FabSwingers.com forum: How is the best way to get me gf to have a treesome?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a girlfriend the last year and she loves sex she hasn't a clue that I'm into swinging and I wouldn't have the balls to tell her yet so hears the thing I need some advice on she has a friend that is very horny and sometimes we bring her out with us I know that her mate would definitely be up for a treesome and I think me gf would probably be up for it to I just don't know how to ask them I love me gf and wouldn't like to mess up what we have if I get this wrong so any tips would be much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her, but dont mention the friend at all, not yet

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By *onyGalWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Ask her if she fancies bringing someone else into it. She might have a guy in mind

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

"I have a girlfriend the last year and she loves sex she hasn't a clue that I'm into swinging and I wouldn't have the balls to tell her yet so hears the thing I need some advice on she has a friend that is very horny and sometimes we bring her out with us I know that her mate would definitely be up for a treesome and I think me gf would probably be up for it to I just don't know how to ask them I love me gf and wouldn't like to mess up what we have if I get this wrong so any tips would be much appreciated

Yes you love her so much your on a swingers site behind her back. ??

Go figure. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm...why would you want her friend? Way to stuff up your relationship and their friendship if it goes wrong.

How do you know her friend is definitely up for it? Are you mistaking this and putting your spin on it, and if you know because you’ve discussed it with her then how’s your gf going to feel knowing you and her best friend have discussed something so intimate?

Can of worms mate!! x

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Introducing them to another lady fff is technically a threesome.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would be into mmf or mff Ive fucked me gf in her mates bed twice with the door open and I know her mate was watching and was mad to join us just don't know how to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask her if she fancies bringing someone else into it. She might have a guy in mind

Yep, good idea- you won’t feel threatened being in close proximity with another man, so why not let her have fun with another guy as well x

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Do u have any fit mates she can shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be into mmf or mff Ive fucked me gf in her mates bed twice with the door open and I know her mate was watching and was mad to join us just don't know how to ask "

How do you know? People look out of interest, etc, doesn’t mean she wants to sleep with you. Are you sure this isn’t just a fantasy you’re creating because it’s what you want to do? x

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"I would be into mmf or mff Ive fucked me gf in her mates bed twice with the door open and I know her mate was watching and was mad to join us just don't know how to ask "

Buuuut... If she wanted to join I'm sure she would have said. Did she say it? Or did you mistaken her face of shock that you guys were shagging in her bed for her wanting the D?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be into mmf or mff Ive fucked me gf in her mates bed twice with the door open and I know her mate was watching and was mad to join us just don't know how to ask

How do you know? People look out of interest, etc, doesn’t mean she wants to sleep with you. Are you sure this isn’t just a fantasy you’re creating because it’s what you want to do? x"

Maybe it’s your gf she wants and you will be left as part of the furniture- could be her she was watching, and she has no interest in you at all x

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I would be into mmf or mff Ive fucked me gf in her mates bed twice with the door open and I know her mate was watching and was mad to join us just don't know how to ask

How do you know? People look out of interest, etc, doesn’t mean she wants to sleep with you. Are you sure this isn’t just a fantasy you’re creating because it’s what you want to do? x

Maybe it’s your gf she wants and you will be left as part of the furniture- could be her she was watching, and she has no interest in you at all x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love her the swinging is just nsa sex I make love to me gf there's no loven involved when I fucking someone else

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I love her the swinging is just nsa sex I make love to me gf there's no loven involved when I fucking someone else "
so would u be as keen with u +2 men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been with me gf twice in her mates bed and left the door open and her mate was definitely watching us plus she has dropped a few hints like saying she shares everything with me gf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love her the swinging is just nsa sex I make love to me gf there's no loven involved when I fucking someone else "

But if it’s her best friend then chances are she loves her too, albeit a different type of love, why wish to mess that up because you like the thought of having them both at the same time? If you love her then don’t suggest her best friend! x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Let her choose from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been with me gf twice in her mates bed and left the door open and her mate was definitely watching us plus she has dropped a few hints like saying she shares everything with me gf"

Doesn’t mean she wants to share your cock!! You are not a kid, you must know that, are you taking the pee? You’re not a sodding sex God, you’re a guy cheating on his gf fantasising about fucking her best friend

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

If ur gf was interested in sharing u, u would know. Keep this in ya wankbank mate

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I've been with me gf twice in her mates bed and left the door open and her mate was definitely watching us plus she has dropped a few hints like saying she shares everything with me gf

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would be into sharing her with another man or women no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let her choose from here. "

Maybe it’s not just his being a swinger the gf doesn’t know about. Maybe she doesn’t know he’s bi, so he can’t risk anyone from here, hence his own door step xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be into sharing her with another man or women no problem "

Does she want to share you though? Does she know you’re bi? Is she bi? If it’s no to any of these questions just don’t pursue it.

Don’t let your fantasy mess things up for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love her the swinging is just nsa sex I make love to me gf there's no loven involved when I fucking someone else "

Impossible to love her, the way you’re carrying on.

You’re deluded mate.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I love her the swinging is just nsa sex I make love to me gf there's no loven involved when I fucking someone else

Impossible to love her, the way you’re carrying on.

You’re deluded mate."
especially wanting his first threesome with a mate who he probably has got no interest... no respect at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're actively "swinging" but you love your girlfriend?

Whilst there are plenty of people on here cheating I'm not beyond judging them, not on a purely moral grounding but because I'm sure your girlfriend would like to make an informed choice as to whether you should continue putting her sexual health at risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love her the swinging is just nsa sex I make love to me gf there's no loven involved when I fucking someone else

Impossible to love her, the way you’re carrying on.

You’re deluded mate.especially wanting his first threesome with a mate who he probably has got no interest... no respect at all"

On Fab behind the girlfriend’s back, trying to shag her mate, shagging in someone else’s bed whilst she’s in the house...OP you are the epitome of someone who is only out for your own selfish gains.

Good luck. You’ll need it.

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By *asilForty77Man
over a year ago

a hundred and sixty of us living in a small shoebox in the middle of the road

Vodka lol or perhaps potcheen

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By *nnocent and RaunchyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester /London

Treesome? Ash her nicely or yew may end up pining...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love her the swinging is just nsa sex I make love to me gf there's no loven involved when I fucking someone else

Impossible to love her, the way you’re carrying on.

You’re deluded mate.especially wanting his first threesome with a mate who he probably has got no interest... no respect at all

Good luck. You’ll need it."

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"I love her the swinging is just nsa sex I make love to me gf there's no loven involved when I fucking someone else "

Omg really feel sorry for your gf she deserves better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah okay so actually you just wanna fuck her pal. Got it.

Ask her. If she says no, then that’s that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a truly successful treesome your going to need wood!

I’ll show myself out.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"For a truly successful treesome your going to need wood!

I’ll show myself out.

Been waiting for a comment

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

You're barking up the wrong tree if you think she wood want a treesome

Please tell that she's called Ash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the fuck is this site still called fabswingers? Cheating singles to cheap for Ashley Madison seems a long title but it better describes what this site is used for. Swingers, poly and open relationships are not cheating and come under the banner of consensual Non-monogamy.

If you are here, meeting without your girlfriends knowledge, you are a cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a truly successful treesome your going to need wood!

I’ll show myself out.

Been waiting for a comment

Happy to deliver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a tree you really like. The larch is a good one to start with. Take her for long walks in the woods. She'll get to like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask her if she fancies bringing someone else into it. She might have a guy in mind

Love it indeed

male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is the best way to get me gf to have a threesome?"

Find her a couple of blokes to fuck while you're here. Hey presto! She'll be having a threesome.

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

"I love her the swinging is just nsa sex I make love to me gf there's no loven involved when I fucking someone else "

Well if that's the case surely she'd be absolutely fine with it and you'd have already told her wouldn't you.

Lying to her is bad enough,at least if you're going to try and get her into threesomes do the decent thing and don't mention her mate. If you want to potentially kill your relationship crack on but don't ruin theirs too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a tree you really like. The larch is a good one to start with. Take her for long walks in the woods. She'll get to like them."

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Tell her you want to role play where she's a tree and you and your mate are squirrels and you both want to bury your nuts in her.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Tip one.

If you want to stay in your relationship then forget your girlfriends mate and delete your profile on here.

Tip two.

If you are that keen of fucking the G/F's mate then end your relationship and go for it.

Tip tree (sic)

There isn't one.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think the fact that you ain't got the balls to tell her yet is your biggest problem. You need to be with someone who totally accepts you for being you. If swinging is important to you then you need to be with someone who is ok with that. So I don't see it doing either of you any good by hidding that side of you. The best solution to your problem either way is to be honest with her. That way you'll either get your threesome (and many more) or you'll stop wasting each other's time and be free to find a partner who is ok with your swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proper catch you are op ??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Talk to her.

If she doesn't want to, don't push her.

End.

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