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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Were only looking to attend clubs so others can watch us play and chat to like minded people.

We aren’t into swapping so don’t consider ourselves swingers. Although allowing a girl to join us is on our list.

We are wondering if people would get funny with us as a result within clubs etc?

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By *hill44Man
over a year ago

hinckley

I've been to a few clubs now they are relaxed easy going ,this is your rule what you want to do ,most people will respect that ,there will be many people happy to watch you both

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

It's a social lifestyle, enjoy xx

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

This is about what's doing what feels good for you. You make the rules.

I'm sure no one will have an issue watching you have fun...enjoy

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By *dtittyCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yep it's a hard one isn't it, were not 'swingers` either. Love clubs and sometimes I (mrs) likes to have fun with other ladies.

Last time we were at a club we chatted to a really nice couple, they wanted more but we were very clear we don't swap, then a couple of times when I went to the loo or whatever she'd try it on with the mr. Her reasoning, we were friendly and know one goes to a club and stays within their couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were only looking to attend clubs so others can watch us play and chat to like minded people.

We aren’t into swapping so don’t consider ourselves swingers. Although allowing a girl to join us is on our list.

We are wondering if people would get funny with us as a result within clubs etc?"

Not at all, they have to respect your rules. Lots of swingers only go to socials and clubs then play by themselves.

Good luck xxx

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Can't see that being a problem but maybe stick to couples and single ladies nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rule 1 of swinging: you don't have to play with anyone you don't want to. That applies even if the list of people you don't want to play with is 'everyone'. Some people go to clubs just to socialise, no reason you can't do the same.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I went to a couple swingers clubs and I have seen it first hand yeah it does happen at clubs but there isn’t a problem with it. Yeah there is the odd guy or could that make a fuss about it but it’s your rules at the end of the day and it’s up to you.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

When we go to a club each time is different and has ranged from being sociable but only playing together to group play with multiple people so it's whatever works for you.

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By *ornysquirtingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

somerset


"Were only looking to attend clubs so others can watch us play and chat to like minded people.

We aren’t into swapping so don’t consider ourselves swingers. Although allowing a girl to join us is on our list.

We are wondering if people would get funny with us as a result within clubs etc?"

We love to go and watch big part of the fun. No need to swap (unless you want to )

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We've had newbies ask could they join us on bed & play next to us no swapping or touching. We've been happy, especially one young couple who were very nervous. Its fun whatever.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You do you. That’s the joy of this thing. People will understand and there’s more than enough voyeurs to be happy to get a gorgeous show

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I see you're thinking about Chams tomorrow OP.....a club full of naked, relaxed and friendly hedonists....should have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op that sounds like swinging to me no 2 couples are the same stop worrying what other's think and get on and enjoy your self ...the swinging umbrella covers a large area and at least you know what you want as many dont and just stick to your guns at all times ...been on the scene for 23 years now and how we play has changed many many times over those years

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

That's quite normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communicating with people whilst at clubs is the key, too many don’t communicate and when play is initiated especially in open rooms it all goes wrong, unless you communicate then people won’t know your limits, wants and likes

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some places have lockable private rooms with viewing windows, so people can watch but not touch.

If you do things more openly, people may ask and there's a risk of being touched, but most will go for gentle arm/leg tap and see how you respond rather than anything super invasive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your pics.....be happy to watch!!!

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"Were only looking to attend clubs so others can watch us play and chat to like minded people.

We aren’t into swapping so don’t consider ourselves swingers. Although allowing a girl to join us is on our list.

We are wondering if people would get funny with us as a result within clubs etc?"

In short no not inside a club, just go into one of the viewing type of rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of couples go to clubs and they will play on the sofas or open beds because they like others watching them, others like yourselfs like others watching and I watched quite a few couples and after they gone in a private room and had sex because they was so turned on my having others watching, you do what you both enjoy doing it’s what turns you two on. So enjoy .

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