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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do women search for men and when found one that tickles their fancy message them or is it the mans job.

Do men log into their account and have 100 messages waiting to be read or 499 winks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never even use the search facility. I occasionally respond to a status but not usually with any real intent. Just if it's funny etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do look at who's nearby & have messaged first, I've also messaged newbies if I like their profile as I've got message filters blocking them from messaging me first.

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby


"I do look at who's nearby & have messaged first, I've also messaged newbies if I like their profile as I've got message filters blocking them from messaging me first."

That's not true, you've never messaged me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do look at who's nearby & have messaged first, I've also messaged newbies if I like their profile as I've got message filters blocking them from messaging me first."

This

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"Do women search for men and when found one that tickles their fancy message them or is it the mans job.

Do men log into their account and have 100 messages waiting to be read or 499 winks?"

Neither. I feel like it’s Christmas if a woman has even looked at my profile. Haven’t had one wink, not that I’m too bothered.

Onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do look at who's nearby & have messaged first, I've also messaged newbies if I like their profile as I've got message filters blocking them from messaging me first.

That's not true, you've never messaged me! "

Because you're married

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"I do look at who's nearby & have messaged first, I've also messaged newbies if I like their profile as I've got message filters blocking them from messaging me first.

That's not true, you've never messaged me!

Because you're married "

Boom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had lady (i assume, she had no pictures) ask if I want to make love and then went missing.

When I saw that in my inbox, I run up my street naked celebrating.

That was a waste lol

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"Do women search for men and when found one that tickles their fancy message them or is it the mans job.

Do men log into their account and have 100 messages waiting to be read or 499 winks?"

I get women message me. No where near 100 obviously, but I get a few a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by my inbox, men are expected to do the chase in my opinion.

Then again,it could be my shit profile to blame

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I message guys if I think I can help them with fab queries ect, pretty sure it's never appreciated though

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Do women search for men and when found one that tickles their fancy message them or is it the mans job.

Do men log into their account and have 100 messages waiting to be read or 499 winks?"

Yes, single women, and couples, do search for single men and initiate contact. Some of the profiles are actually genuine and some even meet up and have sex with you.

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By *rBBMrsLDCouple
over a year ago

Seaford

We have searched before

Certainly wink a guy when we are looking for some fun and message first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had more messages since I have hidden my profile than I did when it was showing! Must have been the ultimate in crap profiles

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

things improved since I put my face photo on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I search, I find, I message, if they don't message back I know they aren't interested, simple really.

Jo.Xx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I have in the past messaged men,if someone really takes my fancy

Not many do nowadays sadly....

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