thought out message on initial contact,3 taking your time to get to know the person and not just going in gung ho,4 and most important there has to be a spark ,without it first 3 things won't matter u ain't getting a meet if she don't feel it ,then there's the issue if where to meet ,can either of you accommodate or travel ,crack this and you might just get a meet;other options to consider if you have deep pockets is attending a club but there you will be faced with even more etiquette to learn or attending a social and getting your face out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your profile text OP think it's the pub you need to be in and not Fab ...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hi there OP.

Do you know the difference between a random shag and swinging?

Explain?"

That’s what I was asking you to do!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"

I'm also 100% straight !

Would love some advice x"

Plenty on this site will ignore that, also if a Bi Couple get in touch but insist you play with both ?

No such thing as too young (obviously above the legal age) but you’re a preference now, some will want to play with you, others will feel you’re not experienced enough.

Good luck in your search

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I'm single male who loves sex... nothing wrong with that!

I'm also 100% straight !

Would love some advice x"

Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Quite frankly the line and a half that you currently have written on your profile won't impress anyone.

'decided to try it 1 last time !' is too negative. Get rid.

'21 year old male' is already written on your profile, so it adds absolutely nothing.

'wants to have a good laugh and occasionally a lot to drink.... ' So your the same as almost everyone else then?

Your profile couldn't sell a Big Mac to a starving man, so it's not going to sell you to prospective meets. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.

Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great.

However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.

Good luck.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"[Removed by poster at 18/02/19 22:24:14]

Not sure what type of advice your looking for kiddywinkie but It normally goes something like this

You insert your erect penis into a lady's vagina..........

Then simply go in and out like the okey y

Hope this helps

Always hear for you

"

So we ridicule and patronise!!

Unbelievable

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm single male who loves sex... nothing wrong with that!

I'm also 100% straight !

Would love some advice x"

Too young for some ideal for others so its what you make it.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

A bit young for us I think

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Used to fuck around at that age, didn't think of it as swinging just dating.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hi there OP.

Do you know the difference between a random shag and swinging?"

Pretty sure lots of guys on here don't know that

Wow folks, he's been polite he's asking a fairly sensible question and a few of you are being...well...a bit grumpy?

Hi OP

positive advice in this thread is pretty good, go to socials if you can, read the forums (especially advice and introduction forums)

Not everyone goes to clubs (the concept wigs me out) not everyone on here is a swinger some are just here to find a FB/fwb some just for hookups and some are niche kink specific who have a higher chance of finding what they want here instead of tinder.

I'd say the majority of women (and about half the men) look for a connection rather than just sex.

Hope you enjoy yourself here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love it when you post advice to try and help a guy out. Then he completely ignores your comments, yet responds to women and couples. If that's your attitude towards other men OP. Then maybe yes, you are probably too young.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Did he ignore you? Missed that, yours was one of the good advice bits...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess he gave up as he’s not logged in for 2 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to fuck around at that age, didn't think of it as swinging just dating. "
it’s more experimental at tha age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he ignore you? Missed that, yours was one of the good advice bits..."

He did, twice. Yet I was first to comment.

Fuck it.. let these useless sprogs find out the hard way like everyone else has to.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Like someone said. At that age. It’s all about the Porn type fantasy. Not real life.

Not being mean but young guys don’t have a clue how to play. And that’s simply inexperience.

X

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