FabSwingers.com forum: Cant work out guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I cant understand some guys. Had the best meet ever, fantastic sex and the guy agreed it was aswell. Yet when I hadnt heard from him for awhile and messaged to ask if he wanted to meet up again, i got no response, he just deleted my message and didnt reply.

Are some guys like this, however good the meet, they just dont want to meet the same woman twice?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Are some guys like this, however good the meet, they just dont want to meet the same woman twice?"

Yep. Some women are like it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and you say in your profile you won't justify why you won't meet or reply to their messages so maybe he's the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes for some people it is just about an experience and however good they want to leave it at just that xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're like Butterfly Collectors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes guys will say whatever they think you want to hear.

Try not to take it personally, move on and have lots more fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

some good replies. thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes thats the way they are, and some women too. I never contact a man after meeting him however good it was, he just thinks your desperate.Better to just meet someone else instead, i have met men and thought the sex was great, then the next man i met was 100 times better.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I cant understand some guys. Had the best meet ever, fantastic sex and the guy agreed it was aswell. Yet when I hadnt heard from him for awhile and messaged to ask if he wanted to meet up again, i got no response, he just deleted my message and didnt reply.

Are some guys like this, however good the meet, they just dont want to meet the same woman twice?"

yes, just like some women are.

Some ppl prefer regulars, others one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for the purposes of this site, i would say the vast majority of men aren't looking to be 'worked out'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a simple male, there's no way I can 'work out' women!! Does a woman even know how her mind works?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are some guys like this, however good the meet, they just dont want to meet the same woman twice?"

that's very strange behaviour I must say. MInd you I'm not the type who goes in for the cold fuck and leave scenario, as i like my cuddles and kisses, and if a meet goes well, it's natural to want to meet again. Sorry to hear about your experience. it must be bloody confusing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its perfectly reasonable for him to not contact you. You had a great night, an enjoyable time, but that one guy is not the only man in the world that will give you an enjoyable time.

I tend to only have one off meets. There are exceptions and some guys I've got on well with and these guys message me from time to time to say hi, and we will meet with a single guy when he's in the area on business, but I like the variety of new experiences, and we tend to mainly go to clubs anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its quite normal for some

Dont take it personally

I like repeat meets myself but almost always with long breaks inbetween

Some do just shag and run and to be honest i dont see anything wrong in that xx

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By *TUNNAWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

no use in even trying 2 work guys out

forget him an move on best way

ive had some weirdo's last cpl a weeks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are some guys like this, however good the meet, they just dont want to meet the same woman twice?

Yep. Some women are like it too.

Agreed. For some people its about the thrill of the new and the variety.

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

Are some guys like this, however good the meet, they just dont want to meet the same woman twice?"

This from someone who blocks single guys - they owe you nothing the same as you dont owe anyone else anything

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I think the post shag glow can make people say things they maybe don't really mean and I never really take it too seriously

Once they have thought about the meet in the cold light of day they may think a little differently,or have other people that they plan to meet and then concentrate on sorting those meets out

You both had a great time and thats cool,sometimes a meet will just be a one off but can be an enjoyable one off too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are some guys like this, however good the meet, they just dont want to meet the same woman twice?"

Maybe the meet wasn't quite as good for him as it was for you. Maybe he was just being polite. Sorry to rain on your parade lol.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

firstly maybe the meet wasnt as good for him as it was you and just doesnt wish a repeat . it happens and nowt wrong with that .

yes some people across all groups perfer one off meets for what ever reason. maybe the chase and first time thrill is what they crave . or they just like to keep things uncomplicated or jusst prefer as meny conquests as possible . thats totally up to how they wish to use the site and may well be different to how youd like to use the site.there is no right and wrong way . as folks have said . dont take it personal and sure youll get other meets just as enjoyable if not more enjoyable .x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for the purposes of this site, i would say the vast majority of men aren't looking to be 'worked out'

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And some women too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for everyone who replied. Very helpful and Im now looking at it in a different light. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh no... with me I'd want the good thing over and over and over again. No butterfly collector me - gold is where you find it

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