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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We appear to have been blocked but don't understand it. We were flirting for hours yesterday after we initiated contact as he had looked at us LOADS over a couple of days and we added each other as friends. Today we arranged a meet and when we looked again a couple mins later he had disappeared off friends so tried to access his profile via a saved message but cannot. Why would he block us literally moments after arranging a meet?

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

This is fab and it happens, forget about him and move on, his loss at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of folks on here are fantasy chasers, they like to talk the talk, get people interested and then run off. We've had a few "women" do this. Sadly nothing can be done about it, just counter block and move on since we're not allowed to name and shame those who have done it to multiple people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some seem to like the chase but when it comes to the crunch they bottle out

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"We appear to have been blocked but don't understand it. We were flirting for hours yesterday after we initiated contact as he had looked at us LOADS over a couple of days and we added each other as friends. Today we arranged a meet and when we looked again a couple mins later he had disappeared off friends so tried to access his profile via a saved message but cannot. Why would he block us literally moments after arranging a meet?"

He bottled it or he just wanted his ego rub.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"We appear to have been blocked but don't understand it. We were flirting for hours yesterday after we initiated contact as he had looked at us LOADS over a couple of days and we added each other as friends. Today we arranged a meet and when we looked again a couple mins later he had disappeared off friends so tried to access his profile via a saved message but cannot. Why would he block us literally moments after arranging a meet?

He bottled it or he just wanted his ego rub."

FYI I wouldn't

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"A lot of folks on here are fantasy chasers, they like to talk the talk, get people interested and then run off. We've had a few "women" do this. Sadly nothing can be done about it, just counter block and move on since we're not allowed to name and shame those who have done it to multiple people. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. "

It's sad, isn't it? My wank bank is based on those I've met and the great times we've had.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys and gals, made me feel better, that it's not likely I said something wrong x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Because for one of any number of reasons he doesn't want to or can't meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of guys on here are full of bullshit ..

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

He came and went

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

part of the parcel on fab....think some people get out the wrong side of bed and ya get blocked lol

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

His wife probably caught him on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to me alot tbh i get chatting to couples/singles arrange a meet then boom i get blocked for no reason it's frustrating at times but hay thats fab for ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"His wife probably caught him on here lol"

LOL

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

It is sad, you just have to oput it down to experience.

Must have been a let down after the build up to the meet (love the build up). I hope you have better luck next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His wife probably caught him on here lol

LOL"

This

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By *anchesterlad24Man
over a year ago

stockport

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

wife caught him pmsl......

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

wife caught him pmsl......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He came and went "

Or he came, then he cum, then he went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He came & he left .. Naughty boy!

To be honest it happens to EVERYONE from single guys, to couples, to single ladies. Unfortunately it literally is "one of those things". Best not to dwell & move on.

Similiar happened to me recently (single fem), even chatting on phone & getting on loads, then BOOM, delete / block on everything

Happens but keep smiling & moving forwards, 'tis life is short to dwell..xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His wife probably caught him on here lol"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We now only meet people with a few verifications from meets, multiple photos including face etc.

Still no guarantee but returns a better rate of success

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

He'd finished his wank and had no intention of ever meeting you. Sadly there are lots and lots of losers like that on every site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He shot his load OP so you had served purpose. Most likely

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. "
Exactly.

It's typical of a timewaster.

Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.

Report him.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"We appear to have been blocked but don't understand it. We were flirting for hours yesterday after we initiated contact as he had looked at us LOADS over a couple of days and we added each other as friends. Today we arranged a meet and when we looked again a couple mins later he had disappeared off friends so tried to access his profile via a saved message but cannot. Why would he block us literally moments after arranging a meet?"

What you need is someone genuinely single who lives fairly local and is well verified even if he is above your stated age range.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Fantasist, there's quite a few of them on fab.

For some it's the thrill of the chase. Chased, caught, cum, done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he may have got cold feet. Put it behind you and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.

It's typical of a timewaster.

Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.

Report him."

How do you report someone if you can't access their profile to press the report option?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.

It's typical of a timewaster.

Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.

Report him.

How do you report someone if you can't access their profile to press the report option? "

Never mind I just found the word report very small and grey on a saved message. Thanks

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. "

this!!!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

report button still available on a blocked profile left hand side i believe

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

You've been used as wank fodder.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I dont see any reason for reporting him as he wasn't breaking site rules and he wasn't a no show.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"His wife probably caught him on here lol

This"
or his mum...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

You could also save your friends list for just people you've met as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.

It's typical of a timewaster.

Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.

Report him."

As irritating as his behaviour appears to be I don't think reporting him would make any difference because we actually haven't done anything wrong.

He's just blocked them, if I was reported every time I blocked someone admin would be dealing with at least three or four reports about me a day!

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.

It's typical of a timewaster.

Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.

Report him.

As irritating as his behaviour appears to be I don't think reporting him would make any difference because we actually haven't done anything wrong.

He's just blocked them, if I was reported every time I blocked someone admin would be dealing with at least three or four reports about me a day! "
Agree with this, the block feature if anything is a Admin blessing tool, given that if there's no punishment needed, if your ability to reach for the perportaitors on/off switch takes temptation away from them. Admin can then use their time on things they want to do instead.

Call it a no thanks switch if you like.

That's

No thanks to chatting

No thanks to unwanted attention

No thanks to abuse

No thanks to looking at my profile

and best of all

No thanks to all of the above as our/my time is worth more than all that BS and having to involve admin, when I could easily have prevented this through being kind to yourselves by taking the high ground for your own standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.

It's typical of a timewaster.

Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.

Report him."

report him for what? shooting his load or changing his mind? can't see where either if those are against the site rules...

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston

Sadly it is a fact of life on here.

A lot like the idea (fantasy) but panic when they have to face reality. It is not reflection on you but on their cowardice and of the consequences of his wife finding out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.

It's typical of a timewaster.

Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.

Report him.

As irritating as his behaviour appears to be I don't think reporting him would make any difference because we actually haven't done anything wrong.

He's just blocked them, if I was reported every time I blocked someone admin would be dealing with at least three or four reports about me a day! Agree with this, the block feature if anything is a Admin blessing tool, given that if there's no punishment needed, if your ability to reach for the perportaitors on/off switch takes temptation away from them. Admin can then use their time on things they want to do instead.

Call it a no thanks switch if you like.

That's

No thanks to chatting

No thanks to unwanted attention

No thanks to abuse

No thanks to looking at my profile

and best of all

No thanks to all of the above as our/my time is worth more than all that BS and having to involve admin, when I could easily have prevented this through being kind to yourselves by taking the high ground for your own standards.

"

I agree with that accept the abuse part.

if somebody is abusive to you then absolutely you should report them.

Nobody should be receiving abusive messages and that is what the report button is there for, because let's be honest we don't want abusive people on the site and I'm sure admin don't either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.

It's typical of a timewaster.

Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.

Report him.

As irritating as his behaviour appears to be I don't think reporting him would make any difference because we actually haven't done anything wrong.

He's just blocked them, if I was reported every time I blocked someone admin would be dealing with at least three or four reports about me a day! "

That's true, us too as we block loads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, I think we can close this down now, I am over it thanks to all your reassurances it is not unusual, oh well if he has nothing better to do than chat online only to block the person he chatted to, ergo not getting the sex at the end of it that's his problem, at least we didn't waste time going for a meet. I'm over it now. Thanks again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And for the record I didn't report him

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"He got your friends only pictures for his wank bank. Exactly.

It's typical of a timewaster.

Arranged meet and then disappear and/or block.

Report him.

As irritating as his behaviour appears to be I don't think reporting him would make any difference because we actually haven't done anything wrong.

He's just blocked them, if I was reported every time I blocked someone admin would be dealing with at least three or four reports about me a day! Agree with this, the block feature if anything is a Admin blessing tool, given that if there's no punishment needed, if your ability to reach for the perportaitors on/off switch takes temptation away from them. Admin can then use their time on things they want to do instead.

Call it a no thanks switch if you like.

That's

No thanks to chatting

No thanks to unwanted attention

No thanks to abuse

No thanks to looking at my profile

and best of all

No thanks to all of the above as our/my time is worth more than all that BS and having to involve admin, when I could easily have prevented this through being kind to yourselves by taking the high ground for your own standards.

I agree with that accept the abuse part.

if somebody is abusive to you then absolutely you should report them.

Nobody should be receiving abusive messages and that is what the report button is there for, because let's be honest we don't want abusive people on the site and I'm sure admin don't either.

"

Again we agree with you.

The point was that if certain people aren't your flavour, then having used certain tools, you'll not get those comments from an outside of your interest type person. Hopefully those that do message, do so having fallen into your general area of "wants" and with further dialogue, hopefully you (fab collective, not you personally) will be better placed to investigate and weddle out those that are likely to be turning up.

Of course abuse should be reported, there's no place for that anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We appear to have been blocked but don't understand it. We were flirting for hours yesterday after we initiated contact as he had looked at us LOADS over a couple of days and we added each other as friends. Today we arranged a meet and when we looked again a couple mins later he had disappeared off friends so tried to access his profile via a saved message but cannot. Why would he block us literally moments after arranging a meet?"

Draw a line under that and carry on some are just ego chasers good luck next time x

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By *dge of HeavenMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Because hes one of the many time wasters on this site. Have had couples contact me, play on cam and when they have cum - its a block.

One of those things you just have to shrug off!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

He blocked them after arranging a meet.

I will report him anyway and let the admin decide.

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