FabSwingers.com forum: Opinions please

By *aucyred3187 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

So I joined fab in November last year after attending my first swinging club. I do get a few messages from all sorts of people and have been chatting on and off with couples, singles. One such couple has just messaged me now and asked if i’m just fucking everyone on the site? Well no i’m Not actually and I think it was quite rude of them to say that? Got me quite pissed off actually so this isn’t just a ranty post!

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By *aucyred3187 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I meant this is just a ranty post lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a nasty guy insulting my wife Thursday, so sent him a shitty message...he disappeared but we know he may well make another account and insult other woman that pisses us off......as for your problem sod them I’m sure you will get plenty more offers

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

It's rude I'd just disengage from them and stop messaging. Some people assume they should be your only option, although you can guarantee you're not theirs, and the way to teach them that's not how it works is to leave them to it.

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By *asteregg01Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"So I joined fab in November last year after attending my first swinging club. I do get a few messages from all sorts of people and have been chatting on and off with couples, singles. One such couple has just messaged me now and asked if i’m just fucking everyone on the site? Well no i’m Not actually and I think it was quite rude of them to say that? Got me quite pissed off actually so this isn’t just a ranty post! "

Block and move on. No time for people like that.

What and who you do is your business and nobody else.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

My opinion: Block, chalk it up to experience and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's rude I'd just disengage from them and stop messaging. Some people assume they should be your only option, although you can guarantee you're not theirs, and the way to teach them that's not how it works is to leave them to it. "

Wise words

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

When we first joined fab some eight years ago , we had just under 100 veris in three months ! All from play meets too , and no socials . We got called all kinds of names , and yes we were judged . But we were having fun , clearly more than those who chose to judge us for having fun and doing exactly what the site was there for !

So sod them , block , move on and carry on having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of them are bored night shift workers with nothing better to do, I can log on at work and have over 100 people within 0.5 of a mile. Amazingly 60% are women. The whole place only has 60 women out of 2000 workers and there isn't another building for 5 miles

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By *letchMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

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By *letchMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"When we first joined fab some eight years ago , we had just under 100 veris in three months ! All from play meets too , and no socials . We got called all kinds of names , and yes we were judged . But we were having fun , clearly more than those who chose to judge us for having fun and doing exactly what the site was there for !

So sod them , block , move on and carry on having fun

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

So what if you were?

It's all relative. To some, by virtue being on this site, there's no difference to fucking one stranger or 100 so I wouldn't take any notice of nonentities just crack on!

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

^Exactly. So what if you were? It'snot illegal and the site won't ban you for that.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Nowt as queer as folk.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It is rude. I think they are being territorial as you are a single female and have met them. Block them and move on. X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If you go to clubs and socials you will get lots of veris. Clearly the couple are ignoring this fact. Great status by the way OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion: Block, chalk it up to experience and move on."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Take some pleasure in knowing that you are using fab your way and not to please others. Plus those people helped you by making it clear that they weren't worthy of your time. Block, move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of his business... u dont know him so dont let it get to you

move on and block x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that swing can be funny people sometimes.....

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

It is rude of them, and even if that's their opinion they didn't need to share it. Block them and remind yourself you probably don't want to meet people that judgemental of you anyway.

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