FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi there im finally confident enough to dip my toe into the world of clubs has anyone got any tips or advice firwa club virgin many thanks in advance

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi there im finally confident enough to dip my toe into the world of clubs has anyone got any tips or advice firwa club virgin many thanks in advance "

Most important bit of advice is to manage your expectations. If you go along to a club for the first time expecting to play ten you could end u being disappointed.

Be polite and friendly and talk to everyone regardless of if you want to play with them or not. Treat it as an opportunity for kinky networking and just be super chilled. Remember it's nearly always harder for single men at clubs.

So main points are have reasonable expectations, be relaxed, be friendly and approachable.

Wherever you go for your first time let staff no your new and ask to be given a tour of the club.Don't put to much pressure on yourself the first time and you'll be fine and enjoy yourself.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheers mate appreciate the advice bit daunting being my first time but hay thanks "

Yeah only natural to be anxious the first time you go to a club. Try checking the meets on here and put a status up to see if anyone else is going and would like to meet for a social drink beforehand maybe.

Best of luck!

By *ollypop2000Woman
over a year ago

Derby

I don't know if this will be of any help to you but purple mamba club in Nottingham do a single gentleman workshop and newbies workshop? If it's to far from you it might be worth checking your local clubs websites and seeing if they do something similar.