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By *ack4funlondon OP   Man
over a year ago

headingley

So I get chatting with people quite often. When then they look at my profile they disappear. Any thoughts or recommendations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they don’t like what they see?

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By *ack4funlondon OP   Man
over a year ago

headingley

Very valid. Thought there maybe so glaring issue with my profile I’m missing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You got bored, people will wonder why.

Personally I don't like seeing that BDSM test thing it doesn't mean much really.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

7 out of 9 of your pictures are of your cock try taking some other ones or keep all but 1 as private

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By *ack4funlondon OP   Man
over a year ago

headingley

Good call. Didn’t realise

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By *hezGeekCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Ditch the cock pics. Make your profile vaguely interesting. Set yourself apart from all the other men on Fab.

Also, Gatwick South Terminal is hardly a great meet location for most people.

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

Gatwick airport, enough said.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Unappealing cock pics, including one of you hanging out of someone else (whose permission you may or may not have to post it), two equally unappealing bum pics taken in a mirror and a profile text that doesn't really tell anyone anything.

Where do *you* think there could be improvements OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a distinct lack of penguins and watermelon within your profile and you wonder why

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Put your cock alway. Maybe wear some nylons and thigh boots or use food as subject matter. Try something no one has seen before

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"You have a distinct lack of penguins and watermelon within your profile and you wonder why "

How many penguins would make a good pic?

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ok, I love the BDSM tests...gives me a quick snapshot of whether we’d be compatible. With such high scores for switch and especially for degrader, I would stop chatting pretty quickly as it is clear we’d not get along in the bedroom. Maybe they’re doing you a favour, pulling out of the running to avoid leading you on when they aren’t into the same things?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"So I get chatting with people quite often. When then they look at my profile they disappear. Any thoughts or recommendations?"

So you chat to them, then they DISAPPEAR. #facepalm

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By *aturedisgracefully!!Couple
over a year ago

Leicester


"So I get chatting with people quite often. When then they look at my profile they disappear. Any thoughts or recommendations?"

Two things that would put us off if we were looking for single guys.

We don't like this BDSM test that every other single guy seems to be using.

And single guys showing an action photo to prove they have had sex before. We do not see the point or need for it.

Just our opinion of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If everyone is looking at your profile then blanking you, it's your profile that is putting them off.

Look at what is on there and change it to something different.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"You have a distinct lack of penguins and watermelon within your profile and you wonder why

How many penguins would make a good pic? "

At least one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a distinct lack of penguins and watermelon within your profile and you wonder why

How many penguins would make a good pic? "

Well obviously that depends on the penguin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am also now very curious about these penguins ? and the Watermelons

But one thing at a time, so, Penguins first ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pictures are shit. (Mine aren't great either!) Look at women's photos, they use close ups and angles to highlight their best bits. Certain poses are best. Also taking a picture of your cock as you look down at it makes it look smaller (same for all men). It's an artform.

Take loads of pictures from different angles and delete the rubbish ones. Probably best to keep the cock shot private.

Listen to what the women have said and good luck!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Am also now very curious about these penguins ? and the Watermelons

But one thing at a time, so, Penguins first ?"

Rachael is the designated penguin expert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a distinct lack of penguins and watermelon within your profile and you wonder why

How many penguins would make a good pic?

Well obviously that depends on the penguin. "

Is it pingu?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a distinct lack of penguins and watermelon within your profile and you wonder why "

Oh shit. Now I know where I've been going wrong all these years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a distinct lack of penguins and watermelon within your profile and you wonder why

How many penguins would make a good pic? "

I think I have a packet of tgem in the fridge

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By *unniebee1970Woman
over a year ago

The Hive

Maybe get the Penguin to change yr profile OP?

As you dont seem to have acknowledged anyones advice....

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm gathering my waddle

Pic to follow soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you are going to announce you are vwe then you need to be hung like a donkey otherwise ... don’t worry we spot a good sized cock when we want one xx

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