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By *arried1999a OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Just received a request from a couple to swap face pics. They said they’d send theirs after receiving ours?? What’s the etiquette? We tend to think if you ask you should have the courage of your convictions, are we wrong here??

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By *lancmangecplCouple
over a year ago

farnborough

We don’t have face pics on our profile so if messaging for the first time and expecting a face pic back then we will attach ours

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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

If you sent a message first showing interest in a meet you should send pics first

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"If you sent a message first showing interest in a meet you should send pics first "

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Go with what suits you.

We only send face pictures if we're likely to meet. If someone asks us for a face picture we would expect them to go first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you sent a message first showing interest in a meet you should send pics first

This "

Yep this

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Go with what suits you.

We only send face pictures if we're likely to meet. If someone asks us for a face picture we would expect them to go first."

This.

I can and regularly do tell people that I won't send a face picture until I think I might meet them. I'm regularly told what I can shove up my orifice. But that's my line, and if someone doesn't like it, they can find someone else.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If someone wants to see your face pics then they should show theirs first.

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By *arried1999a OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Thanks for all your message guys xx

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"If you sent a message first showing interest in a meet you should send pics first "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just received a request from a couple to swap face pics. They said they’d send theirs after receiving ours?? What’s the etiquette? We tend to think if you ask you should have the courage of your convictions, are we wrong here??"

We very very very rarely send out a face pic, we hope our veris speak for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just received a request from a couple to swap face pics. They said they’d send theirs after receiving ours?? What’s the etiquette? We tend to think if you ask you should have the courage of your convictions, are we wrong here??"

With your veris I'd have no issues in sending you face pics if we thought things were going further.

If you had one veri from a bloke with one veri then we wouldn't be sending face pics at all.

The only other thing we check is if we might know you irl, so just a cursory check of where you live and what you do so that there's no embarrassment later.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Do you want to meet them? If not don't swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to go with who messages first needs to come up with pics. Had one single guy kept badgering for pics but didnt seem to want to give his up. Didnt feel right at all.

We are alot more easy going with single women and couples in reguard to pics.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky


"Just received a request from a couple to swap face pics. They said they’d send theirs after receiving ours?? What’s the etiquette? We tend to think if you ask you should have the courage of your convictions, are we wrong here??

We very very very rarely send out a face pic, we hope our veris speak for themselves."
do your veris show what you look like? We've had couples with great veris but the face pics don't do it for us so don't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect a face pic with first message, there has to be attraction. Their veris and messages could be great but if I don't fancy them whats the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all your message guys xx"
I would guess your both easy on the eyes and your bodies are lovely, your looking for fun not a date night , but think back to the car keys ?? in the bowl , you just went with it ? , most people only meet the once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m getting some stick as I won’t send face pics unless I think I will meet. I’m stuck up my own arse apparently haha It’s not a case of well I showed you so you have to show me.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Just download George Clooney's face and send them that

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By *urryfannyfuntimeWoman
over a year ago

East Devon

What gets me is when you've never spoken and the first message you get is "have you any face pics pls". Especially when there's nothing on their profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just received a request from a couple to swap face pics. They said they’d send theirs after receiving ours?? What’s the etiquette? We tend to think if you ask you should have the courage of your convictions, are we wrong here??"

If we send face pics or vice versa then we expect the same.

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By *oliathMan
over a year ago

Ulverston

The worst is when someone asks to see your face pic then immediately blocks you!

I wish there was a function on here where we can save a face pic and if both parties want to share them they are revealed at the same time. Something like a face pic request button!

I realise some people don’t share them at all but it so unfair when you’ve sent your face pic that they won’t reveal themselves!

Whinge over!

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By *ondongreg79Man
over a year ago

london


"Just received a request from a couple to swap face pics. They said they’d send theirs after receiving ours?? What’s the etiquette? We tend to think if you ask you should have the courage of your convictions, are we wrong here??"

You ask first, you send first I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst is when someone asks to see your face pic then immediately blocks you!

I wish there was a function on here where we can save a face pic and if both parties want to share them they are revealed at the same time. Something like a face pic request button!

I realise some people don’t share them at all but it so unfair when you’ve sent your face pic that they won’t reveal themselves!

Whinge over! "

If this happens then I always say not for me but wish them well but why send a face pic back if I’ve turned them down?

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester

Got face photo on mine and nothing to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish there was a function on here where we can save a face pic and if both parties want to share them they are revealed at the same time. Something like a face pic request button."

I've often thought about this idea. Unfortunately some see it as a race to be the first to ask, that way they don't get to reveal themselves at all if they don't fancy you.

Face pic *swap* is the way to go.

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands


"Just received a request from a couple to swap face pics. They said they’d send theirs after receiving ours?? What’s the etiquette? We tend to think if you ask you should have the courage of your convictions, are we wrong here??

If we send face pics or vice versa then we expect the same. "

With a body like that does anyone look at your face

Sorry I'll get my coat

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon


"Go with what suits you.

We only send face pictures if we're likely to meet. If someone asks us for a face picture we would expect them to go first.

This.

I can and regularly do tell people that I won't send a face picture until I think I might meet them. I'm regularly told what I can shove up my orifice. But that's my line, and if someone doesn't like it, they can find someone else. "

Totally agree, and I take the same stance. Usually get told I must be a minger if I won't send one (weird that when they were happy to fuck me without any idea what I look like in the previous message)

If someone wants a pic I expect them to go first. Equally sending an unsolicited pic shouldn't mean you expect it to be reciprocated.

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