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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there fellow fabbers

Can you please give us advice on attracting a female to join us. The search seems relentless. Constuctive advice needed please. We have chatted to many but they all vanish and disappear.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No pics of male half, nothing to attract single females in bio.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Women are tough to find on here. The FFM search is difficult for many.

I'd flesh out your profile text. And in messages, make sure you treat any woman as an equal party. That's a common problem.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

A lot of single female profiles on here are in fact just guys "getting off"....that could be the answer to the ones that vanish. They are getting harder and harder to spot as well.(with fake verification's and all) But don't get too down heartened, i am sure you's will get there in the end.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Well... not sure where to start really.

I guess the first thing is the use of the word "female"... sounds a little clinical, very off-putting.

Your profile is brief, confusing, (no men... but your 3 veries are from meeting men?)and the pics tell us nothing really.

You need to inject something of "you" into your profile, tell the prospective playmates more about you, what you want, and what you can offer.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, we're women. That's an excellent point.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

More often than not single women go on about not wanting to be a plaything for a couple . They say they don’t see what’s in it for them , and that they feel like a performing seal .

When you think about it there is something to this , you can’t help but wonder why they would want to meet a couple . But plenty of guys do , maybe because they are wired differently and just like to get off , irrespective of what’s being asked of them ?

So to attract a single woman , as a couple you need to be offering something special . Something the single woman will figure is better than other offers she has . And what is that ? I don’t know as it’s not what we’ve ever really wanted , despite having had no end of ffm meets in clubs and while out dogging . It’s down to you guys to figure out what will attract them to you . Pics of the guy would be a good start ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there fellow fabbers

Can you please give us advice on attracting a female to join us. The search seems relentless. Constuctive advice needed please. We have chatted to many but they all vanish and disappear. "

If I play with a couple I want to see pics of you both on a profile not just the female. Also profile is pretty sparse so you are not enticing me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

reads like you looking for a new sex toy, not a lady to join you both

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"reads like you looking for a new sex toy, not a lady to join you both "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi there fellow fabbers

Can you please give us advice on attracting a female to join us. The search seems relentless. Constuctive advice needed please. We have chatted to many but they all vanish and disappear.

If I play with a couple I want to see pics of you both on a profile not just the female. Also profile is pretty sparse so you are not enticing me. "

We always send face pics within our messages straight away

We are going to change bio to reflect us more. Thank you for your advice

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

A large net?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of the single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there fellow fabbers

Can you please give us advice on attracting a female to join us. The search seems relentless. Constuctive advice needed please. We have chatted to many but they all vanish and disappear. "

There are a lot of fake female profiles. If yours aren't, yet they keep dissapearing on you. That's a pattern that you both may be influencing in the way you communicate with these women.

Like most people, they want you both to want them for who they are, not what they are and what they can do for you.

I hear quite a few complaints from women who are treated fairly appallingly by couples.

Classic example being..

"I want you to be a present for my hubby/wife"

Or words to that effect.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Attach a minimum of 3 chick magnets to your profile

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By *oltandJodyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"Hi there fellow fabbers

Can you please give us advice on attracting a female to join us. The search seems relentless. Constuctive advice needed please. We have chatted to many but they all vanish and disappear.

If I play with a couple I want to see pics of you both on a profile not just the female. Also profile is pretty sparse so you are not enticing me. "

Hi Mark and Cleo, hope you don't mind asking here?

We have a similar experience looking for a nice woman to make friends with.

Would anyone here kindly look at our profile and give advice please. Hope you wouldn't mind Mrs Sex in Heels to give feedback?

We are thinking of going to a club would help.

Thank you.

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