FabSwingers.com forum: straight oraly bi or bi

By *esmond70 OP Man
over a year ago

tavistock

what do women. or couples. prefer when looking for men straiht oraly bi or bi. ?

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

For us, it has to be bi guys

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"For us, it has to be bi guys

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Straight only

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

orally bi at least switch guys who can be submissive and dominant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ermmmmmmmmmmmm try reading there profile usually a big clue not that many on here can and ever do read them !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bi for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straighter than the straightest thing you can imagine!

XXXX

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

surely their profile tells u,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find most couples prefer oraly bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definately straight we just dont meet bi or curious guys at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guys orientation doesn't make a difference to us, just as long as he can play 'het'. A guy making an unplanned move on me would not be good.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i find most couples prefer oraly bi"

Or not!

Straight only for us, we would terminate a meet instantly if a guy confessed to being bi. We don't distinguish......if a guy plays with a guy (at all, blow job, wank or full sex) then he is bisexual, end of story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guys orientation doesn't make a difference to us, just as long as he can play 'het'. A guy making an unplanned move on me would not be good.

Wolf

And it's a shame more people dont take such an attitude.

I have been sucked by girls and their guy. Doesnt mean I fancy the guy or want to f**k him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so if you have a girls guy suck you, you must be bi then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so if you have a girls guy suck you, you must be bi then ?

no I don't think it's that contagious

(shrewsmale - points noted, thanks m8 - LGBT is a serious community now with clout

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Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And again..... the bi or straight question! lol

Basically some will look for bi some will look for straight its all down to the individual!

Or are you looking to conduct a survey and publish the results?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think alot seem to over think the subject of bisexual! Simple terms it just means you are sexually attracted to both men and women to some degree.

Now that i have smashed the hornets nest i best leg it before being strung up!

(Though that may be fun in the right company!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not saying Im bi or not, and although I accept we all meet who we want it seems a shame that I would be discounted by a couple on the basis I am bi/curious/whatever you want to call it.

Im certainly not attracted to blokes and do not like the idea of kissing one, nor having full sex with one.

Maybe a site should have a new gender - straight but doesnt mind who sucks it!!!

that of course is a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so if you have a girls guy suck you, you must be bi then ?

no I don't think it's that contagious

(shrewsmale - points noted, thanks m8 - LGBT is a serious community now with clout

)

Wolf

What is LGBT? apologies if being thick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so if you have a girls guy suck you, you must be bi then ?

no I don't think it's that contagious

(shrewsmale - points noted, thanks m8 - LGBT is a serious community now with clout

)

Wolf

What is LGBT? apologies if being thick!"

LGBT - lesbian gay bisexual and transgender

Wolf

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By *r n mrs togetherCouple
over a year ago

redruth

we would love a bi guy or bi couple to play with us a fantasy that we would love fullfilled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us, orientation of guys isn't a problem.. Mark is straight, so straight guys would be better as they wouldn't be disappointed, but as long as they are respectful of our boundaries then what's their orientation got to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i find most couples prefer oraly bi

Or not!

You're assuming he's being honest on his profile of course (cos all the guys are!lol) and that of course he'd have a 'moment of conscience' and suddenly confess to once touching a mates knob in his youth.

I'll always respect others preferences and pay attention to what's on their profile - as well as asking the right questions in conversations before and during any meets. But always get slightly amused by the couples that feel the need to put on their profiles the 'NO BI/CURIOUS GUYS' in such a shouty, in your face manner - especially when the fem is listed as bisexual! Amazing how it's still so much more acceptable for one sex than the other! Thought this was the 21st century!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find it funny that people like that seem to think bi guys are gonna jump every guy they see naked... i dont jump every woman i see naked.. i respect peoples boundaries and ask their preferences.

I think there are alot of really really nice single bi guys out there that loose out because of peoples fear... which is a shame but oh well what can you do.. you cant educate fear out of people.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Bi as a preference. Four people playing safely. More erotic and no- one left out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are alot of really really nice single bi guys out there that loose out because of peoples fear... which is a shame but oh well what can you do.. you cant educate fear out of people.

Well us curious guys are scary! lol. But i wouldn't say we necessarily lose out - luckily there are far more sensible, openminded and accepting folk out there than those paranoid that we can't control our urges!! Personally I think it's them that's missing out as you're right - there are a lot of very nice single guys perfectly capable of playing 100% straight and giving couples the quality company they're seeking, rather than just a straight guy looking for a quick bunk up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are alot of really really nice single bi guys out there that loose out because of peoples fear... which is a shame but oh well what can you do.. you cant educate fear out of people.

Being jumped on by bi guys is a misconception that seems to be all too common.

We've said this before, but have to reiterate again, that people don't meet bi guys simply because they find the thought of two guys having sex distasteful...........simple as.

Having something distasteful in your mind, I'm sure you'll agree, is not conducive to a sexy, fun meet.

Being jumped on has very little or nothing to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what we find is that the guys that say they are orally bi are more interested in pussy than cock and that the bi side is just another way of getting females to play with ,when asked would you wait naked for wife to come in from work they all say no ill wait till your wife comes home .

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By *4FantasyCouple
over a year ago

Spalding

Straight only.

Kazx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just sexual, but list as Bi since everyone seems to want to use labels. It's highly unlikely that any 'bi' guy would launch themselves onto another guy if uninvited. Like many say, it says in the proile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..oh, and 'bi' the way, this is Steven talking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, that happens alot. I'd wait naked though.

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By *otbodiesCouple
over a year ago

Berlin, germany

I think there are alot of really really nice single bi guys out there that loose out because of peoples fear... which is a shame but oh well what can you do.. you cant educate fear out of people.

TRUE!

We are both bi, but like with any boundaries we respect what ever preferences people have.

We lose some meets because of J marked as bi, but thats good for us, s out some people we wouldnt like to meet anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ermmmmmmmmmmmm try reading there profile usually a big clue not that many on here can and ever do read them !!!!"

Read profiles?!...never known a single guy to read or take any notice of anything written in our profile.lol

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We lose some meets because of J marked as bi, but thats good for us, s out some people we wouldnt like to meet anyway..."

Don't think it matters in the great scheme of things really... you lose one group of people, but you gain another group who will be interested that J is Bi.

When I was single I had a group of people interested in me as being single. When I met my partner those people lost interest, but others that were interested in me as part of a couple came forward instead. You never really lose anything, you just change the interested audience....

Wolf

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Finding out someones preferences is a key to a good playtime. Everyone is different and have their set of rules, much more so when dealing with a couple.

Are straight guys into DP on a lady, squirming when ever another guys bits touch theirs? Or perhaps thats why couples pick the bi guys, helps make things more relaxed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, as far as I can tell, the reality is that an awful lot of men in couples who list as straight are bi.

As for those who scream out on their profiles about being '100% straight' etc, I am glad they do so. I would not want to have anything to do with someone who is that hysterical. Especially when it seems that it is ok for the woman to be bi...

And as for all the macho bravado that some guys give of, 'if a guy tried to pull a move on me...blah, blah,' grow up.

If you think that making threats about imagined homosexual transgressions does anything other than make you look like a closet case, you are sorely wrong.

So, returning to the original point. I would much rather play with bisexuals.

I tis far more socially acceptable for women to be bi/curious. The reality is that at least an equal number of men are. I look forward for the day when it is more open.

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By *4FantasyCouple
over a year ago

Spalding

"Well, as far as I can tell, the reality is that an awful lot of men in couples who list as straight are bi.

And as for all the macho bravado that some guys give of, 'if a guy tried to pull a move on me...blah, blah,' grow up.

If you think that making threats about imagined homosexual transgressions does anything other than make you look like a closet case, you are sorely wrong.

So, returning to the original point. I would much rather play with bisexuals.

I tis far more socially acceptable for women to be bi/curious. The reality is that at least an equal number of men are. I look forward for the day when it is more open."

I think the only hysterical person here is you! Yes we put 100% straight because that is our orientation. We expect people to read our profile and make decision if they want to meet us on the back of that.

We don't think that Bi men would jump on Paul at all and we are far from homophobic either but that does not mean we want to play with bi guys either ... it is the thought of two men together that does nothing for us. If people can't accept our CHOICE quite frankly it is their problem not ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, as far as I can tell, the reality is that an awful lot of men in couples who list as straight are bi.

And as for all the macho bravado that some guys give of, 'if a guy tried to pull a move on me...blah, blah,' grow up.

If you think that making threats about imagined homosexual transgressions does anything other than make you look like a closet case, you are sorely wrong.

So, returning to the original point. I would much rather play with bisexuals.

I tis far more socially acceptable for women to be bi/curious. The reality is that at least an equal number of men are. I look forward for the day when it is more open.

I accept your choice,, but if a bi guy isn't interested in the male but is interested in the female then whats the problem with meeting them,,, they dont want to play with your partner, they arent gonna make a move,, so there will be no guy on guy action at a meet,,

and if your excuse is that its all you could think about all night ( as someone said before) then it sounds more like a fear than a preference to me

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Well, as far as I can tell, the reality is that an awful lot of men in couples who list as straight are bi.

And as for all the macho bravado that some guys give of, 'if a guy tried to pull a move on me...blah, blah,' grow up.

If you think that making threats about imagined homosexual transgressions does anything other than make you look like a closet case, you are sorely wrong.

So, returning to the original point. I would much rather play with bisexuals.

I tis far more socially acceptable for women to be bi/curious. The reality is that at least an equal number of men are. I look forward for the day when it is more open.

and if your excuse is that its all you could think about all night ( as someone said before) then it sounds more like a fear than a preference to me"

When two women are bisexual there is no dominant/submissive issue at stake, but then women are much better at co-operating as equals normally than men.

Wolf

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By *4FantasyCouple
over a year ago

Spalding

Ahhh but what you haven't thought about is that it maybe the female that doesn't like the thought of a male that has played with other males playing with her....... like me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhh but what you haven't thought about is that it maybe the female that doesn't like the thought of a male that has played with other males playing with her....... like me !

You beat us to it.

Why do bi guys think that all women love to see two guys having sex together, just the thought is a complete turn off for me/us. T

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if you think my comments were directed at you, however, there is no need to get quite so excitable. They were not, although in light of the above, they do seem applicable.

You do not want to play with anyone who lists as i or curious. That is fine by me, and is of course entirely your point. and for that very reason I would have no desire to meet with anyone like yourselves.

Might I ask if you apply the same standards to women you meet? By your logic, if you are 100% straight, you would not, as the though of two women together would do nothing for (either of) you.

My bet is that you don't. In fact, a quick glance at your friends list makes this very clear, And that is the crux of the matter. To apply your rule differently is to treat bi men differently solely based on their orientation; it is therefore homophobic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhh but what you haven't thought about is that it maybe the female that doesn't like the thought of a male that has played with other males playing with her....... like me !

I did think about it,,,, i thought about it a few times,,, then i thought no, no1 would think like that,, but clearly i was wrong...

Can i ask why you feel that way? ( im not saying you shouldn't, im just curious as to what makes people tick)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight only for us sorry

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By *helmermichelleTV/TS
over a year ago

Chelmsford Essex

If only a lot of you couples realised just how many so called "straight" guys(according to their profiles anyway)view my profile-hit on me- and actually meet me.

So can you really believe what you read on peoples profiles??

Maybe thats a totally diff sybject though??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what we find is that the guys that say they are orally bi are more interested in pussy than cock and that the bi side is just another way of getting females to play with ,when asked would you wait naked for wife to come in from work they all say no ill wait till your wife comes home ."

to be fair though that would sound like a guy trying it on if i got asked to do that haha, would deffos need alot of trust with the amount of liars pretending to be couples who are not haha.

i mean would you as a couple come round and play with the guy while you waited for the "wife" to come home

hahaha sounds to me like no wife would be coming home, even if in your example you make it sound like thats the intention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are alot of really really nice single bi guys out there that loose out because of peoples fear... which is a shame but oh well what can you do.. you cant educate fear out of people.

TRUE!

We are both bi, but like with any boundaries we respect what ever preferences people have.

We lose some meets because of J marked as bi, but thats good for us, s out some people we wouldnt like to meet anyway..."

+1 agree it does out the timewasters and as i would call them closed minded people. have also found alot of so called straighter than straight guys contacting me behind their wifes backs for one on one bi meets lol so as i always say theirs no one so straight just how many beers it takes lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if you think my comments were directed at you, however, there is no need to get quite so excitable. They were not, although in light of the above, they do seem applicable.

Might I ask if you apply the same standards to women you meet? By your logic, if you are 100% straight, you would not, as the though of two women together would do nothing for (either of) you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is the problem that those people asking for straight only/no bi or curious men will or already have slept with some male who has been with another man. I get men messaging me and when I look at their profile it says straight. Back when this was a couple profile I was listed as straight. Not because I was wanting to deceive anyone just because I wasn't looking for just me.

However each to their own if people don't want to meet someone because of their sexually thats fine. As long as they are being respectful they deserve respect back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% very greedy bi who loves to tease n please

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By *4FantasyCouple
over a year ago

Spalding

I'm not sure if you think my comments were directed at you, however, there is no need to get quite so excitable. They were not, although in light of the above, they do seem applicable.

Might I ask if you apply the same standards to women you meet? By your logic, if you are 100% straight, you would not, as the though of two women together would do nothing for (either of) you.

+1"

I find it offensive to be called homophobic because I do not want to sleep with Bi men! and quite laughable really. To me two women together is different to two men. I don't know why it is just the way I feel. I have a choice same as you to play with who ever you wish to without having to justify your reasons.

kazx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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& have ditch people when found out they have lied

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

"If only a lot of you couples realised just how many so called "straight" guys(according to their profiles anyway)view my profile-hit on me- and actually meet me.

So can you really believe what you read on peoples profiles??

Maybe thats a totally diff sybject though??"

If they are up front about being bi-curious or bi it wouldnnt bother me at all. However, I have been put off men who have the 100% straight thing on their profile and then have meets with other men or TV's/TG's.

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