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How to spot fakes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

New to fab swingers but not new to swinging. I’m just wondering if you have any suggestions on how to spot fake profiles as I have had a man on offering me his female friend to meet. He won’t show me a photo or anything of the female. I’m thinking the female is imaginary , this man has a few verifications from people with say only 1 cam verification so I’m unsure what’s going on.

Doesn’t seem true maybe I’m thinking too much into it but not going to meet someone I don’t know what they look like

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Instant block.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Hold them upto the sunlight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always go with your gut... would you really need to think twice about meeting someone you have never seen a pic off??

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I always ask for contact with the female and if they say no I just block.

Go with your gut instinct.

MrsXOXO

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He asked to meet on Wednesday but I’m not getting a photo of the female until wednesday. Doesn’t feel right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He asked to meet on Wednesday but I’m not getting a photo of the female until wednesday. Doesn’t feel right"

Avoid, definitely fake

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By *oinMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I'm surprised you even need advice on this particular subject

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"New to fab swingers but not new to swinging. I’m just wondering if you have any suggestions on how to spot fake profiles as I have had a man on offering me his female friend to meet. He won’t show me a photo or anything of the female. I’m thinking the female is imaginary , this man has a few verifications from people with say only 1 cam verification so I’m unsure what’s going on.

Doesn’t seem true maybe I’m thinking too much into it but not going to meet someone I don’t know what they look like "

Trust your gut.

Get a feel for the language of the profile and messages.

Research research research. Follow the verification trail. As an example, saw a profile the other day with 6 verifications from 6 different meets. All phrased very similar, all from Ireland when he himself lived on the south coast of England. May have been perfectly genuine, just looked suspicious....

After a while you get a "feel" for what's right and wrong.

And take your time, don't rush or be rushed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New to fab swingers but not new to swinging. I’m just wondering if you have any suggestions on how to spot fake profiles as I have had a man on offering me his female friend to meet. He won’t show me a photo or anything of the female. I’m thinking the female is imaginary , this man has a few verifications from people with say only 1 cam verification so I’m unsure what’s going on.

Doesn’t seem true maybe I’m thinking too much into it but not going to meet someone I don’t know what they look like

Trust your gut.

Get a feel for the language of the profile and messages.

Research research research. Follow the verification trail. As an example, saw a profile the other day with 6 verifications from 6 different meets. All phrased very similar, all from Ireland when he himself lived on the south coast of England. May have been perfectly genuine, just looked suspicious....

After a while you get a "feel" for what's right and wrong.

And take your time, don't rush or be rushed."

Good advice, some fakes are more difficult to spot than others but they all reveal themselves in the end

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By *oubleCookieeWoman
over a year ago

West Bromwich

There are so many genuine females on this site looking to meet other females. Why do you need a go between? chat with women directly. I don't understand why you're chatting with a man yet your profile states your are looking for females & tv?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"New to fab swingers but not new to swinging. I’m just wondering if you have any suggestions on how to spot fake profiles as I have had a man on offering me his female friend to meet. He won’t show me a photo or anything of the female. I’m thinking the female is imaginary , this man has a few verifications from people with say only 1 cam verification so I’m unsure what’s going on.

Doesn’t seem true maybe I’m thinking too much into it but not going to meet someone I don’t know what they look like "

OP just tell him you will chat to his "female friend" if she contacts you from her own profile. Even if she does exercise caution and assume it is just him and she doesn't actually exist. Insist on a phone chat with her before arranging to meet.

There are lots of men on here who try to arrange a meet with a "female friend" and the majority of times the lady can't make it when you arrange to meet but he can still come.

I usually just delete any messages like that. If I want to meet a couple I look at couples profiles, a single man I look at single male profiles and if I was interested in meeting a single lady I would look at single female profiles.

Even so, there are men who masquerade as couples or even a single female so I insist on a social meet in a public place or a club meet for my own safety and peace of mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it sounds too good to be true it usually is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Redflag get out of it ASAP personally id of blocked them by now at least have the guts to show ya face

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Go with your gut. It’s usually right. And if not then it doesn’t matter there’s plenty more people out there x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If it seems dodgy,it probably is

I would have moved on ages ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it seems dodgy,it probably is

I would have moved on ages ago "

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