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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

I know it's crazy - the amount of people that complain about no response to messages but then don't follow through with an opportunity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasy vs reality.

A large selection talk a good game.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Welcome to the world of Fab... fun isn't it ...

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "

You’re talking to the wrong guys

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

I feel your pain I've just about given up even trying to arrange meets off here

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By *lim Jim 69Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

some real muppets on here and they give the decent guys a bad name..grr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a pain in the arse and it's a waste of time and effort iv let one gorgeous women down when my car went bang felt a arse but rescheduled it for the following week but been let down by many

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Don't forget.

Women and couples have been known not to turn up too.

Just for the sake of balance.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "

i'd turn upbut you have males blocked so cant message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some real muppets on here and they give the decent guys a bad name..grr"

No they don't,if anything they make it easier on the "decent"guys

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Just need to find a reliable single guy who is a man of his word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving us all a bad name. I always meet for a social first, but if people are not even turning up to those, it's sad.

Speaking on the phone first may help. Not all blokes are unreliable though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why clubs are better, you never know what you’re getting anyway with fab so better in a social environment incase you don’t click and if it’s a no show plenty of others to pick from.

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By * Marvellous MessMan
over a year ago

From Derby

Yep, I totally agree. It's hard enough for genuine decent guys on here.

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By *uniperjuiceMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

You can report no-shows.

Not only men by the way. I once took a short train journey to meet someone who then backed out without a plausible reason and deleted her profile. but I get the impression it's mainly men. Sadly.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

I had a no show from a lady a few years ago after I had booked a hotel. And yes it was a lady lol. We had chatted on cam previously.

But yes indeed I think it is mainly men. As said previously, fantasy v reality. But I can honestly I have turned up when arranged. Had a great meet on Saturday after chatting on here and the phone.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Keyboard warriors unfortunately, of any gender or combination - its a pain the arse if you have made the time and made effort, especially if they cancel last minute of just simply fail to show. I have been fortunate only to experience this once, not long after a i joined, so employed due diligence thereafter

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I had a no show from a lady a few years ago after I had booked a hotel. And yes it was a lady lol. We had chatted on cam previously.

But yes indeed I think it is mainly men. As said previously, fantasy v reality. But I can honestly I have turned up when arranged. Had a great meet on Saturday after chatting on here and the phone. "

In the 7 years I've been using Fab, I've had two letdowns, both single women. I have never let anyone down myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a no show from a lady a few years ago after I had booked a hotel. And yes it was a lady lol. We had chatted on cam previously.

But yes indeed I think it is mainly men. As said previously, fantasy v reality. But I can honestly I have turned up when arranged. Had a great meet on Saturday after chatting on here and the phone.

In the 7 years I've been using Fab, I've had two letdowns, both single women. I have never let anyone down myself "

Is anyone honestly going to come on to a public forum and admit the deliberately let others down

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Hmmmmm

Something not quite right here,

as you have blocked men from messaging you!

How can you find a "guy to please the female" if you dont allow messages from them??

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

It's frustrating when you rearrange your work schedule or weekend then get let down. No explination and get blocked. After 2weeks of chatting.

So go figure.

The burden of fab.

But thankfully it has only happened twice in 3yrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've given up on private meets because of this

It's so frustrating, all they have to do is at least drop you a message to let you know but instead they go into hiding ECT..

Club meets only for us now

Some are just fantasists especially where meeting couples is concerned

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I had a no show from a lady a few years ago after I had booked a hotel. And yes it was a lady lol. We had chatted on cam previously.

But yes indeed I think it is mainly men. As said previously, fantasy v reality. But I can honestly I have turned up when arranged. Had a great meet on Saturday after chatting on here and the phone.

In the 7 years I've been using Fab, I've had two letdowns, both single women. I have never let anyone down myself

Is anyone honestly going to come on to a public forum and admit the deliberately let others down "

Life gets in the way at times, and I doubt anyone 'deliberately' lets others down, more likely last minute nerves

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Hmmmmm

Something not quite right here,

as you have blocked men from messaging you!

How can you find a "guy to please the female" if you dont allow messages from them??

"

It'll be so that they can contact the people they're interested in, rather than having an overloaded inbox

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We've given up on private meets because of this

It's so frustrating, all they have to do is at least drop you a message to let you know but instead they go into hiding ECT..

Club meets only for us now

Some are just fantasists especially where meeting couples is concerned "

The irony of opposite scales; I've given up on the club scene because private meets are more reliable for fun for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a spell of organising dogging meets. Invited ten guys at a time. Usually 3-4 turn up. Sometimes none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been stood up three times by the same guy don't know why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've given up on private meets because of this

It's so frustrating, all they have to do is at least drop you a message to let you know but instead they go into hiding ECT..

Club meets only for us now

Some are just fantasists especially where meeting couples is concerned

The irony of opposite scales; I've given up on the club scene because private meets are more reliable for fun for me! "

Wish it was the same for us as we do enjoy private meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been stood up three times by the same guy don't know why? "

Why on earth did you give him a second (and third) chance? Are you a glutton for punishment?

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"I've been stood up three times by the same guy don't know why? "

He prob cant get away from the wife......load of "so called " single men that r playing away....ruins it for us gen ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s even worse when you’ve booked a hotel and they don’t turn up. Bloody joke isn’t it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not married I work in same place as him,I'm just a Muppet for letting it happen 3 times

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"I feel your pain I've just about given up even trying to arrange meets off here"

This

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Can I ask the op, and other couples and ladies on here who have suffered from no shows, did the guys have good veri’s, from various people ?

HG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had more issues off couples in all honesty

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Can I ask the op, and other couples and ladies on here who have suffered from no shows, did the guys have good veri’s, from various people ?

HG

"

Yep

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky


"Can I ask the op, and other couples and ladies on here who have suffered from no shows, did the guys have good veri’s, from various people ?

HG

"

Yes they did excellent veris about what a lovely genuine bloke they were too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask the op, and other couples and ladies on here who have suffered from no shows, did the guys have good veri’s, from various people ?

HG

"

Some yes some no

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Can I ask the op, and other couples and ladies on here who have suffered from no shows, did the guys have good veri’s, from various people ?

HG

Yes they did excellent veris about what a lovely genuine bloke they were too "

Avoid the word genuine . Run for the hills if you see that

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

We have had same with guys not turning up to meet so now arrange to meet at club. Can find fun else where if a no show. It makes it harder for genuine guys to get meets. I've only had one meet alone in ten years of swinging as I can only do daytimes with work. Wife has managed a few more as she has normal working hours, so most of our fun is at club or while on holidays. Ps think they mad not to turn up for meet with your wife

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky


"Can I ask the op, and other couples and ladies on here who have suffered from no shows, did the guys have good veri’s, from various people ?

HG

Yes they did excellent veris about what a lovely genuine bloke they were too

Avoid the word genuine . Run for the hills if you see that "

Good point

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Can I ask the op, and other couples and ladies on here who have suffered from no shows, did the guys have good veri’s, from various people ?

HG

Yes they did excellent veris about what a lovely genuine bloke they were too

Avoid the word genuine . Run for the hills if you see that "

That's me out of the running then.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Shows are fairly common, but its usually the other way around - looking at your profile etc, its hard to understand why you go let down - but move on blocked him and have fun

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

And is it repeated no shows front the same guys?

op I’m surprised you are getting let down, you have a lovely profile

HG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah really fooks it up for us genuine blokes but it's happened to me so not all one-sided

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Fantasy vs reality.

A large selection talk a good game. "
plenty do the talk. Unfortunately only a few actually do the walk. Fabswingers is not the land of make believe which many think it is

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"And is it repeated no shows front the same guys?

HG"

No. I'm in the "one chance only " camp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "

He didn’t turn up to meet you??? Needs shooting!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a no show from a lady a few years ago after I had booked a hotel. And yes it was a lady lol. We had chatted on cam previously.

But yes indeed I think it is mainly men. As said previously, fantasy v reality. But I can honestly I have turned up when arranged. Had a great meet on Saturday after chatting on here and the phone.

In the 7 years I've been using Fab, I've had two letdowns, both single women. I have never let anyone down myself

Is anyone honestly going to come on to a public forum and admit the deliberately let others down "

I have had to let people down before due to work commitments. But am always honest about the fact if I’m on call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he arranged then cancelled, at least he didn't just disappear with no trace.

And as a couple you still have each other. Single guys rarely have the luxury of posting "let down last minute, anyone want to meet?" and can arrange a last minute replacement.

Block, report, move on I'm afraid.

Sometimes life gets in the way and you sometimes have to cancel. The "genuine guys" don't advertise themselves as they don't need to. They just go about their business without a song and dance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had same with guys not turning up to meet so now arrange to meet at club. Can find fun else where if a no show. It makes it harder for genuine guys to get meets. I've only had one meet alone in ten years of swinging as I can only do daytimes with work. Wife has managed a few more as she has normal working hours, so most of our fun is at club or while on holidays. Ps think they mad not to turn up for meet with your wife "

i saw you both in the pub , very nice too she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a lot more time wasters on this account than on my older one.

They set a time and everything and then just ignore messages.

One chance only now. I've not got much spare time (same as anyone else) so it's disappointing to say the least.

I do think they make it harder for genuine guys. You're less likely to believe someone will actually turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had one for years. I'm lucky in that regard. Time wasting isn't gender specific

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I haven't had one for years. I'm lucky in that regard. Time wasting isn't gender specific "

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire


"Can I ask the op, and other couples and ladies on here who have suffered from no shows, did the guys have good veri’s, from various people ?

HG

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We have had 2 no shows and both have been varied but normally we confirm the day before and sometimes we are met with radio silence, really frustrating and agree that at least with clubs you don't get this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had couple of no shows I feel for the wife as she puts effort into getting ready and when they don’t show she takes it personally and puts her self down. When they can’t even be bothered to apologise after really gets my back up.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

we have had 2 no shows from couples we meet in clubs from now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't had one for years. I'm lucky in that regard. Time wasting isn't gender specific "

As above, plenty of female ‘no shows’ too.

I can see why you would never have a no show, Holly! Pity I’m unable to contact you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had one guy not turn up but suspected he might not when I got a message to say he was running late with his darts match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find these posts quite funny. All the 'genuine' guys on here!

The other thing that makes me think, is the fact it's always the guys fault. Not the fact that the couples/females selection process failed. Especially with so many genuine males on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew I thought this was about trades people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive just realised its been 8 years off and on ive been on here.

Never had a no show that i can remember a few meets cancled in advance but thats about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's crazy - the amount of people that complain about no response to messages but then don't follow through with an opportunity!"
totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah no shows are not very nice.

I prefer to talk on the phone and also a social meet.

It’s not set in stone though, just depends if I get a feeling that they might not be genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get people to meet me in my street i give them my postcode and wait. The amount of times i have sat waiting for a no show is ridiculous.then do i wait and wait around? Or do i try and get another meet and risk two meets turning up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i get people to meet me in my street i give them my postcode and wait. The amount of times i have sat waiting for a no show is ridiculous.then do i wait and wait around? Or do i try and get another meet and risk two meets turning up?"

Im surprised people go for that. I certainly wouldn't travel with just a post code unless it was a 5 miniute walk away city center thing.

Seems like a great easy to get mugged

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Give me the chance , I would turn up providing we had a firm arrangement to meet...!!

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"No not married I work in same place as him,I'm just a Muppet for letting it happen 3 times "

Glutton for punishment.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "

And with the amount of men on here that moan about they can't even get a reply back from Couples or single ladies, and then not turn up to a meet. Selfish bastards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I feel your pain I've just about given up even trying to arrange meets off here"

Getting that way ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough! "

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird."

How about the guys who automatically assume they're talking to the female half of the couple. "Weird"? It's weird when I, Clyde, open a message from a straight single male asking if I fancy a fuck or some oral.

You were saying?

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By *he Vital SparkMan
over a year ago

Preston


"some real muppets on here and they give the decent guys a bad name..grr

No they don't,if anything they make it easier on the "decent"guys"

True , but how do you get to know us decent guys? Probably best to meet future meets in a club environment first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op message me your filters are on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some real muppets on here and they give the decent guys a bad name..grr

No they don't,if anything they make it easier on the "decent"guys

True , but how do you get to know us decent guys? Probably best to meet future meets in a club environment first. "

We find it easy enough just by chatting to folk.

Soon becomes clear what their agenda is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female

You’re talking to the wrong guys "

Never had a guy not turn up so yes you’re picking the wrong people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird.

How about the guys who automatically assume they're talking to the female half of the couple. "Weird"? It's weird when I, Clyde, open a message from a straight single male asking if I fancy a fuck or some oral.

You were saying?"

For many couples i assume thats because all the pics are of the female and in your case i assume its because the missues says she plays alone most of the time.

I suppose you could solve that by daying its you who is answering messages. But that will probbaly put a lot of guys off as it can be very weird talking to a fella about meeting the female half whem you know shes not involved in the conversation.

Never happened to me but theres quite a few horror stories on here from single guys and single women turning up and the female half having no clue about it or being pressured into it.

You come across super hostile in your replies here though so quite possible the people who read profiles pass you by and your left with the dregs?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse"
Thought you were Bi anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grrrrrrrrr

Soooooo bloody annnoying

Shame on them! Karma will catch them.

Mrs ap x

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By *ittlevixenWoman
over a year ago

Mold North Wales


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "

It’s rife isn’t it. We gave up in the end. Just go to clubs now.

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"I always find these posts quite funny. All the 'genuine' guys on here!

The other thing that makes me think, is the fact it's always the guys fault. Not the fact that the couples/females selection process failed. Especially with so many genuine males on here! "

There is definitely that aspect that gets missed.

Not to be a bitch about it, but I heard a saying “if this is happening that often, look at the common denominator”....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't forget.

Women and couples have been known not to turn up too.

Just for the sake of balance.

A"

Had more than my fair share of these.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse"

Performing seal? What a snowflake! Of course a single guy is expected to perform. To be invited to share a mans wife/partner is a massive privilege that many would love to have. With that attitude im surprised youve met any couples. We tell our guys exactly whats required, they are total sex toys to enhance our relationship and they are always very happy with what they receive in return as our veris show. As far as not knowing who you are talking to goes, its a couples profile so should be addressed to both.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "

They need there head read if they didn’t turn up the way your mrs looks. She is stunning I would love to be lucky enough if you had invited myself. I am also local ish to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse

Performing seal? What a snowflake! Of course a single guy is expected to perform. To be invited to share a mans wife/partner is a massive privilege that many would love to have. With that attitude im surprised youve met any couples. We tell our guys exactly whats required, they are total sex toys to enhance our relationship and they are always very happy with what they receive in return as our veris show. As far as not knowing who you are talking to goes, its a couples profile so should be addressed to both."

Yep you do have a very specific requirement and in no way what i was talking about, i didnt mean in the bed room

However i do have a bit more self respect than to do the ludicrous hoop jumping some couples require to even get to a meet.

And as for addressing both thats all well and good but without knowing whos replying to me its very easy to end up in awkward situations or very obvious ones where its hubby having a wank fantasy and nothing ever comming of it.

People always say communicstion is key but it seems asking for open transparent communication is taboo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully agree, being given the opportunity for fun and make excuses. We must not forget those couples who don't turn up also, but ask for pictures.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Fully agree, being given the opportunity for fun and make excuses. We must not forget those couples who don't turn up also, but ask for pictures. "

Or women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse Thought you were Bi anyway?"

What does him being bi have to do with anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to meet through personals ads and contact magazines back in the day, far fewer no shows and time wasters I think possibly because you had to put some effort in, writing letters, getting photos, self addressed envelopes, posting it all off. Its far to easy to sign up to a site nowadays and talk tripe. It might seem the internet would be quicker but you could still end up meeting people far quicker the old way than you can on here with some of the marathon chats and hoops people try and put others through to prove their real.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "

Last weekend went to 2 parties with my partner and had loads of fun, Monday we have arranged a hotel meet with 2 fellas (both whom I've met before) both don't turn up and the rest of the evening my partner wasted his time talking to a lot of fantasists who didn't show up either.

Bless him he made me cum lots of times but was hoping to watch me with other men.

It happens unfortunately but it's so funny the amount of men who complain they can't get a meet.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse Thought you were Bi anyway?

What does him being bi have to do with anything?"
Just surprised he is moaning about bi play when I'm pretty sure he used to be bi on his old profile. Maybe I'm wrong but that isn't often.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female

Last weekend went to 2 parties with my partner and had loads of fun, Monday we have arranged a hotel meet with 2 fellas (both whom I've met before) both don't turn up and the rest of the evening my partner wasted his time talking to a lot of fantasists who didn't show up either.

Bless him he made me cum lots of times but was hoping to watch me with other men.

It happens unfortunately but it's so funny the amount of men who complain they can't get a meet. "

You would have thought they would have turned up or let you know as once you have met people they become real and should be treated that way. If you didn’t enjoy the Pre meet you would just make a excuse about not being able to come not just don’t show as that’s rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse Thought you were Bi anyway?

What does him being bi have to do with anything? Just surprised he is moaning about bi play when I'm pretty sure he used to be bi on his old profile. Maybe I'm wrong but that isn't often."

bi and straight guys are interchangeable on Fab....

So he can be bi and not want bi play from a couple...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What started as a guys that turned up thread, quickly escalated into a boohoo thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse Thought you were Bi anyway?

What does him being bi have to do with anything? Just surprised he is moaning about bi play when I'm pretty sure he used to be bi on his old profile. Maybe I'm wrong but that isn't often."

So you'll fuck literally any woman regardless of looks personality etc?

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse

Performing seal? What a snowflake! Of course a single guy is expected to perform. To be invited to share a mans wife/partner is a massive privilege that many would love to have. With that attitude im surprised youve met any couples. We tell our guys exactly whats required, they are total sex toys to enhance our relationship and they are always very happy with what they receive in return as our veris show. As far as not knowing who you are talking to goes, its a couples profile so should be addressed to both."

I can understand why some men would be put off by that attitude tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain I've just about given up even trying to arrange meets off here"

WTF????? Happy to meet half way in a heart beat???

Seriously if I go beyond a thirty mile radius I turn into a pumpkin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its. Just fab everywhere no genuian ppl or its profiles advertising clubs.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "
We t girls have the same problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain I've just about given up even trying to arrange meets off here"

Love to meet up with you totty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its agreed then you turn up simple or at least have the decency to let the other person know you cant make it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he arranged then cancelled, at least he didn't just disappear with no trace.

And as a couple you still have each other. Single guys rarely have the luxury of posting "let down last minute, anyone want to meet?" and can arrange a last minute replacement.

Block, report, move on I'm afraid.

Sometimes life gets in the way and you sometimes have to cancel. The "genuine guys" don't advertise themselves as they don't need to. They just go about their business without a song and dance."

Interesting post ft

Please describe a single guy who doesn't have to say he's genuine

Is that one of those who's married but on here cheating on his wife then cause you've got me now

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse Thought you were Bi anyway?

What does him being bi have to do with anything? Just surprised he is moaning about bi play when I'm pretty sure he used to be bi on his old profile. Maybe I'm wrong but that isn't often.

So you'll fuck literally any woman regardless of looks personality etc?

Interesting"
Memory of an elephant me no, I think my veris prove I don't.

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By *erynaughtyMan
over a year ago

Derby

I've made every meet I've arranged with one exception when the road was gridlocked following a serious accident. I feel really lucky to get the chance to meet ladies who want the same as I do, can't understand why anyone 'bottles' it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse Thought you were Bi anyway?

What does him being bi have to do with anything? Just surprised he is moaning about bi play when I'm pretty sure he used to be bi on his old profile. Maybe I'm wrong but that isn't often.

So you'll fuck literally any woman regardless of looks personality etc?

Interesting Memory of an elephant me no, I think my veris prove I don't. "

Yes , you’re a former Bbw lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmmm

Something not quite right here,

as you have blocked men from messaging you!

How can you find a "guy to please the female" if you dont allow messages from them??

It'll be so that they can contact the people they're interested in, rather than having an overloaded inbox "

Think this fellas sussed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made every meet I've arranged with one exception when the road was gridlocked following a serious accident. I feel really lucky to get the chance to meet ladies who want the same as I do, can't understand why anyone 'bottles' it "

No excuse tbh pal

Still got legs haven't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made every meet I've arranged with one exception when the road was gridlocked following a serious accident. I feel really lucky to get the chance to meet ladies who want the same as I do, can't understand why anyone 'bottles' it

No excuse tbh pal

Still got legs haven't you "

This made me laugh a little more than it should have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "

Just a thought op

And strike me down with thunder

But Please her yourself ?

*perhaps have a brad Pitt lifesize cut out to make it more interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made every meet I've arranged with one exception when the road was gridlocked following a serious accident. I feel really lucky to get the chance to meet ladies who want the same as I do, can't understand why anyone 'bottles' it

No excuse tbh pal

Still got legs haven't you

This made me laugh a little more than it should have "

Always aim to please little Welsh hottie xx

*also a few lagers in and 3 j/bombs

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By *dge of HeavenMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Yes very few of us real men around! (he says open to offers)

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not married I work in same place as him,I'm just a Muppet for letting it happen 3 times "

Sorry to sound harsh...but yes...you are

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse Thought you were Bi anyway?

What does him being bi have to do with anything? Just surprised he is moaning about bi play when I'm pretty sure he used to be bi on his old profile. Maybe I'm wrong but that isn't often.

So you'll fuck literally any woman regardless of looks personality etc?

Interesting Memory of an elephant me no, I think my veris prove I don't.

Yes , you’re a former Bbw lover"
Only in your eyes because over size 12 is a Bbw to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always find these posts quite funny. All the 'genuine' guys on here!

The other thing that makes me think, is the fact it's always the guys fault. Not the fact that the couples/females selection process failed. Especially with so many genuine males on here!

There is definitely that aspect that gets missed.

Not to be a bitch about it, but I heard a saying “if this is happening that often, look at the common denominator”.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys do seem pretty bad i have had several journeys wasted latest one just before crimbo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's the thing sometimes things change.

A few weeks ago someone asked me for a meet. I said I love to.

They told me that they get back to me.

So i sat in bag packed etc.

9 hrs later friends asked me out so I went out with them.

2 hrs later I got a mail we free now.

I sent back sorry am not free now.

Blocked and called a time waster.

They asked around 11in the morning.

Got back at around 10 at night.

I mean how long do you sit around waiting for the call?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you got an excuse..even if it was lame. We had one guy message to say he was leaving and would be about an hour an then never arrive.

A few weeks ago i got left sitting in the pub for an hour on my own waiting for a guy that never showed.

Lame excuses are bad enough, but worse is when they let you actually go to the meet but they never show

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think sometimes they talk themselves up too much then chicken out as they don't think they'll live up to it.

I've also had a guy stand me up once because he thought I was going to stand him up so didn't even bother getting ready haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse

Performing seal? What a snowflake! Of course a single guy is expected to perform. To be invited to share a mans wife/partner is a massive privilege that many would love to have. With that attitude im surprised youve met any couples. We tell our guys exactly whats required, they are total sex toys to enhance our relationship and they are always very happy with what they receive in return as our veris show. As far as not knowing who you are talking to goes, its a couples profile so should be addressed to both."

Totally disagree with you Mr slave

I view it as me doing you a favour

Else you really wouldn't be looking for single guys I'm afraid

Give me a sexy naughty n thrilling single lady any day of the week

Not so many of those hoops to jump through

And also cheaper at the bar on the round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's the thing sometimes things change.

A few weeks ago someone asked me for a meet. I said I love to.

They told me that they get back to me.

So i sat in bag packed etc.

9 hrs later friends asked me out so I went out with them.

2 hrs later I got a mail we free now.

I sent back sorry am not free now.

Blocked and called a time waster.

They asked around 11in the morning.

Got back at around 10 at night.

I mean how long do you sit around waiting for the call?"

Cheeky bar steward cindi

That is disgusting behaviour x

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"Can I ask the op, and other couples and ladies on here who have suffered from no shows, did the guys have good veri’s, from various people ?

HG

Yes they did excellent veris about what a lovely genuine bloke they were too

Avoid the word genuine . Run for the hills if you see that "

My due diligence / walk away markers include verifications saying:

“genuine”

“down to earth”

“treat with respect”

“any kind of privacy disclaimer” and

“any drug references”

I also check the veris of the people who’ve left them in the same manner. Seems to work for me, as I average one “no show” a year.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse

Performing seal? What a snowflake! Of course a single guy is expected to perform. To be invited to share a mans wife/partner is a massive privilege that many would love to have. With that attitude im surprised youve met any couples. We tell our guys exactly whats required, they are total sex toys to enhance our relationship and they are always very happy with what they receive in return as our veris show. As far as not knowing who you are talking to goes, its a couples profile so should be addressed to both.

Totally disagree with you Mr slave

I view it as me doing you a favour

Else you really wouldn't be looking for single guys I'm afraid

Give me a sexy naughty n thrilling single lady any day of the week

Not so many of those hoops to jump through

And also cheaper at the bar on the round "

I also disagree. I would never treat anybody as a sex toy. Everybody I get into bed with whether alone or with others/partners is a person in their own right that deserves respect and isn't just there to perform for me. It's a shared experience for everyone's enjoyment.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I think sometimes they talk themselves up too much then chicken out as they don't think they'll live up to it.

I've also had a guy stand me up once because he thought I was going to stand him up so didn't even bother getting ready haha!"
They normally have a better offer is the truth.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think sometimes they talk themselves up too much then chicken out as they don't think they'll live up to it.

I've also had a guy stand me up once because he thought I was going to stand him up so didn't even bother getting ready haha! They normally have a better offer is the truth."

Yay. You again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made every meet I've arranged with one exception when the road was gridlocked following a serious accident. I feel really lucky to get the chance to meet ladies who want the same as I do, can't understand why anyone 'bottles' it

No excuse tbh pal

Still got legs haven't you

This made me laugh a little more than it should have

Always aim to please little Welsh hottie xx

*also a few lagers in and 3 j/bombs "

Is someone a little pissed then?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I think sometimes they talk themselves up too much then chicken out as they don't think they'll live up to it.

I've also had a guy stand me up once because he thought I was going to stand him up so didn't even bother getting ready haha! They normally have a better offer is the truth.

Yay. You again."
Hello stranger.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think sometimes they talk themselves up too much then chicken out as they don't think they'll live up to it.

I've also had a guy stand me up once because he thought I was going to stand him up so didn't even bother getting ready haha! They normally have a better offer is the truth.

Yay. You again. Hello stranger. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made every meet I've arranged with one exception when the road was gridlocked following a serious accident. I feel really lucky to get the chance to meet ladies who want the same as I do, can't understand why anyone 'bottles' it

No excuse tbh pal

Still got legs haven't you

This made me laugh a little more than it should have

Always aim to please little Welsh hottie xx

*also a few lagers in and 3 j/bombs

Is someone a little pissed then? "

Ont at lal dty I'm na alcopopic

Tic

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I think sometimes they talk themselves up too much then chicken out as they don't think they'll live up to it.

I've also had a guy stand me up once because he thought I was going to stand him up so didn't even bother getting ready haha! They normally have a better offer is the truth.

Yay. You again. Hello stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "

I think you meant the “right guy” because let’s admit it, the line up here leaves everyone with a sour taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made every meet I've arranged with one exception when the road was gridlocked following a serious accident. I feel really lucky to get the chance to meet ladies who want the same as I do, can't understand why anyone 'bottles' it

No excuse tbh pal

Still got legs haven't you

This made me laugh a little more than it should have

Always aim to please little Welsh hottie xx

*also a few lagers in and 3 j/bombs

Is someone a little pissed then? "

Anyway lick n fuck all night long or is this the wrong thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made every meet I've arranged with one exception when the road was gridlocked following a serious accident. I feel really lucky to get the chance to meet ladies who want the same as I do, can't understand why anyone 'bottles' it

No excuse tbh pal

Still got legs haven't you

This made me laugh a little more than it should have

Always aim to please little Welsh hottie xx

*also a few lagers in and 3 j/bombs

Is someone a little pissed then?

Anyway lick n fuck all night long or is this the wrong thread "

Well that's what the OP was hoping for. So kind of the right thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made every meet I've arranged with one exception when the road was gridlocked following a serious accident. I feel really lucky to get the chance to meet ladies who want the same as I do, can't understand why anyone 'bottles' it

No excuse tbh pal

Still got legs haven't you

This made me laugh a little more than it should have

Always aim to please little Welsh hottie xx

*also a few lagers in and 3 j/bombs

Is someone a little pissed then?

Anyway lick n fuck all night long or is this the wrong thread

Well that's what the OP was hoping for. So kind of the right thread? "

*nods head

**In a slightly d*unken

stupor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its also hard going for us genuine single guys for the same reasons more or less i know im not hot but it turns out im the fab equivalent of the plague lol not to say i havnt met people on here but that was in the beginning i must be stale now

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By *igstu66Man
over a year ago

Guildford

It's not exclusive to guys...been stood up twice....one cost me a hotel.. it's fab but really....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female

Last weekend went to 2 parties with my partner and had loads of fun, Monday we have arranged a hotel meet with 2 fellas (both whom I've met before) both don't turn up and the rest of the evening my partner wasted his time talking to a lot of fantasists who didn't show up either.

Bless him he made me cum lots of times but was hoping to watch me with other men.

It happens unfortunately but it's so funny the amount of men who complain they can't get a meet. "

If I looked you I don't expect I would have too many problems getting meets either

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Cannot even get to chat let alone a meet.

I'm a genuine guy that will turn up if invited I'm clean and smell good but I'm fed of of time wasters on here tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot even get to chat let alone a meet.

I'm a genuine guy that will turn up if invited I'm clean and smell good but I'm fed of of time wasters on here tbh."

First thing about genuine club pal ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot even get to chat let alone a meet.

I'm a genuine guy that will turn up if invited I'm clean and smell good but I'm fed of of time wasters on here tbh."

Most guys on here are genuine guys. Who would want to be a fake guy on here? They are the main ones who struggle to get a bite, because of the ratios

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is just my personal opinion and I mean no disrespect to anybody. I think are a lot of guys who come on here thinking a meet is an easy way to save them a wank sock. When they realise that a bit of 'effort' is required, then they have second thoughts and back out.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Here's the thing sometimes things change.

A few weeks ago someone asked me for a meet. I said I love to.

They told me that they get back to me.

So i sat in bag packed etc.

9 hrs later friends asked me out so I went out with them.

2 hrs later I got a mail we free now.

I sent back sorry am not free now.

Blocked and called a time waster.

They asked around 11in the morning.

Got back at around 10 at night.

I mean how long do you sit around waiting for the call?"

You don't. Agree a time and place. I've got to that point in a conversation and the miraculously disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse

Performing seal? What a snowflake! Of course a single guy is expected to perform. To be invited to share a mans wife/partner is a massive privilege that many would love to have. With that attitude im surprised youve met any couples. We tell our guys exactly whats required, they are total sex toys to enhance our relationship and they are always very happy with what they receive in return as our veris show. As far as not knowing who you are talking to goes, its a couples profile so should be addressed to both.

Totally disagree with you Mr slave

I view it as me doing you a favour

Else you really wouldn't be looking for single guys I'm afraid

Give me a sexy naughty n thrilling single lady any day of the week

Not so many of those hoops to jump through

And also cheaper at the bar on the round "

You haven't even read the post or profile correctly *yawn* It was written by Mrs, who is the Slave. I wouldn't worry your pretty little head, you won't be invited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse

Performing seal? What a snowflake! Of course a single guy is expected to perform. To be invited to share a mans wife/partner is a massive privilege that many would love to have. With that attitude im surprised youve met any couples. We tell our guys exactly whats required, they are total sex toys to enhance our relationship and they are always very happy with what they receive in return as our veris show. As far as not knowing who you are talking to goes, its a couples profile so should be addressed to both.

Totally disagree with you Mr slave

I view it as me doing you a favour

Else you really wouldn't be looking for single guys I'm afraid

Give me a sexy naughty n thrilling single lady any day of the week

Not so many of those hoops to jump through

And also cheaper at the bar on the round

I also disagree. I would never treat anybody as a sex toy. Everybody I get into bed with whether alone or with others/partners is a person in their own right that deserves respect and isn't just there to perform for me. It's a shared experience for everyone's enjoyment."

Good for you. But this is a swinging site! This is our kink, we make it absolutely clear what we require and we have plenty of takers. Surely thats exactly what swinging is about, each to their own.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough!

A lot of couples dont help themselves in the fact they either expect a bloke to be a performing seal or they have appalling communication skills. You often dont know who your talking to or you only end up talking to one and it can often get weird. I can see why some guys ghost.

Plus a hellll lf a lot of couples will spring 5 kins before the meet "btw we expect bi play" not saying anyone here is doing that but its something thats happened a few times to me (if im traveling i always stop at a nearby services on my way to check messages so i dont end up too far away when i get that message.)

Which is an instant "ok im not comming then" followed by a barrage of timewaster abuse

Performing seal? What a snowflake! Of course a single guy is expected to perform. To be invited to share a mans wife/partner is a massive privilege that many would love to have. With that attitude im surprised youve met any couples. We tell our guys exactly whats required, they are total sex toys to enhance our relationship and they are always very happy with what they receive in return as our veris show. As far as not knowing who you are talking to goes, its a couples profile so should be addressed to both.

Totally disagree with you Mr slave

I view it as me doing you a favour

Else you really wouldn't be looking for single guys I'm afraid

Give me a sexy naughty n thrilling single lady any day of the week

Not so many of those hoops to jump through

And also cheaper at the bar on the round

You haven't even read the post or profile correctly *yawn* It was written by Mrs, who is the Slave. I wouldn't worry your pretty little head, you won't be invited."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "

Jesus what’s wrong with these men.

If only I lived in Northampton!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im surprised people say its life getting in the way/things happen. Lets face it, with guys they often get so excited at the thought of a couples meet, the wanks enough! "

Yes wank would be enough for me

Not a big fan of bbw's or the master/slave thing tbh

Also after I'd finished with her slave would have a new master

And wouldn't want you to be unemployed

Blocked

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"This is why clubs are better, you never know what you’re getting anyway with fab so better in a social environment incase you don’t click and if it’s a no show plenty of others to pick from."

Totally agree. We have found it easier to then have private meets with people, as we’ve met them at Clubs and recognised that they also get what swinging is. & it makes for a great night out going to a nice Club

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

We have totally blocked all guys sending messages to us now as they don't read the profile or send dum messages. The meets we have arranged with guys in the past are pointless, they simply disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few no shows from women, and let down continuously by a few tv ladies we were chatting to so rarely contact re meets now. Men have proved to be unreliable re bukkake meets, guess the fact that other men are there gets to the nerves in the end. Some also want more and the fact we won’t change our minds when they ask last minute puts them off I guess.

It’s annoying as Viv spends time getting ready (like anyone) and we’ve spent money on a hotel let down, to travel closer to a woman who wanted to meet us, spent money getting in selection of drinks (soft and alcoholic) and sorted childcare and cleaned and refilled the hot tub.

A message to say sorry but can’t make it takes two seconds. You’re messaging one profile! xx

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

Given men up on this site for good, couples only now. Some Men are desperate and sad wankers and fantasists and we have no desire to meet them and

Now it saves time in deleting the pathetic messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a shame chaps.......

We could have gone for beers

Chatted football

And had some men hugs

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By *istnbroke69Man
over a year ago

Cheshire / Shropshire

I certainly would turn up if arranged meets, ladies we ain't all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP, but it isn't just males that are guilty of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I certainly would turn up if arranged meets, ladies we ain't all the same "

Obvs the first guy to say this yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cannot even get to chat let alone a meet."

Your verifications do not concur with this statement?

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By *utonguy2023Man
over a year ago

luton

This is what annoys me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is what annoys me"

What's that then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a meet to be able to turn up to

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"I would love a meet to be able to turn up to "

Well you'd need to put more effort in to interest people then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh trust me I have put in LOADS of effort. But I am one of 6 million guys on here haha

It’s fine I’ll be patient

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "

You're asking the wrong people. I've played down as far as 37yr old, and always ready to go lower. I NEVER renage on a meet.

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"Fantasy vs reality.

A large selection talk a good game. "

Even more talk absolute crap ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making life hard for the rest of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has literally just happened again to us tonight!!!

That’s three blokes in the last 4 months!

It baffles me- why put in all the effort?

We’ve now come to the conclusion that they’re playing here hidden.

Grrrrr

Mrs P x

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

We have now filtered out guys from this site altogether as they are a complete waste of time in every sense.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "

It’s almost as frustrating as actually getting a meet arranged in the first place!

Jeez, guys...go through all of that and don’t show!? You need your heads seeing to!!

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I've had a few meets from here over the years and never been stood up yet. I guess that may be down to good luck as much as anything else though - or may by I'm just too goddam unmissable... nah, good luck it is then.


"Don't forget.

Women and couples have been known not to turn up too.

Just for the sake of balance.

A"

I imagine you're probably quite right.

BTW - I'm sure I recognise you from years ago... didn't you once go by the name 'Obi Have' back in the day?

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn

This kind of thread makes my piss boil!

First off, do not let the frauds, the fakes, the kids pretending to be blokes etc etc put people off from meeting the genuine guys looking for a meet.

Did you contact them prior, have they verifications, do they look genuine, have you spoken to them on kik, video chat on kik also, do they sound real.

A picture of a hunk, breathing through his ears with a 10” cock, black when he needs to be, drives a Ferrari etc is highly unlikely to be the real thing.

Do your homework, be harder on them, make them work for it , the fakes will fall by the side.

I have never stood anyone up, or indeed been stood up.

I would say 10 % of men’s profiles are actually the real deal so please hang in there for the genuine guys.

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor


"Wtf is wrong with people these days?

Arrange a meet, take time out of the day to meet these people before you go ahead with anything and then they make up some excuse not to show!

Is it so hard these days to find a guy to come and please the female "

It can be the woman that are no shows too

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm


"This kind of thread makes my piss boil!

First off, do not let the frauds, the fakes, the kids pretending to be blokes etc etc put people off from meeting the genuine guys looking for a meet.

Did you contact them prior, have they verifications, do they look genuine, have you spoken to them on kik, video chat on kik also, do they sound real.

A picture of a hunk, breathing through his ears with a 10” cock, black when he needs to be, drives a Ferrari etc is highly unlikely to be the real thing.

Do your homework, be harder on them, make them work for it , the fakes will fall by the side.

I have never stood anyone up, or indeed been stood up.

I would say 10 % of men’s profiles are actually the real deal so please hang in there for the genuine guys.

"

Yes we have had numerous messages and texts before a meet, they are verified but comes the day they just disappear of the radar for a week. Only on this site though as not on other sites were on, and couples do turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been let down tonight,fully verified,chatted lots on & off site. 3 days ago like magic he stopped chatting he's not been on site & kiks gone silent..shit happens.

No second chances

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish


"some real muppets on here and they give the decent guys a bad name..grr"

This is so true and annoying in the extreme !

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