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Am I Missing Something In The Messaging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have I a missed a feature in the messaging on here.

The number of people who ask you to send multiple pics, face pic, body pic, cock pic, et al with your initial message.

From what I can see you can attach a single picture to a message, and if you try to send multiple messages with picture on each the site warns you of sending unanswered messages.

Is that me misunderstanding or have these people not understood how the messaging works.

It would be useful if I am correct to change the messaging to allow 2 or 3 pics instead of the 1 it is limited to at the moment.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You can send multiple pictures in a message (I'm pretty sure that that's not just a site supporter feature).

But in any case, I think the stop think warning is for those who are ignoring boundaries (lack of reply, wrong gender, etc).

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The stop think message shows when you try to message someone that has not replied to your previous message(s).

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The stop think message shows when you try to message someone that has not replied to your previous message(s)."

Yes, but I think he's trying to send multiple pictures in multiple messages. So if he sends message one with picture one, he'll get the warning for pictures two on. Even though it's one attempt at communication.

(I didn't try to send photos before I became a site supporter, so I don't know if you can't without)

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"if you try to send multiple messages with picture on each the site warns you of sending unanswered messages."

There's your problem. Don't send multiple messages. At least give them a chance to reply first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The stop think message shows when you try to message someone that has not replied to your previous message(s).

Yes, but I think he's trying to send multiple pictures in multiple messages. So if he sends message one with picture one, he'll get the warning for pictures two on. Even though it's one attempt at communication.

(I didn't try to send photos before I became a site supporter, so I don't know if you can't without) "

I'll send you some to see what he means .. Lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aha I see now, its on the mobile site when I upload a picture straight from my phone, that is the only picture I can send, if I use pics on the site that's fine, I can select multiple of those, but if I choose direct from phone that is the only one I can send with that message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am a site supporter.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"The stop think message shows when you try to message someone that has not replied to your previous message(s).

Yes, but I think he's trying to send multiple pictures in multiple messages. So if he sends message one with picture one, he'll get the warning for pictures two on. Even though it's one attempt at communication.

(I didn't try to send photos before I became a site supporter, so I don't know if you can't without) "

I think your right, but even so if the other party doesnt reply he will still get the stop think message because he is sending multiple messages without a reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At the end of the day it makes little difference anyway, the message(s) get read and ignored or read and deleted, either way that's the end of that communication

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

You can only attach one direct photo but as far as I'm aware of many of those from your galleries as you wished

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you that is the conclusion I cam to, nice to have it confirmed.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

On mobile site, on messages

Above subject box is add direct photo, 1 from device and 1 only

Below message box is add from gallery, doesn't matter if the pics are public, friend only or hidden, you can add multiple in 1 message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I get what’s happening, are you sending the pictures directly from your phone? The site will only allow one picture at a time that way but if you load some to your profile you can send multiple in one message, you don’t have to put them as public, you can set them as private if you prefer

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"At the end of the day it makes little difference anyway, the message(s) get read and ignored or read and deleted, either way that's the end of that communication "

That's just going to depend on peoples preferences and how well they perceive you as the right match. With a great choice of men here, you're probably doing the right thing to send the pics they are requesting, to optimize your chances.

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